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Learn about sex culture through deep dives on film, history, and psychology. Gain insight into the ups and downs of sex work via candid interviews. Become a master navigator of the Sensuali platform with our how-to guidelines.

Interview

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Meet Adrián Coto: queer sensual London photographer
Iso Adrián Coto

Co-authored by Iso & Adrián Coto

Sunday 21 July 2024

Looking for a sensual photoshoot where your individuality is celebrated rather than suppressed? Meet Adrián Coto aka Señor Babe, the London-based queer visual artist and photographer who through his collaborative approach, captures the distinctive erotic energy of each person he shoots.

Meet the Gooning King: erotic content creator JV Marx
Drew JV Marx

Co-authored by Drew & JV Marx

Friday 19 July 2024

'I remember getting really hot in the face, and being surprised that like, wow guys can do that together?'  Here to take us on a journey into your deleted internet search history and educate us on gooning is seasoned erotic content creator,artist and writer, JV Marx. 

Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Iso Gemma Li

Co-authored by Iso & Gemma Li

Friday 12 July 2024

Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.

Meet kink and sensuality coach, Ena Dahl
Iso Ena Dahl

Co-authored by Iso & Ena Dahl

Friday 5 July 2024

Introducing Berlin-based sensualist, conscious kink educator and all round creatrix, Ena Dahl, who uses the fluidity of her multiple disciplines to create uniquely sensual experiences, from kink workshops to erotic bodywork.

Introducing holistic sex coach, Amanda Santos
Iso Amanda Santos

Co-authored by Iso & Amanda Santos

Friday 28 June 2024

Looking for coaching that is a little less sterile and a little more sensual? Meet Amanda Santos, the holistic sex coach who follows Taoist practices and heals with her heart.

Introducing queer Tantric coach & masseur: Will Tantra
Drew Will Tantra

Co-authored by Drew & Will Tantra

Sunday 23 June 2024

We caught up with the inspirational Tantric coach and masseur; Will Tantra all about his candidly erotic approach to helping others give and receive more pleasure.

Meet sploshing content creator: Bsmessy Bakery
Iso Bsmessybakery

Co-authored by Iso & Bsmessybakery

Sunday 16 June 2024

Craving a sweet and sticky treat, and not just to eat? Meet the baker of your dreams: sploshing icon, Brianna aka Bsmessy Bakery.

Meet erotic photographer & videographer: Layla Kosima
Drew Layla Kosima

Co-authored by Drew & Layla Kosima

Sunday 9 June 2024

Looking for female-led porn? Interested in a Nadia Lee-Cohen-but-kinker photoshoot? Search no further. Meet Layla Kosima, erotic photographer, videographer and founder of porn company, Girls on Set.

Introducing erotic artist: Gonza Banegas
Iso

Posted by Iso

Friday 31 May 2024

Looking for some new erotic art to hang on your walls? How about a custom-made drawing to gift to your lover? Meet Gonza Banegas aka Yeehaaw, the erotic artist who depicts the raw beauty of shameless sexuality.

Meet Simone Farschi: somatic sex and intimacy coach
Iso Simone Farschi

Co-authored by Iso & Simone Farschi

Friday 24 May 2024

Looking to reconnect to your pleasure through somatic coaching or sensual retreats? Meet the exceptional sex and intimacy coach, Simone Farschi who is helping women, men and couples transform their lives inside and outside of the bedroom.

Podcast

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So you want to try Butt Stuff: featuring Max Hovey
Iso Max Hovey

Co-authored by Iso & Max Hovey

Friday 14 June 2024

Episode 2 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from the fantastic Max Hovey, queer intimacy expert, author and content creator.

So you want to try BDSM: featuring Eva Oh
Emma Cheeky Eva Oh

Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Eva Oh

Thursday 16 May 2024

Episode 1 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from Eva Oh, the world famous Dominatrix who knows the world of BDSM like no other.

