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Linz AT, Vienna AT, Dubai AE

Welcome to U-Dating – the movement for real encounters with yourself and others, to live a life without masks.

Dancer Coach Educator Tantric Practicioner

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My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Couple
I speak English, German

Welcome to U-Dating – the movement for real encounters, conscious relationships and a life without masks.
U-Dating is much more than an alternative dating experience – it’s a global community for people who are ready to meet themselves and others honestly. We believe in the power of real connection and that fulfilling relationships start with your relationship with yourself.
Whether you are single or in a relationship – U-Dating offers you spaces to grow, to feel and to be truly human. In our events, retreats and circles, you can show yourself as you really are – vulnerable, alive, real.
Our mission: to create a global movement in which people can meet freely and authentically – beyond superficiality, beyond masks.
All our camps, events and workshops are based on the
U-First method
It’s all about you first: your self-confidence, your self-love, your inner work and your shadow work. Only when you are strong within yourself do we open up the space for real encounters and a conscious life in connection.
U-Dating is based on relationship intelligence – and we go even further:
With our Love Coach Certification we train people who want to accompany others on their path to healthy, loving relationships.
This is how our vision continues to grow – through you, through us, through everyone who feels that it is time for real closeness.
With U-Dating, you can rest assured that your journey is in safe hands. We’re here to support you as you build real, meaningful relationships and develop your own relationship intelligence.
IMPORTANT: U-Dating: What It Is and What It Isn’t
U-Dating is neither conscious dating, speed dating nor slow dating – and it’s not an app. It’s a space where you date yourself first. You meet singles on a similar path; the focus is on self-knowledge, healing and growth – this leads to encounters, not the other way around. We also use a mindful matching method that supports suitable encounters. If you are looking for an “instant partner”, you are in the wrong place. With us, you will go through guided processes to get to know yourself better and strengthen your relationship skills. Connection can happen – or not; both are good. Come without expectations of others or their view of you. Applies to all formats: Day events, camps and U-Circle (live online program).
Best regards
your U-Dating Team

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Communication issues Conscious kink Embodiment Dating advice Conscious Sexuality Relationships Boundaries Group Retreats Tantric

Experiences I offer

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International New Year's Camp 2025/26 MASKS OFF for LOVE For singles

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