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Advice
A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey
Posted by Drew
Thursday 18 April 2024
It's hard to explore your deepest desires if you're still having an internal struggle with accepting them yourself. Here's our quick-start guide to beginning your kink journey.
How to introduce erotic art into your relationships
Posted by Armando Cabba
Monday 8 April 2024
Artist Armando Cabba explains the many ways to use erotic art as an exploration of desire and excitement in your relationship.
A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Wednesday 27 March 2024
Intending to try out a new sexual experience? Whether it's a threesome or a sex party, prepping yourself is essential. Qualified sex coach Ruth Ramsay gives her essential advice on how to ensure you get what you want, and have fun doing it.
5 things you should know before trying pegging
Posted by Drew
Monday 12 February 2024
Want to try pegging? Here’s what you need to know to ensure your peach play session is sensational.
The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 January 2024
A Sensuali comprehensive guide to somatic sex coaching for women seeking sexual empowerment.
Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
Posted by Sakura
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey
How to findom 101: setting financial foundations
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 20 December 2023
Want someone to surrender their savings to you? Welcome to the world of findom. These are the common aspects of a findom relationship that you might want to get to know.
How to introduce a Dildo into sex with your partner
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 5 December 2023
Bringing sex toys into the bedroom outside of solo play doesn’t have to be taboo. Here’s how to approach the subject with your partner and make dildos fun for everyone.
A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 11 October 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
10 things it takes to be a stripper
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 September 2023
Does the stripper life appeal to you? If you possess at least 5/10 of these qualities, then you might just have what it takes.
Art
5 short films about sex work
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 27 March 2024
It's hard to find films that explore sex work without sensationalising or objectifying. Here are 5 modern-day short films intricately exploring the many nuances of sex work.
4 essential pioneers of kink art
Posted by Drew
Friday 22 March 2024
These are 4 essential kink artists who paved the way for all lovers of art and erotica today.
Celebrating Anaïs Nin: the iconic literary voice for female desire
Posted by Iso
Thursday 7 March 2024
In light of International Women's Day, we celebrate Anaïs Nin, the female erotica auteur who paved the way for many other sex-loving femmes.
In the realm of erotic art: 5 films about female desire
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 5 March 2024
Happy International Women's Week! In the sea of films made by horny men, catering to horny men, and often focusing on horny men, here are 5 great films about horny women.
These famous erotic artworks were custom-made
Posted by Iso
Monday 11 December 2023
Even back in the 1500s people were begging for a bit of custom-made porn, it just happened to come in the form of elaborate engravings. Here's a few examples of famous custom-made erotic art through the years.
The most famous fetish illustrators through history
Posted by Iso
Friday 13 October 2023
Welcome to the world of fetish illustrators. Let's explore the most notable characters, their unique styles, artistic journeys, and the cultural impact of their evocative works.
Welcome to the world of fetish art
Posted by Iso
Monday 21 August 2023
Fetish art became a thing way back in the Victorian era. Kinkcurious? Here's a short introduction to the genre.
Sensual photography: a short introduction
Posted by Iso
Monday 24 July 2023
What is sensual photography? Well, it's not simply all about sex. Sensual photography is about creating visceral pictures that feel intimate, sometimes alluring and often charged with emotion. Here's a short introduction.
On the female sexual psyche: the films of Catherine Breillat
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 12 July 2023
Sick of the shame surrounding female sexuality? These are the essential films of Catherine Breillat that explore women's nuanced relationship with sex.
Water Lilies: The Power of Shamelessness
Posted by Iso
Thursday 2 March 2023
A homage to one of my favourite controversial film characters of all time, Floriane (Adele Hanael) from Celine Sciamma’s queer debut feature, ‘Water Lilies’ (2007).
Culture
4 ways to explore latex in New York City
Posted by Drew
Wednesday 24 April 2024
Within the vibrant world of New York City's kink community, these are the top 4 ways to satisfy your love for latex.
5 ways to explore BDSM in New York City
Posted by Iso
Thursday 11 April 2024
There's no better place to get freaky than New York City. If you're feeling kinkcurious, these are the top 5 activities in the city worth the whip.
5 ways to explore erotic art in London
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 3 April 2024
Curious to discover London's thriving world of erotic art? Here are our top 5 unique ways to explore.
