Vüdü Dähl : Author BDSM Coach on Sensuali

About me

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: My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences: In person & Online
: 30s , Non Binary , Pansexual
: Black/African
: I speak English

What do your toes have to say about what it’s like to be you right now?
I ask questions like that because our bodies are always speaking — we just forget how to listen. For most of my life, I didn’t know how. I grew up in a restrictive religious environment and lived on autopilot for years, completely disconnected from myself.

Discovering somatic therapy and kink helped me come back home to my body and finally understand what safety, pleasure, and agency feel like.

Now, as a Trauma-Informed Somatic Sexologist, I help others do the same — exploring intimacy and nervous-system regulation through curiosity, play, and compassion. I’m not a guru; I’m a person walking this path too. Healing isn’t a finish line — it’s a continuous, playful conversation with your body, and I’m here to walk beside you while you learn to listen.

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My links

https://www.sensuali.com/vududahl-25146/

https://Www.dahlier.com

https://instagram.com/vudu_dahl

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Meet LA-based kink educator: Vüdü Dähl

FAQs

Every session is customized, but they usually include conversation, breathwork, somatic exercises, and nervous-system tools. We focus on how your body holds stories around intimacy, desire, and safety. My role is to guide—not to touch or perform. Think of it as a collaborative exploration rather than traditional “sex coaching.”

At the moment, all of my sessions are virtual and focus on somatic awareness, nervous-system regulation, and erotic education—there’s no physical touch involved. In the future, I’ll be offering select in-person experiences centered on embodiment and ritual work, but those will always remain fully consent-based, educational, and trauma-informed.

Anyone who’s curious about reconnecting to their body—whether you’re healing from trauma, exploring kink, or simply wanting to feel more at home in yourself. I work with individuals, couples, and especially those who identify as neurodivergent or have experienced religious conditioning around sexuality.

Absolutely! My approach is gentle and educational. We’ll go at your pace, focusing on understanding boundaries, consent, and nervous-system safety before exploring anything intense. Curiosity is more important than experience.

Healing doesn’t have to be heavy. I believe play, curiosity, and compassion are essential parts of nervous-system regulation. We don’t “fix” ourselves here—we learn how to listen to the body and create a relationship with it that feels safe, alive, and real.

Just you—comfortable clothes, water, and an open mind. If you have a specific topic or pattern you’d like to explore, you’re welcome to share that before we begin.