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trevorjames
Los Angeles CA US
Intentional, consent-forward cuddling, massage, sacred intimacy, and intimacy coaching for men in Los Angeles.
3 services, 1 product
About me
- My experiences are for Male, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid
- I offer experiences
- In person & Online/Virtual
- 50s , Male , Gay
- Black/African
- I speak English
- Postgrad
Hi, I’m Trevor James, a touch & intimacy practitioner devoted to helping you feel at home in your body, connected to your pleasure, and more confident in the way you relate.
My work centers around bodywork, sacred intimacy, and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. Most of what I offer is 1-on-1 and in person, because I believe real transformation happens when the body can relax, trust, and be met with steady presence. And for those who want support from anywhere, coaching is also available online.
Bodywork (Massage + Somatic Touch):
My bodywork is grounding, intentional, and deeply restorative; a blend of skilled massage and sensual/erotic touch. Whether you’re carrying stress, touch hunger, or emotional armor, we’ll work with your body in a way that supports release, regulation, and real softness.
Sacred Intimacy (Eros with Reverence):
Sacred intimacy is where sensuality and spirituality meet; a container for connection, consent, and embodied presence. This is not about performance; it’s about being, feeling, and allowing pleasure to be healing. We move slowly, communicate clearly, and honor your boundaries every step of the way.
Intimacy Coaching (Individuals + Couples):
Coaching with me is practical, heart-forward, and embodied. For individuals, it may be about confidence, desire, shame healing, boundaries, or learning to receive. For couples, it can be about rebuilding trust, improving communication, creating deeper erotic connection, and designing rituals that keep intimacy alive long after the session ends. Coaching can happen in person or online, depending on your needs.
What you can expect from me: warmth, professionalism, clear boundaries, enthusiastic presence, and ongoing consent. We’ll start with what you’re longing for, and we’ll build a container that feels safe, supportive, and real.
If you’re craving deeper connection — to yourself, your body, or your partner — I’d love to work with you.
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Experiences I offer
Reignite the Flame (Coaching program for gay couples)
From $1200
Intentional Male-to-Male Cuddle Therapy
From $150 In-person
Male-to-Male Erotic Sacred Intimacy
From $250 In-person
Male-to-Male Sensual/Erotic Massage
From $150 In-person
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