The Sensuali blog
Learn about sex culture through deep dives on film, history, and psychology. Gain insight into the ups and downs of sex work via candid interviews. Become a master navigator of the Sensuali platform with our how-to guidelines.
Interview
Introducing kinky tantric muse: Tonic Tantra
Co-authored by Iso & Tonic Tantra
Wednesday 24 July 2024
If you're looking for a kinky approach to Tantra and sensual spiritualism, meet the nomadic Tonic Tantra, who provides online and in-person services including energetic readings and sensual Shibari.
Meet Adrián Coto: queer sensual London photographer
Co-authored by Iso & Adrián Coto
Sunday 21 July 2024
Looking for a sensual photoshoot where your individuality is celebrated rather than suppressed? Meet Adrián Coto aka Señor Babe, the London-based queer visual artist and photographer who through his collaborative approach, captures the distinctive erotic energy of each person he shoots.
Meet the Gooning King: erotic content creator JV Marx
Co-authored by Drew & JV Marx
Friday 19 July 2024
'I remember getting really hot in the face, and being surprised that like, wow guys can do that together?' Here to take us on a journey into your deleted internet search history and educate us on gooning is seasoned erotic content creator,artist and writer, JV Marx.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Co-authored by Iso & Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
Meet kink and sensuality coach, Ena Dahl
Co-authored by Iso & Ena Dahl
Friday 5 July 2024
Introducing Berlin-based sensualist, conscious kink educator and all round creatrix, Ena Dahl, who uses the fluidity of her multiple disciplines to create uniquely sensual experiences, from kink workshops to erotic bodywork.
Introducing holistic sex coach, Amanda Santos
Co-authored by Iso & Amanda Santos
Friday 28 June 2024
Looking for coaching that is a little less sterile and a little more sensual? Meet Amanda Santos, the holistic sex coach who follows Taoist practices and heals with her heart.
Introducing queer Tantric coach & masseur: Will Tantra
Co-authored by Drew & Will Tantra
Sunday 23 June 2024
We caught up with the inspirational Tantric coach and masseur; Will Tantra all about his candidly erotic approach to helping others give and receive more pleasure.
Meet sploshing content creator: Bsmessy Bakery
Co-authored by Iso & Bsmessybakery
Sunday 16 June 2024
Craving a sweet and sticky treat, and not just to eat? Meet the baker of your dreams: sploshing icon, Brianna aka Bsmessy Bakery.
Meet erotic photographer & videographer: Layla Kosima
Co-authored by Drew & Layla Kosima
Sunday 9 June 2024
Looking for female-led porn? Interested in a Nadia Lee-Cohen-but-kinker photoshoot? Search no further. Meet Layla Kosima, erotic photographer, videographer and founder of porn company, Girls on Set.
Introducing erotic artist: Gonza Banegas
Posted by Iso
Friday 31 May 2024
Looking for some new erotic art to hang on your walls? How about a custom-made drawing to gift to your lover? Meet Gonza Banegas aka Yeehaaw, the erotic artist who depicts the raw beauty of shameless sexuality.
Podcast
So you want to try Polyamory: featuring Alice Lovegood
Co-authored by Iso & Alice Lovegood
Tuesday 23 July 2024
Episode 3 of the Sensuali podcast features the iconic sex educator, ethical kink practitioner and content creator, Alice Lovegood talking all about polyamory with host Emma aka Emmcheeky.
So you want to try Butt Stuff: featuring Max Hovey
Co-authored by Iso & Max Hovey
Friday 14 June 2024
Episode 2 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from the fantastic Max Hovey, queer intimacy expert, author and content creator.
So you want to try BDSM: featuring Eva Oh
Co-authored by Emma Cheeky & Eva Oh
Thursday 16 May 2024
Episode 1 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from Eva Oh, the world famous Dominatrix who knows the world of BDSM like no other.
Advice
I booked a sensual photoshoot, here’s how it went
Posted by Tara Margulies
Wednesday 17 July 2024
Tara Margulies aka movewithtara tells us all about her recent sensual photoshoot that she booked on Sensuali with photographer Layla Kosima.
A 5 step guide to client booking etiquette
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 28 May 2024
Whether you're a seasoned client or a first-timer, knowing booking etiquette is crucial in securing a positive sensual experience. Here's our 5 step guide.
How to embrace vulnerable intimacy as a gay man
Posted by Drew
Wednesday 15 May 2024
Bisexual pleasure educator Drew, aka Wise and Manly explains how to embrace vulnerability and defy the internalised shame surrounding soft and sensual intimacy in the male gay community.
Erotic photography modelling: a love letter to yourself
Posted by Bethany Burgoyne
Wednesday 1 May 2024
From a sexy selfie to a professional photoshoot, capturing your sensuality on camera can be a confidence boosting experience. Expert erotic photographer and model, Sassy is here to tell you how.
A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey
Posted by Drew
Thursday 18 April 2024
It's hard to explore your deepest desires if you're still having an internal struggle with accepting them yourself. Here's our quick-start guide to beginning your kink journey.
