Alexandra Schulz

I invite you into the integral intimacy lab to draw a somatic map of desire: to take the hand of your inner “Good Girl” or "Good Boy" to let them share breath and the wild “Sacred Hure” or “Primal Beast”, while their heartbeats syncing into an integrated pulse that fuses polarities into embodied intimacy.

I was born already misbehaving - a little kinky-ass wonder surviving a natural home birth, greeting the world with my pussy and ass first, even before I took my first breath.
A quiet, observing but coquette and curious girl that exchanged first self-pleasure success stories with my childhood friends.

Being deeply touched by the raw beauty of natural sea birth, that I studied in a book my mum happened to have. Even if I didn't imagine having kids of my own, I was fascinated by the primal wonder of the human body. My first calling?

Life challenged my path.
I was sidetracked, shut down, numbed - sexual and emotional abuse carved wounds deep enough, resulting in a lot of self-hatred and disgust and shame around my body, and fear towards the masculine.
But my curiosity… a little flame that could never be extinguished.
For over 25 years of my relentless, at times obsessive, healing journey, trying all the integral modalities I could get my hands on,
claiming my way back into feeling safe and comfortable in my own skin again.

Fast forward - I heard the calling of my existential kink.
That ripped off the blindfold, helping me to face my deep betrayal and rejection wound, and many shadows I had buried. I learned to transform pain into pleasure, despair into fuel for growth. With this newfound opening, still fearful, I attracted a loving partner in crime to accompany me in my deepest soul-searching kinky explorations and adventures.

I trained as a somatic yin-yang coach of light and dark eros, where I learned to take myself - and accompany others - into claiming true desire and life force, shedding old conditioning, walking through the deepest pits and shadows if necessary, creating the inner and outer conditions for thriving aliveness and pleasure.

Do you feel the call to ignite your embodiment intimacy journey?
I'd be delighted to hop on a free call with you to spark your deepest desire.