arika
Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach for Individuals & Couples with a love for kink & honesty
Female, 33 Years Old
I am a sexual coach, tantric bodywork practitioner, and relationship guide with passion for helping people feel at home in their sexuality.
Iâve worked in the world of sexuality for years: from sex education and research on sexual violence, to activism, to immersing myself deeply in Tantra, BDSM, and holistic bodywork. Today, I combine all of this into a grounded, intuitive, trauma-sensitive practice that supports you in exploring desire, intimacy, pleasure, and connection â without judgment and without awkwardness.
What it feels like to work with me
Think: warm, present, encouraging, clear, sensual, grounded.
You get a safe, consensual space to talk openly, breathe deeper, feel your body, ask questions, and explore what youâve never or seldomly been able to say out loud.
Iâm a certified systemic sex counselor and couples coach and systemic trauma therapstâ but also someone who genuinely loves the embodied erotic, My sessions weave coaching, meditation, body awareness, and (if desired) tantric touch elements.
I welcome all genders, bodies, relationship styles, and sexual identities.
Tantric Bodywork:
Slow, attentive, intuitive, tender and present touch.
Full-body. Genital-inclusive. Anal/prostate upon request.
Shiatsu, tantra, marma points, Ayurvedic influence â always with a deep talk before and after.
Your pace, your body, your choice.
Kink-friendly. Trauma-informed. Always consensual.
Coaching Topics I Work With
(Just to give you a feel â you donât need a âproblemâ to come to me.)
desire, libido & pleasure
kink, fetishes, BDSM exploration
shame-free conversations about sex
relationship patterns & communication
mismatched desire
trust, jealousy, boundaries
sexual identity & self-expression
STIs, fear, performance anxiety
recovering sexual agency after difficult experiences
Couples:
Whether youâre rebuilding connection or opening new doors â I work with communication, emotional safety, sexuality, and desire dynamics.
You can also combine coaching + tantric touch elements. We can combine couples coaching with tantric coaching of touch.
If youâre looking for something honest, generous, emotionally intelligent, and nourishing â Iâm open, but only when the connection is genuine.
Clear communication required.
Send a thoughtful message if thatâs what you want to explore.
A personal note
Sexuality is not just my job â itâs my passion.
Tantra and BDSM keep me curious, playful, and deeply connected to my own body and power.
And fun, humor, and pleasure are absolutely part of the work with me....