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Shelby Terrell, LMSW

New York NY US

Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator

Artist BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Therapist Speaker

1 service

About me

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My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Male, Female, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
I offer experiences Online/Virtual
30s , Female , Pansexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English
Postgrad

Shelby Terrell (she/her), LMSW, is a dedicated sex, relationship, and psychedelic therapist and coach with expertise in LGBTQIA+ issues, ethical non-monogamy/polyamory, kink, and restructuring beliefs around religious or purity culture. She works with individuals, couples, and people across diverse relationship structures—whether friends, coworkers, families, or romantic partners—navigating challenges such as anxiety, depression, life transitions, shame, judgment, communication struggles, vulnerability, and more.

Shelby’s approach is rooted in collaboration, compassion, empathy, and curiosity, fostering a safe and supportive environment to help clients on their journey toward growth and connection.

In addition to her therapeutic work, Shelby serves as an Intimacy Coordinator for TV and film, promoting a culture of consent and helping create responsible, authentic depictions of sex in media.

In New York, I work under Rachel Wright at Shame Free Therapy.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to
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Experiences I offer

Sex & Relationship Therapy/Coaching service

Sex & Relationship Therapy/Coaching

From $225 Online

Shelby is a sex, relationship, and psychedelic therapist and coach with expertise in LGBTQIA+ issues...

My tags

Boundaries Counselling Self confidence Self exploration Trauma healing Gender Exploration Psychosexual Therapy Communication issues Conscious kink Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Sacred Sexuality Sex coaching Sexuality coaching Wheel Of Consent Dating advice Polyamory Coaching Queer sex coaching Conscious Sexuality Educational 1 on 1 Pleasure education Polyamory Relationships Sex education Sex toy advice Understanding Desire

FAQs

I do! If you are seeking therapy and/or coaching and are experiencing financial difficulties, please don't let that be a barrier to reaching out to me. I'm happy to share my sliding scale with you if I have space in my case load.

I do not. However, if you live in New York or New Jersey, I can provide the information for you to submit to your insurance for reimbursement. That being said, I cannot promise you will be reimbursed.

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