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Hello dear reader, I'm GiA G, I'm a qleasure creator based in Amsterdam. I am in endless discovery and exploration of qleasure, sensuality and connection. Even though I have been in this practice for almost 5 years, I feel this journey works best when we have beginners-mind, leaving all pre-conceived notions where they are and starting from where we are. I offer diverse practices and options. I am available for one-on-one pleasure explorations. - do you want to focus on what pleasure means to you? - do you want to feel what pleasure feels like in your body? - are you open to commit to a journey of meetings? I am available for compaignonship. - i offer a lot of different kink and fetish options: ask me, tell me your fantasy, so we can make it reality ;) - i offer vanilla gfe dates - i have a sliding scale for queer people and women (shyness is normal, but i promise i don't bite ;) unless you want me too...) I organize workshops called Pleasure Nights - this is a series of four nights, over the course of a month, in which we come together with a group of people to research, un-cover, and practice qleasure. For more information, email me or follow @pleasurenights on instagram (website is in the making) PORN - i LOVE making movies that depict hotness, sensuality and desire; you can find them on different platforms, email me to know where ;) - i always am down to do collabs!!! (only serious offers ;)) - want to make your own? let me know, for an added price we can make something nice out of our date ;) I hope you have a little idea of who I am and what I offer, i hope you write me Sending lots of love and qleasure GiA G
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What is discretion?
'Discretion' labelled on a Sensuali profile usually means that a Sensualist values their discretion or will value your discretion if needed. This means that they will make sure that the time you spend together is private and discreet, and will expect the same from you.
What makes it hot?
Respecting privacy has the ability to make an experience a lot more intimate. Knowing that your interaction is something that stays strictly between the two of you can build trust and bring you closer together as well as enhancing excitement. When somebody tags discretion on their profile, you can rest assured that this Sensualist will value your privacy by seeing the interaction as something totally separate from your 'normal' lives.
Discuss and establish a plan for handling public encounters to maintain discretion. This may involve having a discreet signal or prearranged response to ensure both partners are on the same page and comfortable navigating such situations.
Trust is paramount in maintaining discretion. Both partners need to trust that the agreed-upon boundaries will be respected. Open communication about feelings, concerns, and expectations helps build and reinforce trust over time.
Yes, discretion needs can evolve. Regularly reassess and communicate about your comfort levels and expectations. Be open to adapting boundaries as the relationship progresses to ensure that both partners remain on the same page.
DO
Communicate expectations clearly: Clearly communicate about the level of discretion both of you desire. Discuss boundaries, privacy preferences, and expectations regarding sharing relationship details with others.
Establish trust: Build a foundation of trust. Trust is crucial when discretion is valued, as it ensures that both people feel confident that their personal information will be handled with care and respect.
Respect privacy: Respect each others privacy and encourage an environment where both of you feel comfortable maintaining certain aspects of your lives discreet. Avoid prying into personal matters that the other person may wish to keep private.
DON'T
Share private information without consent: Avoid sharing personal details about the person without their explicit consent. Respect their boundaries regarding what information is kept private.
Pressure for public displays of affection: Avoid pressuring someone into public displays of affection or sharing relationship milestones on social media if they value discretion. Understand and respect their desire to keep certain aspects of the relationship private.