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MxValentina BDSM Milan

MxValentina

Milan IT, New York NY US, Berlin DE

Precision, Power, and the Softest Cruelty You’ll Ever Crave

BDSM Dom Shibari artist Fetishist Kinkster Erotic media Author Therapist

2 services

About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences
In person & Online
50s , Trans , Bisexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English, Spanish, French, Italian
Postgrad

I am Miss Valentina Dellagravis — a Luxury Trans Dominatrix, Sex Witch, and High Priestess of Erotic Alchemy. At 6’4”, with a life that has spanned continents and boardrooms, I now wield erotic power as ritual, initiation, and transformation.

My presence is commanding, mischievous, and deeply nurturing. Stern yet loving, I embody both maternal softness and sensual sadism. I am at once Mommy Domme and High Priestess — capable of unmaking you with a glance, a word, or a touch.

My Philosophy
I believe the erotic is the language of the divine. Shame can be alchemised into freedom, vulnerability into power, submission into liberation. Every encounter is an initiation — not casual, but sacred, playful, and transformative.

With me, luxury is not the setting. It is the depth of experience, the rare freedom of surrender, and the knowledge that you are worth this investment in yourself.

Who I Am
I am a post-op trans woman who has lived my entire life in the liminal space between male and female. I embody both energies and weave them into my work. You may call this trans, intersex, or simply Sex Witch: I am all of these, and more.
I have lived and worked across the world — in North, South, and Central America; in Europe and Africa; and in Asia. I speak English, French, Italian, and Spanish fluently, and I am at home in every hall of privilege and power.

My background is as rare as my practice: educated in the Ivy League and at one of the world’s most prestigious business schools, I first became a CEO in my early 30’s. Today, I bring the same discretion, intelligence, and sophistication into my sessions as I once did into boardrooms.

My Depth
I am a trained somatic therapist, Reiki practitioner, tantrica, and sensual massage specialist. My touch is intentional, healing, and deeply erotic. I am also a medical herbalist and nutritionist, and my knowledge of the body, psyche, and spirit flows seamlessly into my play.
This unique depth — ritual, business, therapy, mysticism — allows me to hold a space that few can. I meet you where you are, and I take you further than you thought possible.

What You Can Expect
Domination with me is a dance of surrender and revelation. I adore rope and shibari, impact play, erotic touch, and the intimacy of long, unhurried encounters. I welcome overnights, travel, and retained relationships where devotion unfolds into transformation.
I delight in theatre, opera, fine dining, art, and travel. Extended bookings allow us to experience not just play, but connection — a rare balance of companionship and submission.

My world is open to all respectful, generous seekers: queer, trans, questioning, FLINTA, littles, pets, couples, gender explorers. Your desires are safe with me, free from judgment.

The Invitation
Bring me your vulnerability, and I will show you what you are capable of.
Submission with me is liberation.

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

FAQs

Book Me Your journey begins here. With me, booking is simple. I value your time, as I expect you to value mine. Start with a respectful introduction — and let me take it from there. How to Enquire Send me a note with the following details: Your name (first name is fine to start) Where you are based The date, time, and duration you desire The type of encounter you seek (ritual, domination, nurture, companionship) A few words about your interests, limits, and hopes, and anything you wish to share about your experiences in kink What Happens Next Once we’ve connected, I’ll share my simple screening process and deposit requirements. These are always handled discreetly, with your privacy protected. My Preferences I prioritize longer, deeper bookings — the luxury of time and transformation. I give preference to respectful clients who return again and again. Substantial discounts for FLINTA always apply. Bring me your vulnerability, and I will show you what you are capable of. Submission with me is liberation.

Experiences I offer

BDSM and Ritual Kink service

BDSM and Ritual Kink

From €600 In-person

My BDSM practice is a playful and erotic exploration into dominance and submission in a dynamic base...

Tantric Kink service

Tantric Kink

From $3000 In-person

I am both dominatrix and tantric Sex Witch. We will meet at the intersection of power dynamics, spi...

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