Meet kink friendly somatic breathwork coach: Alexandra Schulz
Meet Alexandra Schulz, a trauma-sensitive, kink-friendly breathwork and embodied intimacy coach working with desire, shadow, and aliveness.
Alexandra Schulz is a trained trauma-sensitive, integral Yin–Yang, VITA™ and Breathwork Coach specialising in embodied intimacy, somatic exploration, and the transformation of shadow and desire.
Through Yin–Yang parts work, breathwork, pleasure practices, and Primal Dance, she works with highly sensitive souls who want to meet shame, fear, and vulnerability around intimacy or commitment with more honesty and self-trust.
In this interview, Alexandra shares her journey into this work, the approach she brings to her sessions on Sensuali, and how embodied intimacy has shaped both her professional practice and personal life.
- How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
- Tell us more about yourself and what you do...
- What services do you provide on Sensuali?
- What was your journey into this world?
- What turns you on?
- What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?
- What should more people know about your work?
- Why do you do what you do?
- What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
- What’s your superpower?
- We love vices. What’s yours?
- Who are your sensual inspirations?
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
Sensitive, playful, deep.
Tell us more about yourself and what you do…
As a trained trauma-sensitive, integral Yin–Yang, VITA™ and Breathwork Coach specialising in embodied intimacy, somatic exploration, and the transformation of shadow and desire, I accompany people into claiming true desires, playfulness, and life force, like a phoenix shedding old conditioning.
I walk with clients through deep pits, shadows, and existential kink, helping them create the inner and outer conditions for thriving aliveness, pleasure, and unapologetic erotic intelligence.
What services do you provide on Sensuali?
- Online one-to-one embodied intimacy coaching for highly sensitive souls.
- Online Sensual Primal Dance Session for Ying & Yang balance
I offer a judgement-free, trauma-sensitive container where shame melts, truth is welcomed, and desire becomes a playful pathway to deeper connection with yourself and your intimate relationships.
I invite clients into an integral intimacy lab to draw a somatic map of desire, taking the hand of the inner ‘Good Girl’ or ‘Good Boy’ and allowing them to breathe alongside the wild ‘Sacred Whore’ or ‘Primal Beast’.
Their heartbeats begin to sync, fusing polarities into embodied intimacy.
What was your journey into this world?
I was born already misbehaving, a little kinky wonder surviving a natural home birth, greeting the world ass and pussy first, before even taking my first breath.
I was a quiet observer, coquette and curious, sharing early self-pleasure success stories with childhood friends. I was deeply moved by the raw beauty of natural sea birth in a book my mother owned, fascinated by the primal wonder of the human body.
Later, I heard the calling of my existential kink. It ripped off the blindfold, forcing me to face deep betrayal and rejection wounds, buried shadows, and denied desires. I learned to transform pain into pleasure, despair into fuel for growth and creative power.
What turns you on?
Lately, I find myself deeply turned on by existential kink, playing with and exploring the parts of me that get off on emotional masochism, intensity, chaos, and shadow.
Bringing this honest exploration into my intimate dynamics has been electrifying and liberating.
What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?
Slow mornings. Breakfast or morning tea in bed, cuddles and loving words with my partner, followed by gentle breathwork or a self-pleasure practice to open my body and centre my energy.
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What should more people know about your work?
That it can touch your deepest core and transform personal shadows and pain into play and pleasure.
Why do you do what you do?
I do this work because out of everything I’ve ever tried, this is the only thing that makes me feel truly alive.
It fascinates me, grounds me, challenges me, and guides me. It does not just give me energy, it feels like part of my life’s mission.
What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
Watching my clients flourish when they allow themselves to feel more deeply and expand their awareness of what is possible for them.
What’s your superpower?
Sensitivity and empathy.
We love vices. What’s yours?
Chocolate and sexual fusion.
Who are your sensual inspirations?
Layla Martin, Om Rupani, Sasha Cobra, among others.
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