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Lrd. Erebus
New York NY US
A certified relationship coach and dark-edged intimacy guide, I help people step out of shame and into self-expression!
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About me
- My experiences are for Everyone
- I offer experiences
- Online/Virtual
- 20s , Male
- Black/African
- I speak English
I’m Erebus!
I'm a dating and relationship Coach certified by the Relationship Coaching Institute and the creator of Tartarus Coaching, where I guide people through the shadows of shame, desire, and intimacy into the fire of their deepest erotic truth.
I specialize in helping folks step into their power through kink exploration, sexuality expansion, dating clarity, and emotional confidence. Whether you're learning to flirt without fear, craving deeper connection, or ready to explore your sensuality with intention, I’m here to hold the flashlight as you descend into the underworld… and rise with more authenticity, more freedom, and more pleasure!
If you’re looking for a coach who blends shadow work, psychology, playfulness, and a little bit of divine darkness… then let’s explore the possibilities together!
* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs
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Online coaching programs made with PROVEN resources!
From $2000 Online/virtual
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