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MALISANDRE

Washington UK

Educator, coach, and artist exploring the sacred art of sensuality, power, and transformation.

Artist Author BDSM Coach Dom Educator Kinkster Painter

3 services, 5 products

About me

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I offer experiences
Online/Virtual
30s , Female
White/Caucasian
I speak English
Postgrad

Educator. Coach. Artist.
I teach the art of embodied power—where sensuality becomes wisdom and creation becomes ritual. Through writing, mentorship, and artistry, I guide others to reclaim pleasure as sacred, and self-expression as liberation.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Conscious kink Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Sex magick coaching Erotic Art Understanding Desire

FAQs

No. I no longer take professional submission or in-person domination clients. My focus now is on education, artistry, and mentorship—teaching others how to create conscious power exchanges and integrate sensual leadership into their own lives and relationships.

I work with couples and individuals who are curious, intentional, and ready to approach sensuality as a spiritual and creative practice. My clients range from seasoned practitioners to those just beginning their journey—artists, lovers, leaders, and seekers who wish to embody both power and tenderness in their daily lives.

My work combines sensual education, psychology, and art. I don’t teach performance—I teach presence. Power, to me, is sacred. It is not about control for its own sake but about the awareness and intention behind each gesture, word, and moment. I help my clients understand that true power is a form of devotion.

You can explore my writings, rituals, and artwork through House of Embers and Ember Arcana, or connect with me directly on Sensuali for coaching and mentorship opportunities.

Experiences I offer

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Power Exchange for Couples — Coaching & Integration service

Power Exchange for Couples — Coaching & Integration

From $250 Online/virtual

A guided experience for couples who wish to introduce intentional power dynamics into their daily li...
Drawn to Obey: A Bespoke Portrait of Submission product

Drawn to Obey: A Bespoke Portrait of Submission

From $350

A portrait not merely drawn, but devoted. From your chosen photograph, I create a hand-rendered ske...
Mentorship for Dominant Women: Leading from the Divine Feminine service

Mentorship for Dominant Women: Leading from the Divine Feminine

From $200 Online/virtual

Power does not need to imitate the masculine to be formidable. True dominance is born from presence,...
Power Exchange in Marriage: A Guide to Devotional D/s for Long-Term Partners (Downloadable PDF) product

Power Exchange in Marriage: A Guide to Devotional D/s for Long-Term Partners (Downloadable PDF)

From $20

n elegant, expertly written guide exploring how Dominance and submission thrive within long-term par...
The Devotional Submission Workbook
A Guided Journey Into Surrender, Service & Self-Knowledge product

The Devotional Submission Workbook A Guided Journey Into Surrender, Service & Self-Knowledge

From $28

A refined, elegant workbook for new and experienced submissives seeking structure, clarity, and deep...
The Dominant’s Guide to Ritual Leadership
Structure, Discipline & Devotion in Power Exchange product

The Dominant’s Guide to Ritual Leadership Structure, Discipline & Devotion in Power Exchange

From $32

A refined, authoritative guide for Dominants who want to lead with presence, emotional intelligence,...
The Wounded Feminine → Sovereign Feminine Transformation Workbook product

The Wounded Feminine → Sovereign Feminine Transformation Workbook

From $38

A powerful, ritual-centered workbook guiding women from embodied wounds into embodied sovereignty. S...
Custom Embodiment Ritual Design
A Personalized Ritual Crafted for Your Body, Shadow & Becoming service

Custom Embodiment Ritual Design A Personalized Ritual Crafted for Your Body, Shadow & Becoming

From $88 Online/virtual

Receive a bespoke embodiment ritual crafted specifically for your journey—whether you’re healing a w...

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