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About me
I am a coyote, a trans woman, a dominatrix, and a kinkster with more than a decade of experience on both sides of the slash. I love helping people discover more about themselves through kink. I am of the belief that kink is the ideal arena in which to explore things like identity, power, desire, and more. After all, kink is where I first discovered myself, and where I continue to learn more about myself every day.
As a dominatrix with over a decade of experience in the Chicago, London, and Netherlands kink scenes, I am well-versed in discipline and punishment. Over the years, I have developed my own style of sadism blending impact, humiliation, service, CNC, teasing/denial, and more. A particular passion of mine is petplay—few things are more satisfying than training good boys and good girls, and I think every sub looks better with a collar around their neck. Come get clicker trained and see what I mean.
This is no run-of-the-mill impersonal service—I spend time before every session working with my subs to craft unique experiences. I pride myself on providing a boutique experience, creating a comfortable and safe environment for subs to explore and get exactly what they are looking for: the fulfilling experience of true submission—emotional, psychological, and physical.
I offer something for everyone, whether you are new to BDSM or are experienced in kink, whether you want to focus on a specific niche or you want to sample many types of submission. Because I focus exclusively on BDSM, you can rest assured that you will be submitting to an expert, someone who is passionate and truly enjoys what she does. You will enjoy it too, I'm very sure.
My transition and my other identity explorations have given me an intimate understanding of how what happens within a scene can translate to the world outside the dungeon. For me, it was a series of lightbulb moments: "Oh, I think this [pet play, gender play, etc] is speaking to something much deeper in me. I think I need to understand what that 'something' is." Play can be affirming in so many ways, and I am committed to all our play being an affirmation of who you are, who you want to be, and who you're becoming.
I believe strongly in RACK—Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. I recognize that some of the things that I enjoy, both as a sub and as a dom, like heavy impact and breathplay, are risky. The important thing is recognizing your own personal risk tolerance and how it fits into the play or lifestyle that you want. My risk profile has shifted over the years, and I have learned how to understand and talk about risk in a way that is non-judgemental and safe.
Part of my risk management is knowledge. I never go into play thinking that I will learn a technique as I go. It is very important to me that I know what I am doing before I get into the room, in order to keep both (or all) of us safe. For that reason, my experience in impact, breathplay, hypnosis, predicament bondage, and other arenas is an invaluable asset.
I really love what I do, and I would love to share my passions with you.
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Simply send me a private message letting me know your preferences, what you're looking for, any limits I should know about, your experience level, and some dates/times you'd be interested in meeting (if you're interested in an in-person service). I will respond quickly and let you know our next steps!
That's not a question, but it is something I hear a lot, so I'm including it here. Simply put, don't be! I aim to be as approachable and down-to-earth as possible outside of sessions. If you have questions about what I do, what I don't/won't do, about me, about my experience, my kink philosophy, and so on, you are more than welcome to ask me.
Simply put, I identify as a coyote. I see myself as one, I do what I can to move through the world as one, and I enjoy when others treat me as one, insofar as it is possible. As far as I know, I'm the Netherlands' only therian dominatrix, which is a silly, fun little niche to occupy. It doesn't have to mean anything for our play, but I enjoy when my identity can play a more forward role in sessions. If you want a more animalistic, primal experience, you will find that my coyote den is very accommodating. And if you want to become an animal yourself, this is something that I specialize in. See my website (https://calliyote.pro/coyote) for more.