chloephemeral

I’m Chloé, an intimacy and relationship coach and neuroqueer relationship anarchist who is endlessly fascinated by the connection between mind, body and pleasure and the ways our society has repressed that, especially for neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous and kinky folx.

I offer services as a Somatic Relationship Coach, and as BDSM coach and Pro-Switch:

As a Certified SomaticaⓇ Sex and Relationship Coach and Somatic Sexologist, I use experiential mind-body practices to help you figure out your desires, boundaries, needs, fantasies, identity, and relationship styles, as well as how to effectively communicate them to yourself and your partners. My approach is rooted in creating a safe and supportive environment where you and your body can lead exploration and growth.

With several years of experience as both a rope bottom and rigger, I have cultivated a unique understanding of the dynamics involved in playful and alternative intimacy, and I love to share my knowledge and help people explore their passions and desires in a safe(r) container.

Unlike traditional couples therapy or sex therapy, which largely focuses on talk-based sessions, I work through somatic coaching, body-based practice, breath work, movement, embodied kink frameworks, role play, parts work, rope (if desired), and structured integration.

As a BDSM Coach and Pro-Switch:
Picture the best combination of your therapist and a Domme: come unpack what your body has been telling you and you've been too scared to ask for. Dive deep and explore your core desires, learn to how to get back in touch with yourself, breathe deeply into your pelvic floor and embody the experience you've always wanted.

We begin with you and your deepest, darkest, hottest neediness. We somatically explore your reactions to a world of possibilities, and then we give you a taste.

As a switch with many years of experience in BDSM, shibari, somatic coaching and trauma therapy tools, I can play whatever role is needed to alight your path (within certain boundaries, of course). I offer skills training in shibari, impact play, psychological play, sensation play, emotional connection in kink and much more. I can also help you understand the scene, where to start, where to get toys, how to navigate munches, parties and dungeons, or even be your wingperson to an event.

My kinks include science, education and literacy, so I've properly trained for this:
Shibari/ kinbaku training from Naka Akira sensei, Murasaki sensei, Ropeknight, Ropunawa, and others
Certified Somatica Sex and Relationship Coach
Affective Neuroscience for Clinicians certificate
Professional member: The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy certificate
Applied Polyvagal Yoga for Trauma Healing certificate