Chloephemeral : Coach BDSM on Sensuali

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Services and experiences I offer

Wellness & Education

Coach

Conscious kink | Couples coaching | Intimacy coaching | Sex coaching | Somatic Sexology

BDSM & Kink

BDSM

Bondage | Shibari | Spanking | Submission

Experiences / Tags

About me

Picture the best combination of your therapist and a Domme: come unpack what your body has been telling you and you've been too scared to ask for. Dive deep and explore your core desires, learn to how to get back in touch with yourself, breathe deeply into your pelvic floor and embody the experience you've always wanted.

We begin with you and your deepest, darkest, hottest neediness. We somatically explore your reactions to a world of possibilities, and then we give you a taste.

I'm a somatic sex and intimacy, BDSM and shibari coach. As a switch with many years of experience in BDSM, somatic coaching and trauma therapy tools, I can play whatever role is needed to alight your path (within certain boundaries, of course).

My kinks include science, education and literacy, so I've properly trained for this:
Shibari/ kinbaku training from Naka Akira sensei, Murasaki sensei, Ropeknight, Ropunawa, and others
Somatica Sex and Relationship Coach
Affective Neuroscience for Clinicians certificate
Professional member: The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy certificate
Applied Polyvagal Yoga for Trauma Healing certificate
BA, MA, International Development

: My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Female, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
: 40s , Female , Pansexual
: White/Caucasian
: I speak English, Spanish
: Postgrad

My links

https://www.sensuali.com/chloephemeral-12552/

https://Somanawa.coach

FAQs

I teach somatic shibari... that is skills to take your rope journey deeper, more connected and more embodied. On the technical side, I'm happy to help beginning riggers understand where to start, basic knots and ties and how to continue their rope journey (including where and how to learn, rope to buy, etc). For intermediate/advanced riggers, I can help you problem solve through bottoming feedback, enhance the emotional side of rope, better connect with yourself and the model, and teach you how to play more psychologically. For models, I teach communication, consent, bottoming skills, somatic approaches to pain processing, embodiment and connection.

No tickling. No penetration. No CBT or pegging in session (discussion of these is perfectly ok!). No blood.

No, and quite intentionally so. I am trained in somatic trauma therapy, but I do not have professional licensure as a therapist. I am an accredited sexologist and certified somatic sex coach. I have intentionally not followed what I see as the often problematic field of psychology (though, please DO go see a therapist that is inclusive and non-shaming). Plus, as a coach we get to do a lot of things that would get me banned from therapy!

Yes! I can do online sessions.

Not exactly. I'm a coach. I'll help you get what you want, including some actual experience doing it (within certain boundaries, e.g., I won't do CBT or pegging in a session, but we can play with those psychologically). I can play your Domme, your sub, or your teacher (among other roles ;-). We will talk, move, touch and play, as needed for what you are looking for. We'll unpack your desires and explore how to get them fulfilled. We can take your play to the next level.

Yes, I can meet you in person in Barcelona. Or I can travel in Europe. Train preferred. You pay all travel expenses.

On my website or via Telegram (I'm @chloephemeral). 20-minute intro call is free.