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elainelove

San Francisco CA US

Threesomes for Couples

Coach Educator Facilitator
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About me

My experiences are for Couple
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Female , Bisexual

FANTASIZING ABOUT A THREESOME,
BUT WORRIED ABOUT THE "WHAT IFS"?

Are you and your partner dreaming about a threesome together, but worried about the potential of jealousy, feeling left out, or relationship drama? What if I told you that with the right guidance, these challenges could become catalysts for profound connection and personal growth!

I’m Elaine Love, your coach and play partner on an exquisite journey of threesome exploration. I do things differently. Let's go on a journey that’s less about just “trying something new” and more about expanding love, deepening trust, and co-creating a vibrant new chapter in your relationship.

PRAISE

“Elaine’s experience and familiarity with this work are very clear. […] If you’re fortunate enough to be reading this, book her immediately. It will be a most valuable and rare journey.” M., male

“Wow. Wow. Wow. My experience with Elaine was a dream come true. And we totally had the breakthrough I had been hoping for! It was… identity shifting!!” M., female

“Elaine was masterful at listening for when the moment called for her to be our guide and when it was most serving to be our peer and playmate.” B., male

IMAGINE THE ADVENTURE

- You and your partner dance between excitement and trust
- Your deepest desires are celebrated, not judged
- You learn to turn complex emotions like jealousy into catalysts for intimacy
- Your love emerges more vibrant than ever and full of new possibilities

DESIGNED FOR COUPLES

- Desiring a first threesome but overwhelmed by the “what ifs”
- Eager to rediscover each other through fresh eyes and ignite a relationship renaissance
- Who experienced challenges and want to reframe group play with care
- Curious to expand notions of intimacy and challenge societal norms
- Seeking new tools to master the art of threesomes

LET ME BE YOUR GUIDE ON THIS INTIMATE ADVENTURE

As a happily married polyamorous woman, my lived experience infuses every aspect of our work together, offering you real-world wisdom alongside heartfelt guidance.

For over a decade, I’ve been joining couples in their threesome explorations, weaving magic that transforms relationships.

I’m here not only as a play partner, but also as an ally, and as a facilitator—someone genuinely thrilled to co-create a profound and loving adventure with you both.

THE ARC OF MY SIGNATURE JOURNEY*

My unique container offers a delicate balance of structure and play, providing a deeply safe space for you to express your authentic tun-on, as well as your vulnerabilities.

Following a complimentary meet & greet call and a deep dive meeting to align on intentions and expectations, we will enter the adventure of three-way play.

During our immersions, my role shifts between guide and play partner, ensuring you feel supported throughout. Get ready for several hours of in-person magic designed for relationship expansion and embodied connection, filled with guided conversations, spicy games, powerful tools, tantra, and ample time for organic play.

*I'm happy to explore different possibilities with established couples (FFM, FMF, MFFM).

READY TO WRITE THE NEXT CHAPTER OF YOUR LOVE STORY?

Visit my website to learn more and get in touch today to schedule your complimentary meet & greet call. I'm excited to guide you on this path toward deeper intimacy, adventure, and connection.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Conscious Sexuality Polyamory Sex education Couples coaching Intimacy coaching Adventure Coaching Emotional Connection Experience for couples Intimacy Open relationship Tantra Tantric

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