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Mx Ephemeral
Barcelona ES
Embodied Domination: Pro Domme specialising in somatic shibari and more. Let's explore your desire
3 services
About me
- My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Male, Female, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
- I offer experiences
- In person & Online/Virtual
- 40s , Female , Pansexual
- White/Caucasian
- I speak English, Spanish
- Postgrad
I’m Mx Ephemeral,
Pansexual, Domme.
As a former executive myself, I’ve been there. I know the pressure, the expectations, the exhaustion. The lack of appreciation for everything you give, everything you carry, everything you do.
I poured out my lemonade so you don’t have to. I quit the rat race and became the healer I was always meant to be.
I began this journey at birth- kinky from day one. I started playing as a sub at the ripe old age of 19. But once I found peace with myself and stopped playing the game of ambition that wasn’t serving me, I found a new leader, a new voice, a new self: Mxtress Ephemeral knows their own power, and she knows how to wield it.
Let down your walls, let me see you. Guide you. Seduce you.
I will crack open your soul and lay it bare. I will look at the tense muscles in your neck and read the desire you can’t speak until I make you. I’ll toy with your need, penetrate your… mind, and your surrender will no longer be optional.
For once, you don’t have to perform– but you will– because I ask you to. And by the end, you will realize you just spent the last hours as your authentic self, and I’m still here. Smiling my evil little smile, seeing you, knowing intimately exactly how much you needed this. Needed me.
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Ever the intellectual, I studied for this- training in somatic trauma therapy, affective neuroscience, somatic sexology and polyvagal theory.
I learned the ropes-- literally, and studied shibari with the best riggers and models in Europe and Japan, including Naka Akira-sensei and Iroha-san, Murasaki-sensei, Ropunawa, Ropeknight and many more. I have nearly 5 years' experience as both a rigger and rope model.
I studied power and dominance with Kasiah Urbaniak and Mistress Collette Pervette.
My favorite things are shibari, impact play and mind fuck, but I'm open to many things. Let's create it together.
I offer services as a Pro-Domme (mxephemeral.com) and switch, as well as a Somatic Relationship Coach, BDSM coach. See somanawa.coach for coaching services.
* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs
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Playful Domination
From €300 In-person & Online/virtual
Online Domme Session
From €150 Online/virtual
Sensual Shibari Session
From $350 In-person
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