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RubyvanderBerg
•Companion, Sugar baby & Kinkster
Services are In person
Female - Pansexual
Calgary AB CA
A Gem of an Experience
OliviaAndersson
Companion
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Berlin DE
There’s no kinks shaming in this household. Dating is too serious of a business to not have fun with it.
HighnessTide
Companion, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
oakjourneys
Artist, Content creator, Dancer, Muse, Writer, Kinkster, Massage & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Pansexual
New York NY US
Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince
GoddessAviva
Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
Making femdom & findom fantasies come to life, NYC & Boston based
VelvetAlchemy
Companion & Erotic audio
Services are In person & Online
Female - Straight
Rome IT
"I’m a mischievous spark of sensuality, teasing the edges of your imagination with every glance and laugh, where desire"
Kitsune
Artist, Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bicurious
Lyon FR
Tantra | BDSM The power of touch and care
ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
AndreLazarus
Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Queer
Barcelona ES
I help people discover and unlock their highest potential.
RisewSteph
Content creator, Erotic audio, Writer, Kinkster, BDSM, Educator, Coach & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Heart centered pleasure & impact facilitator, dirty talk coach, Daddy/Dom coach. <3
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
I love sex - if you know, you know I love sexuality - to talk, to geek about it, to go deep I am eros - sexual power
What are kink events?
Whips out at the function.
A kink event refers to a gathering or organised occasion where individuals with alternative sexual interests, preferences, or fetishes come together to socialise, learn, and engage in activities related to BDSM or other forms of sexual expression. These events can range from small, private gatherings to large-scale conventions or workshops, often held in designated venues such as dungeons, clubs, or specialised event spaces.
What makes it hot?
What makes kink events exciting for participants is the opportunity to explore their desires in a safe, consensual environment, surrounded by like-minded individuals who share similar interests and experiences. These events provide a sense of community, acceptance, and education, allowing participants to connect, learn new skills, and push their boundaries in a supportive setting.
Dress codes can vary depending on the event, but it's typically advised to wear something comfortable and respectful of the venue's guidelines. Some events may have specific attire requirements or themes, so it's a good idea to check beforehand.
No, kink events welcome people of all experience levels, from curious beginners to seasoned veterans. Many events offer workshops, demonstrations, and educational sessions tailored to different skill levels, providing opportunities for learning and exploration regardless of prior experience.
Prioritise communication, consent, and respect. Always negotiate boundaries and intentions with potential partners before engaging in any activities. Look out for designated safety monitors or dungeon masters who can offer assistance if needed. Familiarise yourself with the event's rules and guidelines, and don't hesitate to seek help or guidance from organisers or staff if you encounter any issues.
DO
Communicate: Talk openly and honestly with potential partners about your interests, boundaries, and limits.
Respect: Listen to others' boundaries and preferences, and always obtain explicit consent before engaging in any activities.
Know the rules: Familiarise yourself with the event's rules, guidelines, and safety protocols, and adhere to them at all times.
Time out: Take breaks as needed, and prioritise self-care and well-being throughout the event.
Education: Participate in educational workshops, discussions, and demonstrations to enhance your knowledge and skills in BDSM and kink practices.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Don't engage in any activities without obtaining clear, enthusiastic consent from all parties involved.
Pressure: Don't pressure others into activities they're uncomfortable with or unwilling to participate in.
Assumptions: Don't assume someone's interests or boundaries based on their appearance or participation in the event.
Violate privacy: Don't violate the privacy or confidentiality of other attendees, and refrain from gossiping or spreading rumours.