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BallistaTheBoss

Costa Mesa CA US, Bozeman MT US, Joshua Tree CA US

Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy

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My experiences are for Female, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
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40s , Female , Straight
Undergrad

International, traveling, curvy, tall (5’9”), nerdy, fun-loving, adventurous ProDomme with a passion for putting you in your place. When I'm not indulging in my kinks, you can find me being feral in the woods or howling at the moon.

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