Otto
BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Male - Gay
New York NY US
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
SinnamonLove
Content creator, Erotic audio, Writer, Muse, BDSM, Kinkster, Educator, Retreat, Workshop & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
HighnessTide
BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
addisfouche
Content creator & Writer
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
"Today's Most Relatable Wh*re" is what they call me!
salemthesadist
Artist, Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
Robinkeane
Massage, Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
New York NY US
Hairy alternative sweetheart here for laughter and fun
jamiejoy
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
oakjourneys
BDSM, Erotic audio & Coach
Services are In person
Non Binary - Pansexual
New York NY US
Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince
ArielleIvy
Photographer & Kinkster
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
New York NY US
As a born and raised NYer, I know all the best things to do around the city. I can plan a full day of activities (see my date ideas page) or lounge around in bed with some snacks and a movie. Depending on the day, you may find me playing D&D on a rainy day, sitting on the beach with a great book, museum hopping, or at a trivia game. Tucking my rate into your favorite nonfiction science book is a fast way to my heart! I want to try (almost) everything at least once, let's cross some things off our bucket lists together. I travel quite often and love to explore new cultures and landscapes. I've been to 5 continents and 38 states so far and still have so much left to see! Perhaps we could traverse some new terrain together? I'm passport-ready and happy to coordinate an entire trip for us, or come to your city on a FMTY and find gems you didn’t even know were there. Are you ready to go on an adventure?
Queen_Bea
Content creator & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.
The city for those that never sleep.
Welcome to the sensual side of New York City.
What city could be better to explore sensuality freely? New York is known for its open minded community where expression and individuality is encouraged. Whatever you're looking for, we can guarantee that somewhere in New York City, you'll find it.
Must-do experience: Burlesque.
Book it on Sensuali: Erotic photoshoots with Leo Brooklyn.
Did you know that? NYC is home to the world’s first burlesque festival. The New York Burlesque Festival, which started in 2002, attracts performers and audiences from all over the world to celebrate the art of striptease.
A bitesize spicy guide to NYC 🍎
Erotic photoshoots: Erotic art has to be one of our favourite things to do in NYC. There are many talented artists in the city's creative hub, but erotic photographer Leo Brooklyn is one of our favourites. You can choose between a 1 hour or a 2 hour shoot, featuring a few different looks and you're guaranteed 10-20 final photos from the shoot. This is the perfect way to step into your sensual power and celebrate your sexiness. Book a session here.
Thermal baths: NYC is famous for it's buzzing wellness scene, particularly the various bathhouses in the city. Aire Ancient Baths is our choice for the perfect sensual escape for singles and couples in the city. In a solely candlelight underground space, you can dip from salt bath to Jacuzzi, steam room to plunge pool. From the darkness of the space to the quiet-voices policy, Aire is a sensory experience like no other.
Kink workshops: Time for something educational?Workshops and talks are all over NYC. There are many sex educators and experts facilitating these events but Lola Jean is one of our favourites. From squirting to role-play, Lola holds regular events to talk and learn about various kinks.
Shibari: Wanna get ropey? Let's explore NYC's lively Shibari community. NYC Shibari host regular performances if you're interesting in watching, or the renowned organisation Temple will give you a class that you'll never forget.
Body painting: We can't go to New York without immersing ourselves in the most unique of sensual activities available. Booking a private body painting experience with Deeszone, NY-based figurative artist is a great way to get to know the sensual scene more intimately.
Sensual speakeasies: Did you really go to NYC if you didn't sip on a drink in at least one of NYC's seductive bars. Our favourite red velvet-clad spots include The Nines, Fresh Kills and Pearlbox.
Burlesque: Our must-do activity in New York is always going to watch some Burlesque. The scene here is arguably the best in the world and there's a lot to choose from. Venus Cuffs is famous for hosting Burlesque events in New York. Other shoutouts are Hot & Fresh and Brolesque.
Play party: No sensual city guide is complete without a party! Want to celebrate in true New York style? Head to the 420-friendly party, NSFW. If you're looking for something a little queerer, go to The Wink. Read our full NYC sex party guide for more info.
New York City is the perfect place for sensual exploration because it offers a mix of diversity, creativity, and boldness that inspires every sense.
Vibrant energy: NYC’s electric atmosphere encourages spontaneity and curiosity. The vibe alone pushes you to try new things and embrace the unknown.
Cultural diversity: The city’s melting pot of cultures brings a world of sensual experiences—exotic cuisines, global music, and performances inspired by traditions from around the globe.
Artistic boldness: NYC’s art scene thrives on pushing boundaries. From provocative exhibits at the Museum of Sex to underground erotic cabarets in Brooklyn, the city celebrates creativity that is raw and unapologetically daring.
Iconic nightlife: NYC’s legendary nightlife offers everything from intimate speakeasies with candlelit corners to boundary-pushing play parties and themed events, catering to moods that range from sultry sophistication to playful decadence.
Celebrated freedom of expression: NYC thrives on individuality and acceptance, making it a place where people feel free to explore their desires without judgment. Its LGBTQ+ scene, BDSM communities, and sensual wellness spaces are as inclusive as they are innovative.
The city that never sleeps: Sensual exploration in NYC can happen anytime. Late-night jazz shows, sunrise rooftop yoga, and 24-hour diners ensure that indulgence is always just around the corner.
Endless surprises: NYC is full of hidden gems waiting to be discovered, whether it’s a speakeasy disguised as a barbershop or a secret garden terrace in the middle of the bustling city. The ongoing thrill of the New York makes it a perfect place for pursuing your pleasure.
Art, BDSM and Workshop experiences are popular on Sensuali. Dominatrix sessions, erotic photoshoots, body painting and kink workshops are just a few of the experiences you can book in NYC on Sensuali.
There are many ways to explore sensuality as a beginner in NYC. Here are some of our favourites.
Art & Creativity:
- Life and figure drawing classes.
- Burlesque performances.
Kink & BDSM:
- Kink workshops.
- Shibari classes.
Companionship & Intimacy
- Sensual dinner date with a companion or sugar baby.
- Group discussions on emotional connection.
Wellness & Education
- Sensual touch massage.
- Spa day in an NYC bathhouse.