Advice

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I booked a sensual photoshoot, here’s how it went
Tara Margulies

Posted by Tara Margulies

Wednesday 17 July 2024

Tara Margulies aka movewithtara tells us all about her recent sensual photoshoot that she booked on Sensuali with photographer Layla Kosima.

A 5 step guide to client booking etiquette
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 28 May 2024

Whether you're a seasoned client or a first-timer, knowing booking etiquette is crucial in securing a positive sensual experience. Here's our 5 step guide.

How to embrace vulnerable intimacy as a gay man
Drew

Posted by Drew

Wednesday 15 May 2024

Bisexual pleasure educator Drew, aka Wise and Manly explains how to embrace vulnerability and defy the internalised shame surrounding soft and sensual intimacy in the male gay community.

Erotic photography modelling: a love letter to yourself
Bethany Burgoyne

Posted by Bethany Burgoyne

Wednesday 1 May 2024

From a sexy selfie to a professional photoshoot, capturing your sensuality on camera can be a confidence boosting experience. Expert erotic photographer and model, Sassy is here to tell you how.

A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey
Drew

Posted by Drew

Thursday 18 April 2024

It's hard to explore your deepest desires if you're still having an internal struggle with accepting them yourself. Here's our quick-start guide to beginning your kink journey.

How to introduce erotic art into your relationships
Armando Cabba

Posted by Armando Cabba

Monday 8 April 2024

Artist Armando Cabba explains the many ways to use erotic art as an exploration of desire and excitement in your relationship.

A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences
Ruth Ramsay

Posted by Ruth Ramsay

Wednesday 27 March 2024

Intending to try out a new sexual experience? Whether it's a threesome or a sex party, prepping yourself is essential. Qualified sex coach Ruth Ramsay gives her essential advice on how to ensure you get what you want, and have fun doing it.

5 things you should know before trying pegging
Drew

Posted by Drew

Monday 12 February 2024

Want to try pegging? Here’s what you need to know to ensure your peach play session is sensational.

The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 21 January 2024

A Sensuali comprehensive guide to somatic sex coaching for women seeking sexual empowerment.

Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
Sakura

Posted by Sakura

Tuesday 9 January 2024

Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey

Art

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Shibari rope tying: when sensuality becomes an art form
Pauline Marie-Antoinette

Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette

Thursday 11 July 2024

Experience the art of Shibari, where ropes and knots transform into a journey of trust, and sensual exploration. Discover how the subtle interplay of pain and pleasure can elevate your understanding of connection and intimacy.

7 outstanding queer erotic artists on Sensuali
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 2 July 2024

Pride month might be over but our celebration of queer sensualists is absolutely not. Here are 7 of our favourite erotic artists on Sensuali whom you can book for custom made sexy art or photoshoots.

7 old school films about open relationships
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 5 June 2024

In light of the release of 'Challengers', the blockbuster film that has consolidated society's current obsession with open relationships, here are 7 fantastic old school films all about non-monogamy and three-way fun.

Sensuali Selects: 7 erotic literature must-reads
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 8 May 2024

The people have spoken! We asked our Sensuali Sexperts for their favourite erotic literature. Here are the 7 top picks.

6 superb erotic photography series by women
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 7 May 2024

Cool AF women taking carnal AF photos. It doesn't get much better than this. These are Sensuali's pick of 6 outstanding erotic photography series by women.

5 short films about sex work
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 27 March 2024

It's hard to find films that explore sex work without sensationalising or objectifying. Here are 5 modern-day short films intricately exploring the many nuances of sex work.

4 essential pioneers of kink art
Drew

Posted by Drew

Friday 22 March 2024

These are 4 essential kink artists who paved the way for all lovers of art and erotica today.

Celebrating Anaïs Nin: the iconic literary voice for female desire
Iso

Posted by Iso

Thursday 7 March 2024

In light of International Women's Day, we celebrate Anaïs Nin, the female erotica auteur who paved the way for many other sex-loving femmes.

