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benrussell

Vienna AT, Berlin DE

Queering sex is what I do. You wanna join?

BDSM Dom Kinkster Submissive Model Performer Videographer

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About me

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My experiences are for Female, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Non Binary , Bisexual, Queer
White/Caucasian
I speak English, German
Postgrad

Whether you are a woman, lesbian, inter, non-binary or trans. Whether you want to have gender affirming sex, learn to dominate or be dominated, learn to use your strap and have me give you a blowjob. I am here.

Whether you want to experience sex with a person with a bio dick differently than you have before or just want to have the experience to have sex with a person with a bio dick. I am here for you.

I studied psychology, work as a spicy ecudator for adults and produce and perform in queer-feminist porn.

All of this plus more is what I bring. I love to have fun and want to share tools that make it easier for you to experience the things you want to experience.

Whether you are thin, fat, disabled or able bodied, whatever your background. I am here for you.

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Domination Submission Domination Sex Toys Pegging Disabled clients Educational 1 on 1 Experience for couples Filming French kissing Kink Prostate massage Queer sex Spanking (giving) Spanking (receiving) Watersports Gender Affirming Sex

FAQs

I am available whereever you are. I will travel with and for you around the globe to meet your needs and fulfill your dreams.

Please just write me, whatever it is, I am pretty sure I can accomadate you and we can create something beautiful together.

Experiences I offer

In-person kink and bdsm exploration session service

In-person kink and bdsm exploration session

From €550 Online/virtual & In-person

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