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PrincessKay Discretion New York
3 6

PrincessKay

Sugar baby, Kinkster & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

New York NY US

Let’s make each other’s dreams come true! ✨ Tiny but mighty rope bunny✨

Discretion Bondage Dinner Mentor
MissBecky Discretion Berlin
6

MissBecky

BDSM

Services are  In person

Female - Bisexual

Berlin DE

I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.

Discretion Domination Findom
GoddessEros Discretion San Diego
6 1 2

GoddessEros

BDSM, Coach & Companion

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

San Diego CA US

I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.

Discretion Ball busting Bondage
serenathesiren Discretion New York
5 4

serenathesiren

Writer, Sugar baby, Photographer & BDSM

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Pansexual

New York NY US

Discretion PPM NSA Travel Findom

CelesteVeDette

Artist, Dancer, Sugar baby, BDSM & Content creator

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Detroit MI US

The Starlet of Timeless Tease

Discretion Burlesque Dinner PPM
ArielleIvy Discretion New York
4

ArielleIvy

Photographer, Companion, Sugar baby & Kinkster

Services are  In person

Female - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual

New York NY US

As a born and raised NYer, I know all the best things to do around the city. I can plan a full day of activities (see my date ideas page) or lounge around in bed with some snacks and a movie. Depending on the day, you may find me playing D&D on a rainy day, sitting on the beach with a great book, museum hopping, or at a trivia game. Tucking my rate into your favorite nonfiction science book is a fast way to my heart! I want to try (almost) everything at least once, let's cross some things off our bucket lists together. I travel quite often and love to explore new cultures and landscapes. I've been to 5 continents and 38 states so far and still have so much left to see! Perhaps we could traverse some new terrain together? I'm passport-ready and happy to coordinate an entire trip for us, or come to your city on a FMTY and find gems you didn’t even know were there. Are you ready to go on an adventure?

Discretion Cuddling Events GFE
aBrandi_kink Discretion El Paso
2

aBrandi_kink

Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop

Services are  In person & Online

Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual

El Paso TX US

Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.

Discretion Foot worship Bondage
AliceBlue Discretion Berlin
3 4

AliceBlue

BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Berlin DE

can call you Daddy but not afraid to hurt you

Discretion FemDom Findom Latex
clarityrose Discretion Auckland
1 1

clarityrose

Massage, Muse & Sugar baby

Services are  In person

Female - Bisexual

Auckland NZ

Creative Tantric Goddess Traveller.

Discretion 4 hands Body sliding
GoddessAnyaDivine Discretion Chicago
4 1

GoddessAnyaDivine

Content creator, Muse, Erotic audio, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Massage & Sugar baby

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual, Pansexual

Chicago IL US

Dominant. Deviant. Divine.

Discretion Bondage CBT Chastity

RubyvanderBerg

Companion, Sugar baby & Kinkster

Services are  In person

Female - Pansexual

Calgary AB CA

A Gem of an Experience

Discretion Cuddling Events GFE

darianperez

Content creator, Companion & Sugar baby

Services are  Online

Female - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual

St. George UT US

Discretion Couples Mentor Oral
What is discretion?

What is discretion?

Shhh, it's a secret.

'Discretion' labelled on a Sensuali profile usually means that a Sensualist values their discretion or will value your discretion if needed. This means that they will make sure that the time you spend together is private and discreet, and will expect the same from you. 

What makes it hot?

Respecting privacy has the ability to make an experience a lot more intimate. Knowing that your interaction is something that stays strictly between the two of you can build trust and bring you closer together as well as enhancing excitement. When somebody tags discretion on their profile, you can rest assured that this Sensualist will value your privacy by seeing the interaction as something totally separate from your 'normal' lives.  

Discuss and establish a plan for handling public encounters to maintain discretion. This may involve having a discreet signal or prearranged response to ensure both partners are on the same page and comfortable navigating such situations.

Trust is paramount in maintaining discretion. Both partners need to trust that the agreed-upon boundaries will be respected. Open communication about feelings, concerns, and expectations helps build and reinforce trust over time.

Yes, discretion needs can evolve. Regularly reassess and communicate about your comfort levels and expectations. Be open to adapting boundaries as the relationship progresses to ensure that both partners remain on the same page.

DO

Communicate expectations clearly: Clearly communicate about the level of discretion both of you desire. Discuss boundaries, privacy preferences, and expectations regarding sharing relationship details with others.

Establish trust: Build a foundation of trust. Trust is crucial when discretion is valued, as it ensures that both people feel confident that their personal information will be handled with care and respect.

Respect privacy: Respect each others privacy and encourage an environment where both of you feel comfortable maintaining certain aspects of your lives discreet. Avoid prying into personal matters that the other person may wish to keep private.

DON'T

Share private information without consent: Avoid sharing personal details about the person without their explicit consent. Respect their boundaries regarding what information is kept private.

Pressure for public displays of affection: Avoid pressuring someone into public displays of affection or sharing relationship milestones on social media if they value discretion. Understand and respect their desire to keep certain aspects of the relationship private.