In the realm of erotic art: 5 films about female desire
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 5 March 2024

Happy International Women's Week! In the sea of films made by horny men, catering to horny men, and often focusing on horny men, here are 5 great films about horny women.

These famous erotic artworks were custom-made
Iso

Posted by Iso

Monday 11 December 2023

Even back in the 1500s people were begging for a bit of custom-made porn, it just happened to come in the form of elaborate engravings. Here's a few examples of famous custom-made erotic art through the years.

Culture

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Pride is a Protest: honoring black, queer trailblazers
Autumn Thomas

Posted by Autumn Thomas

Thursday 27 June 2024

In honor of June coming to a close, we celebrate and ardently salute 5 queer Black women who remind us the importance of sexual liberation.

The burlesque connoisseur’s guide to New York City: Pride edition
Autumn Thomas

Posted by Autumn Thomas

Wednesday 19 June 2024

Looking to celebrate the art of the tease this month? Mark your calendars for the hottest Pride month burlesque in the city that never sleeps.

10 essential queer spaces in London
Iso

Posted by Iso

Thursday 13 June 2024

In light of Pride Month, here are our 10 favourite queer spots in London ranging from raunchy spaces to reading spaces.

4 ways to explore latex in New York City
Drew

Posted by Drew

Wednesday 24 April 2024

Within the vibrant world of New York City's kink community, these are the top 4 ways to satisfy your love for latex.

5 ways to explore BDSM in New York City
Iso

Posted by Iso

Thursday 11 April 2024

There's no better place to get freaky than New York City. If you're feeling kinkcurious, these are the top 5 activities in the city worth the whip.

5 ways to explore erotic art in London
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 3 April 2024

Curious to discover London's thriving world of erotic art? Here are our top 5 unique ways to explore.

The ultimate guide to Manchester’s kink events
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 6 March 2024

From serious femdom to queer sex-posi raves, this is the ultimate guide to Manchester's kink events.

London’s sexiest lesbian bar just opened: La Camionera 
Iso

Posted by Iso

Saturday 17 February 2024

After an explosive opening, Broadway Market has officially become home to London’s second and sexiest lesbian bar in the city. It's cheap cañas, it's candlelit tables, it’s red tulips and low ceilings and a thousand women all together in a teeny tiny basement. It's everything you've been searching for.

12 times latex had a cultural moment
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 14 January 2024

Now that it's 2024 and everyone from A-listers to normies are officially in love with latex, let's take a look to see exactly how we got here. These are 12 top moments that ignited rubber fetishes all over the world and brought the material into the mainstream.

Here’s why all women should get a FBSM
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 29 November 2023

Want to learn how to step into your feminine sexual power? Here's why getting a FBSM (full body sensual massage) is going to help.

Educational

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Why we should all be practicing self-pleasure
Emily

Posted by Emily

Wednesday 28 February 2024

Self Pleasure Club, a grassroots community for women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans, explain why we should all be practicing more self-pleasure.

The kinds of control: 5 common styles of femdom
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 27 February 2024

Looking to be dominated by a formidable femme but have no idea where to start? These are 5 main styles of femdom. Which one works for you?

Finessing facesitting: a three minute mini-guide
Drew

Posted by Drew

Monday 26 February 2024

It’s time to take to your throne. Let’s talk about how face sitting is the ultimate level up in oral play.

Exploring Shibari: A Journey into Somatic Healing
Julieta

Posted by Julieta

Thursday 22 February 2024

Shibari is best known as a form of bondage torture as well being recognised as an art form. But this ancient practice is also a surprisingly therapeutic form of somatic healing. Here's how.

The benefits of pleasure education: what we didn’t learn at school
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 11 February 2024

As society collectively grows more and more conscious of the lack of sex and pleasure education we received growing up, an increasing number of people are seeking pleasure education coaching to fully explore their sexual and non-sexual pleasure. These are ways that pleasure education will change your life.

