Dr_dom_travels
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual, Demisexual
San Leandro CA US
Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.
ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
mistresslola
BDSM & Artist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Paris FR
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
SamanthaD
BDSM, Erotic audio, Muse, Writer, Content creator, Coach & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual, Sapiosexual
Los Angeles CA US
I am a Female Lifestyle Domina that enjoys domination in many forms. A natural born Humilatrix with a sweet sadistic side. I make a few assumptions when engaging with submissives. Those assumptions include being a grown adult, capable of determining ones limits and having full autonomy when enter into a D/s dynamic. If those assumptions are wrong, please move on. I expect those that seek my attention to be honest with their needs. I have over 20 years in the lifestyle. The power exchange is what I crave. It's what makes me tick. It's how I'm wired. That exchange comes in many different forms and I'm always excited to explore new kinks. Service to me as a part of the power exchange will include obedience, loyalty and submission. I am not easy on submissives, nor am I always fair. That being said, I practice D/s with the understanding that both parties will do no harm. I tend to be pragmatic, sanguine and very forward. I don't mince words. A submissive will always know where they stand with me.
arika
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Berlin DE
I love sex - if you know, you know I love sexuality - to talk, to geek about it, to go deep I am eros - sexual power
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Kinkster, Therapist & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
salemthesadist
Artist, Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
Seneskincare
Artist, Kinkster, BDSM, Massage, Retreat, Workshop, Muse, Erotic audio & Writer
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Vancouver BC CA
Looking to collaborate with providers only
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
Ixchel
Artist, Content creator, Dancer, Erotic audio, Writer, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Pāhoa HI US
Femme queer here to dominate! I love BDSM role play and am formally trained as a Somatica practitioner.
Bloody_Marria91
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
Bucharest RO
Huge fan of art (photography, classical music, theatre, movies, sculpture and paintings). Big animal lover. I'm a citizen of the world therefore i don't believe in labels (like straight/gay, race, political inclination, religion...they make us different by choice not by DNA). I'm an admirer and a wild nature addict. I'm not tamable, i'm not a prize, i love challenges. I'm excited by bright minds not by muscles. Cameleonic, dual, tough but also sensitive, empathic, serious but also with a developed sense of humor, calm, sincerely brutal but also an expert liar. The sea and the sky are my antidepressants. Photo is a passion. Art is a drug. Music is food for my soul.
oakjourneys
BDSM, Erotic audio & Coach
Services are In person
Non Binary - Pansexual
New York NY US
Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince
What is tie and tease?
Torture and tickle time, all in one.
Tie and tease is a BDSM practice that involves restraining a partner (the 'tie') for erotic purposes and then engaging in various teasing activities. The tying can be done using ropes, cuffs, or other bondage tools, and the teasing may include sensual touch, verbal play, or the use of toys. The emphasis is on creating a heightened state of arousal through the combination of restraint and erotic stimulation.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of tie and tease lies in the dynamic of power exchange and sensory exploration. The person being tied experiences vulnerability and the excitement of being teased, while the one in control enjoys the art of being on control and playing with the person tied. This power play can lead to intense physical and emotional sensations, fostering trust and intimacy between partners. The anticipation and delayed gratification add to the allure. As BDSM goes, it's one of the more intimate and playful activities.
No, it can range from simple wrist restraints to more complex bondage, depending on the comfort and desires of the participants.
No, individuals of various experience levels can explore tie and tease, but it's crucial to communicate, start slowly, and prioritise consent.
Yes, tie and tease can be part of a broader BDSM scene, incorporating activities like sensory play or impact play.
DO
Prioritise communication: Establish clear communication about boundaries, desires, and safe words before engaging in tie and tease activities. Regularly check in with your partner during the experience.
Start slowly: Especially if new to tie and tease, start with basic restraints and light teasing. Gradually increase intensity based on comfort levels and mutual consent.
Focus on aftercare: After a tie and tease session, engage in aftercare to ensure the emotional well-being of both partners. This may involve comforting activities, gentle touch, and open communication.
DON'T
Skip negotiation: Avoid engaging in tie and tease without discussing and agreeing upon boundaries and limits. This negotiation is crucial for a safe and consensual experience.
Use unsafe restraints: Ensure that any restraints used are safe, easily removable, and not too tight. Regularly check for circulation and comfort during the session.
Rush the experience: Take your time and savour the experience. The fun in tie and tease comes from the excruciatingly slow build of excitement. Rushing can lead to misunderstandings, discomfort, or the potential for unsafe practices.