How to introduce erotic art into your relationships
Posted by Armando Cabba
Monday 8 April 2024
Artist Armando Cabba explains the many ways to use erotic art as an exploration of desire and excitement in your relationship.
A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences
Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Wednesday 27 March 2024
Intending to try out a new sexual experience? Whether it's a threesome or a sex party, prepping yourself is essential. Qualified sex coach Ruth Ramsay gives her essential advice on how to ensure you get what you want, and have fun doing it.
5 things you should know before trying pegging
Posted by Drew
Monday 12 February 2024
Want to try pegging? Here’s what you need to know to ensure your peach play session is sensational.
The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 January 2024
A Sensuali comprehensive guide to somatic sex coaching for women seeking sexual empowerment.
Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
Posted by Sakura
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey
Art
Shibari rope tying: when sensuality becomes an art form
Posted by Pauline Marie-Antoinette
Thursday 11 July 2024
Experience the art of Shibari, where ropes and knots transform into a journey of trust, and sensual exploration. Discover how the subtle interplay of pain and pleasure can elevate your understanding of connection and intimacy.
7 outstanding queer erotic artists on Sensuali
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 2 July 2024
Pride month might be over but our celebration of queer sensualists is absolutely not. Here are 7 of our favourite erotic artists on Sensuali whom you can book for custom made sexy art or photoshoots.
7 old school films about open relationships
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 5 June 2024
In light of the release of 'Challengers', the blockbuster film that has consolidated society's current obsession with open relationships, here are 7 fantastic old school films all about non-monogamy and three-way fun.
Sensuali Selects: 7 erotic literature must-reads
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 8 May 2024
The people have spoken! We asked our Sensuali Sexperts for their favourite erotic literature. Here are the 7 top picks.
6 superb erotic photography series by women
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 7 May 2024
Cool AF women taking carnal AF photos. It doesn't get much better than this. These are Sensuali's pick of 6 outstanding erotic photography series by women.
5 short films about sex work
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 27 March 2024
It's hard to find films that explore sex work without sensationalising or objectifying. Here are 5 modern-day short films intricately exploring the many nuances of sex work.
4 essential pioneers of kink art
Posted by Drew
Friday 22 March 2024
These are 4 essential kink artists who paved the way for all lovers of art and erotica today.
Celebrating Anaïs Nin: the iconic literary voice for female desire
Posted by Iso
Thursday 7 March 2024
In light of International Women's Day, we celebrate Anaïs Nin, the female erotica auteur who paved the way for many other sex-loving femmes.
In the realm of erotic art: 5 films about female desire
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 5 March 2024
Happy International Women's Week! In the sea of films made by horny men, catering to horny men, and often focusing on horny men, here are 5 great films about horny women.
These famous erotic artworks were custom-made
Posted by Iso
Monday 11 December 2023
Even back in the 1500s people were begging for a bit of custom-made porn, it just happened to come in the form of elaborate engravings. Here's a few examples of famous custom-made erotic art through the years.
Culture
Pride is a Protest: honoring black, queer trailblazers
Posted by Autumn Thomas
Thursday 27 June 2024
In honor of June coming to a close, we celebrate and ardently salute 5 queer Black women who remind us the importance of sexual liberation.
The burlesque connoisseur’s guide to New York City: Pride edition
Posted by Autumn Thomas
Wednesday 19 June 2024
Looking to celebrate the art of the tease this month? Mark your calendars for the hottest Pride month burlesque in the city that never sleeps.
10 essential queer spaces in London
Posted by Iso
Thursday 13 June 2024
In light of Pride Month, here are our 10 favourite queer spots in London ranging from raunchy spaces to reading spaces.
4 ways to explore latex in New York City
Posted by Drew
Wednesday 24 April 2024
Within the vibrant world of New York City's kink community, these are the top 4 ways to satisfy your love for latex.
5 ways to explore BDSM in New York City
Posted by Iso
Thursday 11 April 2024
There's no better place to get freaky than New York City. If you're feeling kinkcurious, these are the top 5 activities in the city worth the whip.
5 ways to explore erotic art in London
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 3 April 2024
Curious to discover London's thriving world of erotic art? Here are our top 5 unique ways to explore.
The ultimate guide to Manchester’s kink events
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 March 2024
From serious femdom to queer sex-posi raves, this is the ultimate guide to Manchester's kink events.
London’s sexiest lesbian bar just opened: La Camionera
Posted by Iso
Saturday 17 February 2024
After an explosive opening, Broadway Market has officially become home to London’s second and sexiest lesbian bar in the city. It's cheap cañas, it's candlelit tables, it’s red tulips and low ceilings and a thousand women all together in a teeny tiny basement. It's everything you've been searching for.
12 times latex had a cultural moment
Posted by Iso
Sunday 14 January 2024
Now that it's 2024 and everyone from A-listers to normies are officially in love with latex, let's take a look to see exactly how we got here. These are 12 top moments that ignited rubber fetishes all over the world and brought the material into the mainstream.