The ultimate guide to Manchester’s kink events
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 March 2024
From serious femdom to queer sex-posi raves, this is the ultimate guide to Manchester's kink events.
London’s sexiest lesbian bar just opened: La Camionera
Posted by Iso
Saturday 17 February 2024
After an explosive opening, Broadway Market has officially become home to London’s second and sexiest lesbian bar in the city. It's cheap cañas, it's candlelit tables, it’s red tulips and low ceilings and a thousand women all together in a teeny tiny basement. It's everything you've been searching for.
12 times latex had a cultural moment
Posted by Iso
Sunday 14 January 2024
Now that it's 2024 and everyone from A-listers to normies are officially in love with latex, let's take a look to see exactly how we got here. These are 12 top moments that ignited rubber fetishes all over the world and brought the material into the mainstream.
Here’s why all women should get a FBSM
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 29 November 2023
Want to learn how to step into your feminine sexual power? Here's why getting a FBSM (full body sensual massage) is going to help.
Why is Intimacy coaching essential for the LGBTQ community?
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 28 November 2023
We spoke to three LGBTQ-focused intimacy coaches to find out the benefits of going within to solve your most intimate issues
Sexier than a screen: let’s talk erotic audio
Posted by Iso
Monday 13 November 2023
The rise of erotic audio is something to be celebrated. Here's why this form of porn is not only a healthy option, but a sexy one too.
Burlesque creates a space for the female gaze
Posted by Iso
Monday 6 November 2023
The burlesque scene today has grown into a wonderful and thriving sub-culture where we can celebrate sexuality and femininity without fear of the male gaze.
Educational
Why we should all be practicing self-pleasure
Posted by Emily
Wednesday 28 February 2024
Self Pleasure Club, a grassroots community for women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans, explain why we should all be practicing more self-pleasure.
The kinds of control: 5 top styles of femdom
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 27 February 2024
Looking to be dominated by a formidable femme but have no idea where to start? These are 5 main styles of femdom. Which one works for you?
Finessing facesitting: a three minute mini-guide
Posted by Drew
Monday 26 February 2024
It’s time to take to your throne. Let’s talk about how face sitting is the ultimate level up in oral play.
Exploring Shibari: A Journey into Somatic Healing
Posted by Julieta
Thursday 22 February 2024
Shibari is best known as a form of bondage torture as well being recognised as an art form. But this ancient practice is also a surprisingly therapeutic form of somatic healing. Here's how.
The benefits of pleasure education: what we didn’t learn at school
Posted by Iso
Sunday 11 February 2024
As society collectively grows more and more conscious of the lack of sex and pleasure education we received growing up, an increasing number of people are seeking pleasure education coaching to fully explore their sexual and non-sexual pleasure. These are ways that pleasure education will change your life.
This is what sensual domination looks like
Posted by Iso
Monday 5 February 2024
Submissive but also want to worshipped? Dominant with a soft side? With less focus on punishment and more focus on praise, sensual domination is what you've been searching for.
What to expect from sacred sexuality coaching
Posted by Iso
Sunday 28 January 2024
Traditional sex coaching isn't for everyone. For those who take a more holistic approach to life, sacred sexuality coaching might be another option. Here's what to expect.
The Femdom Fantasy: What’s this kink about?
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Empowering Desires: An In-Depth Exploration of FemDom with Miss White.
5 ways to explore a sploshing kink
Posted by Iso
Sunday 7 January 2024
Sploshing is a varied kink that turns people on for many different reasons. These are 5 ways to discover the excitement in getting wet and messy.
Am I a Sapiosexual?
Posted by Drew
Thursday 4 January 2024
Intelligence often comes up top on people’s most attractive list. But what is Sapiosexuality, and does braininess actually get you going?
Interview
Elegance meets kink: introducing London companion Miss Lilly Watson
Posted by Iso
Saturday 20 April 2024
If you're looking for a few passion-filled hours that feel like you're on a hot date with your new girlfriend, you're in the right place. Meet Miss Lilly Watson, the kinky companion brimming with a special type of London elegance.
On traditional Mexican massage: introducing Ozlo
Posted by Drew
Friday 12 April 2024
Online sex educator and Sensuali writer, Drew aka Wise and Manly received a life changing traditional Mexican massage from masseur Ozlo, and interviewed him afterwards to learn all about his craft.
