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arika

Berlin DE

I love sex - if you know, you know I love sexuality - to talk, to geek about it, to go deepI am eros - sexual power

BDSM Coach Massage Therapist

3 services

About me

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My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Female, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Female , Pansexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English, German
Postgrad

Berlin-Based Tantrika & Sexuality Coach for Individuals & Couples with a love for kink & honesty
Female, 33 Years Old

I am a sexual coach, tantric bodywork practitioner, and relationship guide with passion for helping people feel at home in their sexuality.

I’ve worked in the world of sexuality for years: from sex education and research on sexual violence, to activism, to immersing myself deeply in Tantra, BDSM, and holistic bodywork. Today, I combine all of this into a grounded, intuitive, trauma-sensitive practice that supports you in exploring desire, intimacy, pleasure, and connection — without judgment and without awkwardness.

What it feels like to work with me

Think: warm, present, encouraging, clear, sensual, grounded.
You get a safe, consensual space to talk openly, breathe deeper, feel your body, ask questions, and explore what you’ve never or seldomly been able to say out loud.

I’m a certified systemic sex counselor and couples coach and systemic trauma therapst— but also someone who genuinely loves the embodied erotic, My sessions weave coaching, meditation, body awareness, and (if desired) tantric touch elements.

I welcome all genders, bodies, relationship styles, and sexual identities.

Tantric Bodywork:
Slow, attentive, intuitive, tender and present touch.
Full-body. Genital-inclusive. Anal/prostate upon request.
Shiatsu, tantra, marma points, Ayurvedic influence — always with a deep talk before and after.
Your pace, your body, your choice.

Kink-friendly. Trauma-informed. Always consensual.

Coaching Topics I Work With

(Just to give you a feel — you don’t need a “problem” to come to me.)
desire, libido & pleasure
kink, fetishes, BDSM exploration
shame-free conversations about sex
relationship patterns & communication
mismatched desire
trust, jealousy, boundaries
sexual identity & self-expression
STIs, fear, performance anxiety
recovering sexual agency after difficult experiences

Couples:
Whether you’re rebuilding connection or opening new doors — I work with communication, emotional safety, sexuality, and desire dynamics.
You can also combine coaching + tantric touch elements. We can combine couples coaching with tantric coaching of touch.

If you’re looking for something honest, generous, emotionally intelligent, and nourishing — I’m open, but only when the connection is genuine.
Clear communication required.
Send a thoughtful message if that’s what you want to explore.

A personal note

Sexuality is not just my job — it’s my passion.
Tantra and BDSM keep me curious, playful, and deeply connected to my own body and power.
And fun, humor, and pleasure are absolutely part of the work with me.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

4 hands Lingam Naked massage Yoni massage Couples coaching Sacred Sexuality Impact play Spanking Tie and Tease Body Worship Conscious Sexuality Erotic massage Fetish and Kink Kink events Open relationship Prostate massage Tantra

FAQs

You can contact me directly through the platform. We will schedule a short introductory chat where you can share your intentions and ask questions. Once we both feel it’s a good fit, we choose a time and I send you all practical details (location, preparation, consent process, etc.).

Every session begins with a warm conversation to understand your boundaries, desires, and intentions. The bodywork itself is slow, attentive, full-body touch that may include genital massage if you choose. I put a focus on thetalk befor eand prepare the entire body before going to the genitals. If you want more focus there. let me know and we find a solution I work with influences from tantra, Shiatsu, marma points, and Ayurvedic techniques. Your pace, your choice — always consensual, always trauma-sensitive. We end with time to ground, integrate, and talk.

Not at all. Most clients are complete beginners. I and love to be the first one ;) I guide you gently, clearly, and always at your comfort level.

Yes — many clients find that the mix of emotional clarity and embodied experience creates deeper change. We always discuss your comfort level first and move step by step. I offer packages especially for couples to combine Coaching with tantric Bodywork. check my website for that or my experiences here

I am a certified systemic sex counselor and couples coach, working with a trauma-sensitive approach. ( systemic trauma therapy IST Berlin). However, I do not offer psychotherapy or medical treatment. If needed, I can help you find additional support.

For coaching: just yourself. For bodywork: loose, comfortable clothes. You do not need to bring anything unless I tell you otherwise. A shower is available if needed. Come well rested, no coffee before. No eating just before. No sex or solosex the day before.

Yes — all genders, bodies, sexualities, relationship styles, and identities are welcome. Monogamous, poly, queer, straight, kinky, questioning — everyone is safe with me. But I am sorry I do not have a disabled-friendly studio :/

Not necessarily. First and foremost my touch is loving. Touch can be sensual, therapeutic, grounding, erotic, or nurturing depending on what you come for. We discuss your boundaries clearly before we begin.

For couples, the focus is on communication, connection, emotional safety, and sexual dynamics. We work with both of you together — sometimes talking, sometimes doing guided practices or gentle touch exercises.

Clear communication. Say what you want, what you don’t want, and what you’re afraid to ask for. Authenticity is sexy. Gifts I love (if you feel called to spoil me): Vabali Spa vouchers Sunday Natural vouchers A thoughtful message that shows presence, not performance great reviews Book voucher

Perfectly normal. I love to be excited and your shyness is part of teh process. embrace it and bring it to me. Many clients feel nervous at first — and within minutes experience relief, clarity, and ease. You set the pace. I follow.

That’s completely okay. We can explore together. You can start with a short consultation and see what feels right.

Yes — if you choose it. And tell me BEFORE the session ( not during) Anal and prostate touch can be deeply relaxing, healing, and pleasurable, and many clients come specifically to explore this area with guidance. We only include it after a clear consent conversation, and always at your pace. Preparation, breathing, communication, and grounding are part of the process. Nothing is ever rushed, forced, or assumed — your boundaries lead every step. I advice you to book a longer session for this practice

Coaching sessions are conversation-based. You bring your questions, challenges, or curiosities about sex, intimacy, relationships, kink, or embodiment. I offer guidance, reflection, exercises, and tools that help you understand yourself, communicate better, and reconnect with your desires. No touch is involved unless we have agreed on a body-based element. Anything related to your sexual or relational life, including: really ANYTHING is fine! I love to talk about sex. lets be geeky and nerdy and there is nothing that we can not talk about. desire, libido & arousal kink, fetish & BDSM exploration mismatched desire in relationships communication and emotional safety orgasm difficulties pain or discomfort during sex shame, fear, performance pressure opening a relationship jealousy, boundaries, trust reconnection after infidelity recovering sexual agency after trauma sexual identity, pleasure & embodiment concerns about STIs or safer sex Nothing is too taboo. Nothing is “too much.”

🔹 Up to 7 days before the session: 💰 Full refund 🔹 2 to 6 days before: 💰 I keep the deposit to pay the room. 🔹 Less than 48 hours before: ❌ No refund possible. If I need to cancel, you’ll receive a full refund or the option to reschedule.

Experiences I offer

Deep Tantric Bodywork - all gender service

Deep Tantric Bodywork - all gender

From $380 In-person

A mindful full-body tantric massage that includes the pelvic area and genitals within a safe, suppop...
Tantric Couple Ritual / Coaching of Touch / Tantra for 3 service

Tantric Couple Ritual / Coaching of Touch / Tantra for 3

From $420 In-person

In this coaching format, partners learn the foundations of tantric touch together. I guide you step ...
Systemic Sexual Therapy & Couples Coaching (Trauma-Sensitive) service

Systemic Sexual Therapy & Couples Coaching (Trauma-Sensitive)

From $170 Online/virtual & In-person

In my sessions, individuals and couples find a safe and non-judgmental space to talk openly about se...

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