Here’s why all women should get a FBSM
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 29 November 2023
Want to learn how to step into your feminine sexual power? Here's why getting a FBSM (full body sensual massage) is going to help.
Educational
Why we should all be practicing self-pleasure
Posted by Emily
Wednesday 28 February 2024
Self Pleasure Club, a grassroots community for women, intersex, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming humans, explain why we should all be practicing more self-pleasure.
The kinds of control: 5 common styles of femdom
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 27 February 2024
Looking to be dominated by a formidable femme but have no idea where to start? These are 5 main styles of femdom. Which one works for you?
Finessing facesitting: a three minute mini-guide
Posted by Drew
Monday 26 February 2024
It’s time to take to your throne. Let’s talk about how face sitting is the ultimate level up in oral play.
Exploring Shibari: A Journey into Somatic Healing
Posted by Julieta
Thursday 22 February 2024
Shibari is best known as a form of bondage torture as well being recognised as an art form. But this ancient practice is also a surprisingly therapeutic form of somatic healing. Here's how.
The benefits of pleasure education: what we didn’t learn at school
Posted by Iso
Sunday 11 February 2024
As society collectively grows more and more conscious of the lack of sex and pleasure education we received growing up, an increasing number of people are seeking pleasure education coaching to fully explore their sexual and non-sexual pleasure. These are ways that pleasure education will change your life.
This is what sensual domination looks like
Posted by Iso
Monday 5 February 2024
Submissive but also want to worshipped? Dominant with a soft side? With less focus on punishment and more focus on praise, sensual domination is what you've been searching for.
What to expect from sacred sexuality coaching
Posted by Iso
Sunday 28 January 2024
Traditional sex coaching isn't for everyone. For those who take a more holistic approach to life, sacred sexuality coaching might be another option. Here's what to expect.
The Femdom Fantasy: What’s this kink about?
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Empowering Desires: An In-Depth Exploration of FemDom with Miss White.
5 ways to explore a sploshing kink
Posted by Iso
Sunday 7 January 2024
Sploshing is a varied kink that turns people on for many different reasons. These are 5 ways to discover the excitement in getting wet and messy.
Am I a Sapiosexual?
Posted by Drew
Thursday 4 January 2024
Intelligence often comes up top on people’s most attractive list. But what is Sapiosexuality, and does braininess actually get you going?
Erotica
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Posted by Pimenta Cítrica
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
I pegged someone for the first time
Posted by Alexa André
Monday 15 July 2024
'Giving someone that much pleasure is one of the most fulfilling sexual experiences of my life, even if I didn't physically get anything out of it.' Alexa André tells us the steamy true story of her first pegging experience.
A Bashful Cuckquean’s Anniversary Surprise
Posted by Ena Dahl
Friday 5 July 2024
'Please fuck my boyfriend in front of me, Goddess Iris...' Kicking off the Sensuali bite-sized erotica series is a short story about a woman with a cuckolding kink, written by erotic writer, Ena Dahl.
Playlist
Songs for soft sensualists
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 18 July 2023
An immersive playlist for all you soft sensualists out there. Including sensual songs for any time of day (or night), this playlist should reconnect you with your sensuality not only in the bedroom, but in your everyday living.
Songs to Psych up Your Inner Sugar Baby
Posted by Iso
Friday 25 November 2022
Got a sugar date but not feeling so sugary? Here's a playlist of bad girl bops by exclusively female artists to get you feeling frisky.
Sex & Spook: The Ultimate Thotoween Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
Grouped-by-genre songs for all the serious Halloween Hoes out there. No 'Bump In The Night' bull here- only songs with truly dark and sensual vibes.
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Doms
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 10 August 2022
Need some tunes to really capture your devastating dom energy? Your prayers have been answered.
The Ultimate Girlfriend Experience Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 10 June 2022
For every escort who offers a girlfriend experience, this #sensual playlist will have every client feeling like they're your one and only (even if they know they're not).
Songs To Strip To: Alt-Girls Edition
Posted by Iso
Sunday 13 March 2022
Which alt-girl stripper archetype are you?
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Submissives
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 1 February 2022
From The Weeknd to Duran Duran, here's a playlist of atmospheric BDSM songs especially suited to subs.
Sensuali guidelines
How To Verify Your Sensuali Account
Posted by Iso
Thursday 20 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on each step on the Sensuali verification process.
How to Create and Update Galleries
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 October 2022
Not sure how to add images to or what to post in your gallery? Check out this how-to guide.
Our Privacy Settings Explained
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 October 2022
Privacy is core to the Sensuali mission. To learn more about our privacy settings, read on.
How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service Provider
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 12 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service provider.
How To Create A Sensuali Account As A Service User
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 5 October 2022
A step-by-step guide on creating a Sensuali account as a service user.
Creating a Popular Sensuali Member’s Profile
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 12 April 2022
A few top tips for members on how to make your Sensuali profile stand out from the rest.