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AndreLazarus
Barcelona ES
I help people discover and unlock their highest potential.
About me
- My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Male, Female, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
- I offer experiences
- In person & Online/Virtual
- 40s , Male , Queer
- Other
- I speak English
- Postgrad
t’s time to choose yourself and step into your full intimate potential.
Hello Beautiful Beings!
My name is Andre Lazarus. I have been providing healing and expansive intimate connections for nearly a decade. Join me as we tap into discovering and unleashing your full potential. Each experience is a special offering that is uniquely created and catered to you. Potential experiences include worship rituals, sensual touch, shibari, bdsm, erotic education, and much more.
I welcome people of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship dynamics.
A little about me…
To learn more about me and my work, please visit my website at https://coming-closer.com/about-my-work/.
I am here to create a safe and free space where you can let go into worship, exploration, dearmoring and life-altering healing.
My Offerings
Some of the potential experiences we can explore include but are not limited to:
Sacred Intimacy
A Sacred Intimate guides you into pleasure and connection in your body, helping you to rediscover and experience sensation on every level. Through safety and exploration, you’ll deepen into your erotic capacity and ultimate healing journey.
Together, you will awaken and activate your highest intimate and erotic power.
What to expect during the process:
(elements may include but are not limited to: Intimate Education and Guidance, BDSM dynamics, Shibari/Kinbaku, Embodied Breath Work, Connected Sensation Experiences, Trauma Release Techniques, and more)
* This is a special offering that is unique to each client. Additional details are provided about the structure and nature of the experience during our initial call*
This experience is for you, if:
You have trauma from your past and/or present that is impacting your intimacy with yourself and/or others
You experience shame around desires and have concerns exploring them in partnership
Your pleasures and desires have not been priority in your erotic intimacy
You have desired specific types of exploration, yet do not feel safe exploring them.
Sacred Feminine Touch
This experience provides an all-inclusive bodywork session focusing on the full body release of tension, emotional blockages, and mapping of the body’s pleasure centers. Often described as the perfect combination of therapeutic focus, education and stimulation, a Sacred Feminine Experience is your way to surrender and be fully cared for.
What to expect during process:
(elements may include but are not limited to: Intimate Education and Guidance around your Yoni, Emotional processing and body release, Embodied Breath Work, Connected Sensation Experiences, Trauma Release Techniques, and more)
* This is a special offering that is unique to each client. Additional details are provided about the structure and nature of the experience during our initial call*
This experience is for you, if:
You have trauma from your past and/or present that is impacting intimacy with yourself and/or others
You feel discomfort during physically intimate experiences and/or struggle to feel sensation at all
Your pleasures and desires have not been priority in your erotic intimacy
You experience shame around desires and have concerns exploring them in partnership
You want to receive touch without feeling pressure or expectation to reciprocate.
Sensual and Erotic Rope
This experience provides you with delicious sensual and erotic sensations of rope caressing your skin, holding you close, and letting go into your body as you are taken on a journey of bliss, sensation and exhilaration.
Sex & Intimacy Coaching
I specialize in erotic desire, sexless relationships, sexual trauma healing, erectile concerns, rapid ejaculation, BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, rekindling your relationship spark, and more.
Travel Companionship
Embark on the adventure of your dreams! Draw on my many years of experience traveling the globe, and create memories that will last a lifetime. Beach Vacations, Cruises, Hiking, Camping, Diving, Conservation, or a holiday away together getting a massage every day. Your dream, your vacation, your way.
How to create your own personalized container:
If you feel called to work with me and would like to set up a free 20 minute introductory video call, please schedule here: https://comingcloserllc.hbportal.co/schedule/66390437143fec002b4727bb
I’m currently based near Asheville, North Carolina and love to travel. If you desire me to travel to you we can discuss!
Catered retreats, 24hr and multiple day immersions are available upon request.
With deep love,
Andre Lazarus
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