Cleo Findom Berlin
8 1
1 experience
1 experience

Cleo

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Hi, I’m Cleo. A Tantric Muse, Ritualist of Eros, and lover of all things slow, deep, and delicious. I move in the spaces where touch becomes language, where presence is the gateway to pleasure, and the body is worshipped as divine. I love guiding others into their power through sensation, play, and connection—and I find deep joy in honoring men and the masculine through the art of devotion. Sometimes I’m soft and heartful. Sometimes I bite. Always, I bring my whole self and deep presence.

1 event

BDSM Coaching Dance Direct messaging Erotic media Kink Massage Muse Retreat Social media

Miss_Kirsch Findom Berlin
6 3

Miss_Kirsch

In person & Online

Berlin DE

If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .

Muse Fetish Domination Social media

voncaustic Findom Ginebra
15

voncaustic

In person & Online

Ginebra CH

Artist by day, succubus all the time.

Art BDSM Muse Photography Kink Erotic media

AKASH Findom Berlin
15 15

AKASH

In person

Berlin DE

Sensual Sadism - Professional BDSM - Fetishist AKASHDOM.COM

BDSM Muse Art Kink Erotic media

Somasexual Findom
1 5

Somasexual

In person & Online

Your body and desires should feel free from shame. I can help you find your erotic power.

Coaching Erotic media Kink

MentorChris Findom Berlin
5 1
2 experiences
2 experiences

MentorChris

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Sensual Hypnotist, and ImpactPlay Kinkster. Will give you a experience you will defenitely remember.

2 services

Erotic audio BDSM Kink Coaching Massage Erotic media

Thatkinkyhousewife Findom San Diego
7 4
1 experience
1 experience

Thatkinkyhousewife

In person & Online

San Diego CA US

Collared Switch. Married alpha couple, daddy’s favorite toy, & your new Mommy.

1 service

Art Muse Kink

SagaMoros Findom Berlin
11 5

SagaMoros

In person

Berlin DE

I will tower over you as I show you the meaning of caring cruelty.

Muse BDSM Fetish Kink Domination Coaching Education Non-sexual intimacy Retreat Direct messaging Social media

PrincessAurora Findom
8 2 1

PrincessAurora

In person & Online

Award winning Fetish Princess. Generally amused by abusing losers.

BDSM Erotic media

MxValentina Findom Milan
8
2 experiences
2 experiences

MxValentina

In person & Online

Milan IT

Precision, Power, and the Softest Cruelty You’ll Ever Crave

2 services

BDSM Domination Shibari Fetish Kink Erotic media Writing Therapy

sapieha Findom Denver
6 6
4 experiences
4 experiences

sapieha

In person & Online

Denver CO US

Evoking sensual witchcraft through the act of tight binding and intimate photography 🥀

2 services ,   2 events

Photography Shibari Education Erotic media Coaching

sweet_luna Findom Oakland
2 1

sweet_luna

In person & Online

Oakland CA US

a wholesome hedonist on a journey to slow down and savor life

BDSM Dance Muse Performance Shibari

What is Findom?

What is Findom?

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Findom is short for 'Financial Domination', which is a sub-fetish within the world of BDSM and kink. In findom, the financial dominatrix (often referred to as a 'findomme' or 'money domme'), has control over the financial submissive's (aka the pay pig's) money.

The pay pig is often required to spend their finances on the domme in the form of gifts or by covering their expenses. Both partners derive sexual pleasure from this power dynamic.

What makes it hot?

What could be more submissive than handing over your entire finances to somebody else? Our money and how we spend it is a very private thing, and so many submissives find findom to be a very intimate activity. The ultra-subs revel in the idea of being a human ATM, something that makes them seem more and object than a human, especially when their domme spends copious amounts of money on themselves with no shame.

Safety in findom, like any BDSM-related activity, relies on clear communication, mutual consent, and setting boundaries. It's essential for participants to discuss limits and expectations beforehand.

While some participants may enjoy the financial aspect, findom is more about power dynamics and control. It's not solely reserved for the wealthy, and individuals can explore within their means.

Yes, findom dynamics can be integrated into long-term relationships if both partners are interested and consensually agree on the terms. Open communication is crucial to ensure the well-being and satisfaction of all involved parties.

DO

Explore safely: Explore with a professional or a trusted partner.

Start small: Nothing bad every came from taking things gradually.

Have financial knowledge: Money ain't nothing to play around with.

 

DON'T

Go too hard: Don't get carried away with your fetish in the moment. Take rational pauses.

Irresponsible play: Don't give away anything you can't afford to.

Pressure: Don't pressure anyone to give or take more money than they're comfortable with.

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