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Men, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid

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In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

50s · Male

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English

Hi, I’m Trevor James, a touch & intimacy practitioner devoted to helping you feel at home in your body, connected to your pleasure, and more confident in the way you relate.

My work centers around bodywork, sacred intimacy, and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples. Most of what I offer is 1-on-1 and in person, because I believe real transformation happens when the body can relax, trust, and be met with steady presence. And for those who want support from anywhere, coaching is also available online.

Bodywork (Massage + Somatic Touch):
My bodywork is grounding, intentional, and deeply restorative; a blend of skilled massage and sensual/erotic touch. Whether you’re carrying stress, touch hunger, or emotional armor, we’ll work with your body in a way that supports release, regulation, and real softness.

Sacred Intimacy (Eros with Reverence):
Sacred intimacy is where sensuality and spirituality meet; a container for connection, consent, and embodied presence. This is not about performance; it’s about being, feeling, and allowing pleasure to be healing. We move slowly, communicate clearly, and honor your boundaries every step of the way.

Intimacy Coaching (Individuals + Couples):
Coaching with me is practical, heart-forward, and embodied. For individuals, it may be about confidence, desire, shame healing, boundaries, or learning to receive. For couples, it can be about rebuilding trust, improving communication, creating deeper erotic connection, and designing rituals that keep intimacy alive long after the session ends. Coaching can happen in person or online, depending on your needs.

What you can expect from me: warmth, professionalism, clear boundaries, enthusiastic presence, and ongoing consent. We’ll start with what you’re longing for, and we’ll build a container that feels safe, supportive, and real.

If you’re craving deeper connection — to yourself, your body, or your partner — I’d love to work with you.

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Who are your clients?
I work primarily with men—gay, bisexual, straight, curious, and everything in between—who are ready to explore touch, intimacy, and authenticity in a safe, judgment-free space.
Why do you only work with men?
I fill the niche for men who prefer the touch of other men for bodywork, regardless of sexual orientation. Also because men need spaces to feel safe in their vulnerability, desire, and longing for connection. Too often we’re taught to armor up. My work offers a place to soften, to feel, and to come home to yourself.
What can I expect during a session?
We begin with a short conversation to set intentions and boundaries. From there, I guide you through breathwork, touch, and mindful connection, always at your comfort level. My Hollywood studio is warm, private, and welcoming, with soft lighting and music that help you fully relax.
What if I'm nervous?
Then you’re human. Many clients arrive feeling anxious or unsure. My role is to create an atmosphere where you can exhale, take your time, and rediscover what safety in touch feels like.
Do you work with couples?
Yes. I offer couples coaching and guided touch sessions that help partners reconnect, communicate, and rediscover pleasure and intimacy in new ways.
What if I feel uncomfortable or want to stop?
If you become uncomfortable in any way at any time, please say so. We will stop whatever is causing discomfort and adjust accordingly. Please do not wait until your discomfort is unbearable, do this at the first hint of it. This is your session and none of it needs to feel any less than great! If you would like to end your session early for any reason simply say so.

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