ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
urownerlili
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Denver CO US
✨Your favorite bratty Succubus and nurturing Nymph ✨ Hi, My name is Lili! 🎀 I am a Findom looking for Finsubs. I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 14 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite dynamics/kinks are: Findomme/Finsub 🐷💵 MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🥰 Cucking
HighnessTide
BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Kinkster, Therapist & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
salemthesadist
Artist, Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
jrsamani
Erotic audio, Photographer, Muse, Content creator, Artist & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Male
Donostia-San Sebastian ES
Seneskincare
Artist, Kinkster, BDSM, Massage, Retreat, Workshop, Muse, Erotic audio & Writer
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
Vancouver BC CA
Looking to collaborate with providers only
senseme_waxplay
Artist, BDSM & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Lisbon PT
Will support u on your way to sub space
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
princess_fuckunzel
Muse, Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Bucharest RO
MmedeMaisonChardon
Artist, Photographer, BDSM, Kinkster, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person
Female - Pansexual
Paris FR
What is wax play?
Candlelit dinner now, candlelit party later.
Wax play is a form of sensual or BDSM activity involving the use of melted wax from candles or other heat sources on a person's skin. Typically practiced in a controlled environment, it involves dripping warm wax onto the body, creating varying sensations ranging from gentle warmth to intense heat. This activity is often associated with eroticism, power exchange dynamics, and exploration of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
What makes wax play appealing is its versatility in sensory stimulation. The sensation of warm wax dripping onto the skin can evoke a range of feelings, from a soothing warmth to an intense thrill, depending on the temperature and type of wax used. Additionally, the visual aspect of watching the wax slowly solidify on the skin can add an element of aesthetic pleasure. Many find wax play an artistic activity. The element of trust and vulnerability, coupled with the potential for sensory overload, heightens the excitement and connection between partners.
Yes, wax play can be safe when practiced with caution and appropriate preparation. It's essential to use low-temperature candles specifically designed for wax play and to test the temperature on a small area of skin before proceeding.
Paraffin wax or soy wax candles are commonly used for wax play as they melt at lower temperatures, reducing the risk of burns. Avoid using beeswax or other high-temperature candles.
To remove wax safely, allow it to cool and solidify before gently peeling it off the skin. Avoid using sharp objects or pulling forcefully, as this can cause skin irritation. Any remaining residue can be cleaned off with warm water and mild soap.
DO
Do communicate clearly with your partner about boundaries, preferences, and any concerns before engaging in wax play.
Temperature test: Test the temperature of the wax on a small area of skin before proceeding to ensure it's comfortable for your partner.
Protect: Use a drop cloth or towel to protect surfaces from wax drips and spills during the session.
Safe word: Have a word or signal in place to immediately stop the activity if either partner becomes uncomfortable or experiences distress.
Aftercare: Prioritise aftercare, which may include gentle massage, hydration, and emotional support, to ensure the well-being of both partners post-session.
DON'T
High temperatures: Don't use high-temperature candles or wax sources, as they can cause serious burns and injury.
Avoid sensitive areas: Don't pour wax directly onto sensitive areas of the body, such as the face, genitals, or open wounds.
No inebriation: Don't engage in wax play if either partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, as it can impair judgment and increase the risk of accidents..
Rush: Don't rush the process. Take time to build trust, establish boundaries, and ensure both partners are comfortable and consenting throughout the experience.