Introducing Michael Dresser: the mindful gay sex coach
Co-authored by Iso & Michael Dresser
Friday 5 April 2024
Meet one of the UK's most unique sex and intimacy coaches, Michael Dresser, who, through hands-on learning, is helping gay men to move past performance pressure and find deeper ways of connecting with themselves and their partners.
Meet Armando Cabba: Celebrating Intimacy through Erotic Art
Co-authored by Iso & Armando Cabba
Friday 29 March 2024
We spoke to the remarkable artist and sex worker ally, Armando Cabba, whose beautifully erotic paintings have reached the hearts of many in the community.
Meet Ruth Ramsay: sex educator and coach
Co-authored by Iso & Ruth Ramsay
Saturday 23 March 2024
Curious to try new sexual experiences but not sure where to start? Meet Ruth Ramsay, providing shame-free, upbeat 1-1 coaching and online courses that will guide you in your journey of sexual liberation.
Merging erotic art and content creation: introducing Lissalovessx
Co-authored by Iso & Lissa
Monday 18 March 2024
Sensuali chatted with Lissa, who blends her work as an artist and sex worker by making erotic paintings and aesthetically beautiful online content, in hopes to spread the celebration of sex, art and pleasure.
Affairs of intimate indecency: meet kinky girlfriend, Amelia Swann
Co-authored by Iso & Amelia Swann
Friday 8 March 2024
Longing for a passionate whirlwind of a date laced with a good dose of deviance? Long no further. This is Amelia Swann, one of London's very finest kinky girlfriends.
In conversation with One Night Parties: the UK’s top femme-only kink event
Posted by Iso
Friday 1 March 2024
Want to enter a femme-only dimension consisting of red silk and garter belts, soft R&B and bodies covered in cream, rope bondage and sacrilege? You're in the right place. We spoke with Miss Gold, the babe behind the babe-land that is One Night Parties.
Inside the life of a femdom fatale: meet Miss Vera Violette
Co-authored by Drew & Miss Vera Violette
Friday 23 February 2024
Femdom (femme domination) is taking over. Here to tell us everything we need to know is professional Dominatrix Miss Vera Violette.
Gender Unbound: The Experience of a Female Shibari Rigger
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 21 February 2024
In the world of shibari where most riggers are male, Petite Pretzel as a small-framed woman has had an unconventional experience of being a shibari top. Nevertheless, or maybe, as a result of this, she is now a pioneer in the community. This is her unique perspective as a female shibari rigger.
Playlist
Songs for soft sensualists
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 18 July 2023
An immersive playlist for all you soft sensualists out there. Including sensual songs for any time of day (or night), this playlist should reconnect you with your sensuality not only in the bedroom, but in your everyday living.
Songs to Psych up Your Inner Sugar Baby
Posted by Iso
Friday 25 November 2022
Got a sugar date but not feeling so sugary? Here's a playlist of bad girl bops by exclusively female artists to get you feeling frisky.
Sex & Spook: The Ultimate Thotoween Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
Grouped-by-genre songs for all the serious Halloween Hoes out there. No 'Bump In The Night' bull here- only songs with truly dark and sensual vibes.
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Doms
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 10 August 2022
Need some tunes to really capture your devastating dom energy? Your prayers have been answered.
The Ultimate Girlfriend Experience Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 10 June 2022
For every escort who offers a girlfriend experience, this #sensual playlist will have every client feeling like they're your one and only (even if they know they're not).
Songs To Strip To: Alt-Girls Edition
Posted by Iso
Sunday 13 March 2022
Which alt-girl stripper archetype are you?
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Submissives
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 1 February 2022
From The Weeknd to Duran Duran, here's a playlist of atmospheric BDSM songs especially suited to subs.
Sensuali guidelines
How To Verify Your Sensuali Account
Posted by Iso
Thursday 20 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on each step on the Sensuali verification process.
How to Create and Update Galleries
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 October 2022
Not sure how to add images to or what to post in your gallery? Check out this how-to guide.
Our Privacy Settings Explained
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 October 2022
Privacy is core to the Sensuali mission. To learn more about our privacy settings, read on.
How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service Provider
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 12 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service provider.
How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service User
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 5 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service user.
Creating a Popular Sensuali Member’s Profile
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 12 April 2022
A few top tips for members on how to make your Sensuali profile stand out from the rest.