Dr.Willow
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Santa Barbara
Seduce Your Senses. Awaken Your Desire. Transform Your Life.
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Ms Rain
Online/Virtual
Bangkok TH
A neurodivergent therapist with possibly too many side quests.
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sexuntold
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Toulouse FR
I help people find their naked self. Let's get undressed.
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calliyote
In person & Online/Virtual
The Hague NL
I am a coyote, a trans woman, a dominatrix, and a kinkster with more than a decade of experience on both sides of the slash. I love helping people discover more about themselves through kink. I am of the belief that kink is the ideal arena in which to explore things like identity, power, desire, and more. After all, kink is where I first discovered myself, and where I continue to learn more about myself every day. My transition and my other identity explorations (I am Holland's only therian dominatrix) have given me an intimate understanding of how what happens within a scene can translate to the world outside the dungeon. For me, it was a series of lightbulb moments: "Oh, I think this [pet play, gender play, etc] is speaking to something much deeper in me. I think I need to understand what that 'something' is." Play can be affirming in so many ways, and I am committed to all my play being an affirmation of who you are, who you want to be, and who you're becoming. I believe strongly in RACK—Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. I recognize that some of the things that I enjoy, both as a sub and as a dom, like heavy impact and breathplay, are risky. The important thing is recognizing your own personal risk tolerance and how it fits into the play or lifestyle that you want. My risk profile has shifted over the years, and I have learned how to understand and talk about risk in a way that is non-judgemental and safe. Part of my risk management is knowledge. I never go into play thinking that I will learn a technique as I go. It is very important to me that I know what I am doing before I get into the room, in order to keep both (or all) of us safe. For that reason, my experience in impact, breathplay, hypnosis, predicament bondage, and other arenas is an invaluable asset. I really love what I do, and I would love to share my passions with you.
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isobel
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Paris FR
blog writer for the sensuali team 🖋️
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Goddess Sasha
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Denver
Come Play to Heal -sensual fun for your self growth
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trevorjames
In person & Online/Virtual
Los Angeles CA US
Intentional, consent-forward cuddling, massage, sacred intimacy, and intimacy coaching for men in Los Angeles.
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Caroline Carrington
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Hayward CA US
Spine-tingling pleasure, sexual empowerment, trauma healing & sensational coaching for singles, couples ENM & kink
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A-BrandiKink
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El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
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JayHeart
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Dallas TX US
Sacred intimacy, body-based healing, and retreat facilitation for individuals & couples in Dallas
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What is a writer?
A sensual or erotic writer is someone who specialises in creating literary works that focus on themes of sensuality, intimacy, and sexual desire. These writers craft narratives and descriptions that evoke a strong emotional and, often, sexual response in the reader. An erotic writer can also make custom stories.
What makes it hot?
Imagination stimulation: Erotic writing engages the reader's imagination, allowing them to visualise and experience scenarios that can be intensely arousing.
Emotional connection: Well-written erotic content often goes beyond physical acts, exploring emotional connections and desires, making the reader feel a deeper engagement with the characters and situations.
Exploration of taboos: Erotic writing can push boundaries and explore aspects of human sexuality that may be considered taboo, providing readers with a safe and imaginative space for exploration.
It's debatable. Erotic writing tends to focus on narrative, emotions, and character development other than purely sexual action, while pornography is primarily about sex. However as the idea of what porn can be begins to shift, it can be said that erotic writing is a form of pornography.
Yes, empowering characters and consensual scenarios can contribute to a positive and empowering experience for readers.
There's no rules here! It depends on your audience and the purpose of your writing. Strive for a balance that serves the narrative and resonates with your readers, and most importantly, write in a way that is true to you.
DO
Create consent: Clearly establish and emphasise consent in your writing. Respectful and consensual interactions contribute to a more positive reading experience.
Develop characters: Invest time in developing well-rounded characters with personalities, desires, and motivations. This enhances the reader's connection and involvement in the narrative.
Varied language: Use a diverse and evocative vocabulary to describe sensations and emotions. Well-chosen words can intensify the impact of the writing.
DON'T
Avoid gratuitous content: Gratuitous or explicit content without purpose may overshadow the emotional depth of the narrative. Ensure that every element serves a meaningful role in the story.
Steer clear of harmful stereotypes: Be mindful of perpetuating harmful stereotypes or reinforcing unhealthy power dynamics in your writing. Aim for inclusivity and sensitivity.
Skip the rush: Allow the narrative to build gradually. Rushing through scenes can lessen the emotional impact and connection between characters.