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Conscious Kink: A 1-day Private Workshop

From $1400 In person

The new frontier of Kink & BDSM goes beyond latex and leather. Conscious Kink is all about exploring your edgy desires and taboo dynamics through the lense of awareness and presence. With Conscious Kink, you can add beautiful, powerful and profound practices into your sexual vocabulary in a way which can add new dimensions richness, depth and joy to your whole life. This 1-day Conscious Kink Retreat is designed to be a experiential (hands on) introduction to the concepts, practical elements and dynamics involved in Conscious Kink. My hope is that you’ll walk away feeling confident and equipped to keep exploring, harnessing your inner power through the magic of kinky play. You’ll leave with: Clarity about the roles and kinky dynamics you prefer Knowledge about safe and careful play that is trauma-sensitive Confidence in creating powerful, connected and fun kinky play During the day, you’ll learn about: Sexy and Safe Scenes We can’t just wander casually into kinky play and expect fireworks. Conscious kink requires a bit of setup and consideration for the magic to happen. We’ll cover negotiation, safety and aftercare. Power Dynamics Wonder how to create and hold different flavours and power dynamics in your connections? You’ll learn powerful tools to get in and out of play, and have the chance to try out different dynamics to see how they feel. Tools for Play Physical tools are fun, but equally powerful…your use of touch, language, even your body positioning…to create connected and deep scenes with the potential for magic and growth. Why do this privately? I believe some of us just learn better in a one-to-one setting, I know I do! There are good reasons to join a group workshop like trying out with different partners and learning from others’ sharing. But a private setting might be for you if: You want a curated and tailored agenda that meets your specific needs and desires 100% of my attention, meaning you can ask any question you have and we can go at your pace Discretion and privacy in-case your work or personal circumstances prevent you attending group events

Taste of my Dominance with ropes

From $200 In person

Are you yearning to let go, surrender and experience giving up control and power. Book yourself a session with me, so I lead you to explore your unique subspace, via a variety of kinks and mostly with a focus on bondage and Shibari

Bound to Nature: A Shibari Experience

From $1920 In person

27 Apr 2026 | 16:00

6 Nights, 7 Days of Connection, Intimacy & Creation A sacred transformative journey into the art of Shibari — where rope becomes more than knots, it becomes meditation, art, intimate connection and transformation.​ Over six immersive days in the jungle of Uvita, Costa Rica, you will explore Shibari as a pathway to self-discovery, creative expression and connection. From the first touch of rope in your hands, you’ll experience Shibari as a language of trust and presence. No experience necessary — only curiosity, openness, and the willingness to explore yourself deeply.

Discovery Call

From $15 Online

Not sure what you want? I can offer a casual call where you get to know me, what I do, and what may suit you as an experience or service. For a small tribute, you can ease your nerves and get to know if me and you are the right fit.

Guided Self Pleasure

From $80 Online

Guided Self-Pleasure Ritual Meditation but erotic. Step into a deeply relaxing, meditative space where you can explore your body and desires without judgment or performance pressure. This is not about watching me or me putting on a show for you to masturbate to—it's about rewriting your relationship with touch, pleasure, and embodiment. I will guide you into your body slowly, creating a relaxed environment, encouraging you to be your own guide, your own pleasure expert, and meet the edges of your erotic compass. I have a soft, grounding but powerful voice that will help you to feel instantly at ease.

Tantra & Intimacy Coaching

From $80 Online

Tantra & Intimacy Coaching Expand your relationship to your sexuality, awaken confidence, and move through blocks with guidance tailored to you. Whether solo or in a relationship, these sessions support exploration, growth, and empowerment. Through tantric practices, you will reconnect to your body, heighten awareness, and cultivate presence. Examples of what we might explore together include counselling and coaching, breathwork, energy circulation, conscious self touch, embodiment exercises, mindful arousal, and techniques to deepen intimacy with yourself or your partner. Each video call lasts approximately one hour. Packages are available.

Shibari Session, Performance or Workshop

From €180 In person

A deeply sensual Shibari session or workshop. Bringing you gently closer into the art of deep surrender and connection with self.

Virtual Erotica Writing Workshop

From $25 Online

An hour of pleasure and creativity, just for you. Write to erotica prompts that help you find your voice in the bedroom to the boardroom. Erotic expression is honed in this safe space to explore memories, fantasies, and desires.

