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Chatouille

Asheville NC US

Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.

BDSM

About me

My experiences are for Male, Non Binary
I offer experiences
In person
50s , Female , Demisexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English

I am Maîtresse Chatouille aka Chatouille. I am a FemDom creatrix and headmistress and curator of Lair Derriere. My primary focus the art of Female Domination which includes a wide variety of activities. My favorites are tickling, sensation play, CBT, chastity, predicaments, interrogations, impact, and training submissive men. I have my own dungeon in my home called "The Snuggery" that is well equipped for private and discreet sessions.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Bondage CBT Chastity Domination FemDom Humiliation Role Play Spanking Submission Taboo Foot Fetish Orgasm control Predicament bondage Sensation play Sploshing Tickling Watersports CFNM FemDom Retreats Interrogation

FAQs

Try engaging in an actual conversation that is more than just a "hi". AND, the more information in your profile, the more likely I am to reciprocate. Here are a few pieces I've written about how to engage: https://fetlife.com/M-Chatouille/c/to-be-considered

Simple. First reach out on this platform. We start a conversation to see if we have compatibility. Then, I have you fill out form and we book a session in the calendar. Your deposit secures the appointment. I only take deposits through cash app.

Since I consider myself an actual practitioner, it would be completely unethical for me to share any details about your identity and what takes place in our sessions with anyone. Your privacy and mine are equally important. That is why I have certain protocols when it comes to booking a session, and they are non negotiable.

Yes. My submissive Finishing School is going to be your best option to turn your fantasy into reality. The program includes a thorough evaluation of your skills and offerings, where you are on the scale of pain/tolerance and sensitivity levels, where you fall in the sub categories/personas, consulting on your appearance/hygiene/profile photos, and a letter of recommendation from me at completion.

Yes, but only for the following: • Chastity/keyholding services • my submissive Finishing School

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