This is what sensual domination looks like
Iso

Posted by Iso

Monday 5 February 2024

Submissive but also want to worshipped? Dominant with a soft side? With less focus on punishment and more focus on praise, sensual domination is what you've been searching for.

What to expect from sacred sexuality coaching
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 28 January 2024

Traditional sex coaching isn't for everyone. For those who take a more holistic approach to life, sacred sexuality coaching might be another option. Here's what to expect.

The Femdom Fantasy: What’s this kink about?
Drew

Posted by Drew

Tuesday 9 January 2024

Empowering Desires: An In-Depth Exploration of FemDom with Miss White.

5 ways to explore a sploshing kink
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 7 January 2024

Sploshing is a varied kink that turns people on for many different reasons. These are 5 ways to discover the excitement in getting wet and messy.

Am I a Sapiosexual?
Drew

Posted by Drew

Thursday 4 January 2024

Intelligence often comes up top on people’s most attractive list. But what is Sapiosexuality, and does braininess actually get you going?

Erotica

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I pegged someone for the first time
Alexa André

Posted by Alexa André

Monday 15 July 2024

'Giving someone that much pleasure is one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences of my life, even if I didn't physically get anything out of it.' Alexa André tells us the steamy true story of her first pegging experience.

A Bashful Cuckquean’s Anniversary Surprise
Ena Dahl

Posted by Ena Dahl

Friday 5 July 2024

'Please fuck my boyfriend in front of me, Goddess Iris...' Kicking off the Sensuali bite-sized erotica series is a short story about a woman with a cuckolding kink, written by erotic writer, Ena Dahl.

Playlist

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Songs for soft sensualists 
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 18 July 2023

An immersive playlist for all you soft sensualists out there. Including sensual songs for any time of day (or night), this playlist should reconnect you with your sensuality not only in the bedroom, but in your everyday living.

Songs to Psych up Your Inner Sugar Baby
Iso

Posted by Iso

Friday 25 November 2022

Got a sugar date but not feeling so sugary? Here's a playlist of bad girl bops by exclusively female artists to get you feeling frisky.

Sex & Spook: The Ultimate Thotoween Playlist
Iso

Posted by Iso

Friday 21 October 2022

Grouped-by-genre songs for all the serious Halloween Hoes out there. No 'Bump In The Night' bull here- only songs with truly dark and sensual vibes.

BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Doms
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 10 August 2022

Need some tunes to really capture your devastating dom energy? Your prayers have been answered.

The Ultimate Girlfriend Experience Playlist
Iso

Posted by Iso

Friday 10 June 2022

For every escort who offers a girlfriend experience, this #sensual playlist will have every client feeling like they're your one and only (even if they know they're not).

Songs To Strip To: Alt-Girls Edition
Iso

Posted by Iso

Sunday 13 March 2022

Which alt-girl stripper archetype are you?

BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Submissives
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 1 February 2022

From The Weeknd to Duran Duran, here's a playlist of atmospheric BDSM songs especially suited to subs.

Sensuali guidelines

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How To Verify Your Sensuali Account
Iso

Posted by Iso

Thursday 20 October 2022

A step-by-step guide on each step on the Sensuali verification process.

How to Create and Update Galleries
Jules

Posted by Jules

Thursday 13 October 2022

Not sure how to add images to or what to post in your gallery? Check out this how-to guide.

Our Privacy Settings Explained
Jules

Posted by Jules

Thursday 13 October 2022

Privacy is core to the Sensuali mission. To learn more about our privacy settings, read on.

How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service Provider
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 12 October 2022

A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service provider.

How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service User
Iso

Posted by Iso

Wednesday 5 October 2022

A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service user.

Creating a Popular Sensuali Member’s Profile
Iso

Posted by Iso

Tuesday 12 April 2022

A few top tips for members on how to make your Sensuali profile stand out from the rest.