Kink, Domination & BDSM Ritual

From $250 In person

Empowering Exploration of Pleasure and Surrender Are you seeking a safe, affirming space to explore your desires, boundaries, and fantasies? I specialize in creating personalized, consensual, and transformative experiences through the art of conscious kink. Here, "conscious" means staying present in the body, embracing consent, and creating a safe space for exploration. With a mindful, body-positive approach and a deep understanding of consent, communication, and trust, I help you: * Discover new aspects of yourself. * Deepen intimacy. * Safely express fantasies. Whether you want to take these tools into your personal life or simply let go in the presence of a powerful woman, I’m here to guide your journey. What You Can Expect: * Tailored Experiences: Designed to suit your needs, interests, and comfort. * Safe Space: A judgment-free zone emphasizing safety and respect. * Education & Coaching: Learn about consent, negotiation, and kink fundamentals. Coaching may include: 1. Asking for what you want. 2. Tapping into your desires and personal power. 3. Understanding submission and dominance. Practices Offered: * Shibari and basic rope work. * Impact play (with or without toys) & sensory deprivation * Spanking & slapping * Worship sessions * Punishment, humiliation and degradation * Anal de-armouring, prostate massage & strap-on training * Breath play * Watersport’s * Foot fetish * Tantric elements If there’s something specific you want to explore, just ask! This Is for You If You: * Want to discover what excites you and express it confidently. * Desire a safe space to explore surrender or submission. * Seek a deeper connection to your body and pleasure. * Are curious about power dynamics and kink. * Wish to enhance intimacy and communication in your life. Custom combinations available—message me with your desires and adjustments.



 Boundaries This is not an escort service; no penetrative sex, kissing, or oral is offered. I do not take on submissive roles or derogatory positions. HOW TO BOOK Advance booking is required (minimum 24 hours). Include in your message: * Your name, age, session type, and preferred duration. * Dates and times you’re available. * What you’d like to explore and your experience level. Start your message with “pleasure” to confirm you’ve read to the end of the advert and have understood the details.

Reed My Lips: So You're Thinking About Quitting Something...

From $2 Online

17 Dec 2025 | 20:00

I was addicted to booze, drugs, porn, and love. Does “addiction” or “sobriety” talk also give you the ick? Join me for an anonymous, non-judgmental chat about the things that once ruled my life, booze and drugs, but also porn, sex, spending, food, and exercise. I’m still a young sprout in my sober journey, but it’s completely changed my life, and I’m still learning things. At 35, I finally feel like I’m really living. If sharing what I’ve learned helps even one person feel more in control, it’s worth it. We’ll explore: How to know if change is needed Deep dive into why you can’t knock your habit How to take initial steps How to beat temptation and stay clear Mistakes will be made - how to give yourself compassion when we fuck up Best way to celebrate This is not a workshop to force anyone into giving up something you’re not ready for, this is just an initial chat for those who are interested and want to learn more. Even if you come back from this workshop and don’t give up anything, that doesn’t mean you’ve failed. The fact that you thought about turning up is huge and more than enough. The recording will be available to download for all ticket holders or if you miss the event 💾

Reed My Lips: Sex Party Etiquette for Newcomers

From $8 Online

26 Nov 2025 | 20:00

If you want to go to sex party or you’re a beginner in the scene, then this is the talk for you (and maybe your partner/s 😉) As someone who has been going to sex parties for the last 10 years, I can tell you the ins and outs of everything from: What to expect from being in a sex club Costs/how to budget What to wear Find the right parties for you How to know what you want, what your levels/limits are How to approach people Boundaries/saying no thanks How not to get kicked out Real-life sex party stories I will be divulging my wildest sex party experiences from some of my favourite events, and you can join the chat discussion and share your own experiences anonymously and ask any questions in a non-judgmental environment. I’ve got some delightful goodies to give away to some lucky winners during the live workshop. Excited to see you there. PS. The recording will be available to download for all ticket holders or if you miss the event 💾

Mentorship for Dominant Women: Leading from the Divine Feminine

From $200 Online

Power does not need to imitate the masculine to be formidable. True dominance is born from presence, intuition, and the sacred fire that lives within the feminine. In this private mentorship, I guide women who are ready to explore the art of dominance rooted not in control, but in connection. We will unlearn the performative archetypes of power and reawaken the intuitive authority that flows through your divine feminine nature. This mentorship is for you if you desire to: Lead from empathy, sensuality, and embodied wisdom Create authentic power dynamics that honor both strength and surrender Cultivate rituals that awaken your inner Mistress energy Build confidence, boundaries, and personal rituals of empowerment Learn the psychological and emotional artistry of dominance through compassion and grace Each session is immersive and tailored to your path — blending intuitive guidance, ritual practice, and psychological insight. Includes: 1:1 virtual session with Mistress Malisandre Pre-session questionnaire to understand your experience and goals Optional ritual or reflective assignment between meetings Personalized resources to deepen your journey Power led by the feminine does not command—it magnetizes. It does not conquer—it awakens.