Tantric Couple Ritual / Coaching of Touch / Tantra for 3
In this coaching format, partners learn the foundations of tantric touch together. I guide you step by step to give and receive in mindfulness, to listen through your hands, and to explore your intimacy in a new way.
As a couple and sextherapist we have a pretalk before entering the mindful and ritual space.
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let yourself be touched — a tantric retreat for couples
About the retreatSometimes you sense that something essential is missing — real time together, genuine closeness, the reminder of why you are two. This weekend is made for exactly that. Over four days we devote ourselves entirely to your relationship and your sensual-bodily connection. At the heart of the programme are the tantric principles of giving and receiving, and the experience of the devotion ritual as tantric massage: a mindful, sensual bodywork practice you learn together and share with each other. You will be introduced to lingam and yoni massage — the massage of each partner's intimate center — held within a carefully guided framework of theory, reflection, and practice.What's includedActivating morning practice (somatic dance, qi gong, breathwork)Introduction to tantric principlesPrinciples of giving & receivingLingam & yoni massage (guided & accompanied)Couple & group reflection roundsSound journey & meditationSauna, couple time & mini temple eveningGluten-free vegetarian catering (brunch, dinner, snacks)Dates & locationDates: 1–4 October 2026 Thu from 16:00 · Sun by 14:00Location: Finkenwerder Hof, Wendisch Waren, Mecklenburg Lake DistrictCourse fee€650 per person: https://buy.stripe.com/fZu14ne9x63g8yceRU8IU03Accommodation & mealsapprox. €270 per person per double room yoiu book via: https://www.finkenwerderhof.org/events/skin-soul/incl. full board, private bathroom · booked separatelyGroup size: 4–5 couplesSmall, intimate groupFood: Gluten-free & vegetarian (Please flag allergies or dietary needs)FacilitatorsSonja — I believe that intimacy begins where we dare to truly feel — and that the body holds wisdom long before words find their way.For over six years I have been accompanying individuals and couples on their journey toward authentic sensuality and honest connection. My work lives at the intersection of touch, presence, and transformation — held by a deep respect for whatever each person carries into the room.Taboo has a place here. So does tenderness. I work through bodywork, ritual, and conversation, always process-oriented and trauma-sensitive — because real intimacy asks for exactly that kind of care.My background weaves together sociology, health sciences, sexual education, systemic sexual and trauma therapy, couples coaching, tantra, yoga, and shiatsu. But more than any title, what guides me is a simple belief: that we deserve to feel safe and alive in our most intimate moments. Both. At once.Ale Heartful: https://www.aleheartful.com/ — breathwork and gong teacher, tantric massage practitioner. A passionate companion for holistic health, conscious living, and deep wellbeing. My journey with nourishment and healing began in my family's kitchen — a place where food was far more than sustenance: it was connection, heritage, and love. Growing up with indigenous Paraguayan roots, I was introduced early to the wisdom of natural healing and ritual.I am:Psychedelic Breath® teacher & Reiki practitioner — breathwork and energy healing to support inner balanceMale birth companion (doula) & tantric massage practitioner — doula support with a focus on nutrition & detoxification for fertility · sensitive tantric massages for bodywork and deep presencePranic healing · massage · aromatherapy — complementary healing methods for body, mind, and soulNutritional hygienist & plant-based cook — holistic nutritional education & conscious food preparationI see life as a composition. Not separate arts, not isolated practices, but a living ecosystem in which nutrition, body, emotions, sound, touch, movement, presence, and connection influence each other like colors in a painting. From an early age, it was never about mastering just one thing. It was about feeling how everything communicates with everything else. How nutrition changes the nervous system. How harmony changes the body. How the body changes mood. How connection with the self opens connection with others. Through this blend of learning and creative exploration, I create experiences that invite softness, balance, expansion, and co-creation. A calmer nervous system. A healthier body. Better mood. More confidence. More presence. More inner connection. Not as a method. More as a feeling. A return to something natural, sensual, human, alive.LanguageThe seminar will be held partly or fully in English depending on the language skills of the participants. Ale speaks Spanish, English, and has a B1 level of German, so his parts will be held in English, though Sonja can always translate. If the group is German-speaking, Sonja's portions will be in German and Ale's in English with translation.ProgrammeThursday, October 1 · Arrival4:00–6:00 pm: Travel, arrival, settling in6:00–7:00 pm: Dinner7:00 pm: First group sessionFriday8:00–9:00 am: Morning activation9:30–10:30 am: Brunch11:00 am–1:00 pm: Introduction to tantra1:00–2:30 pm: Break / walk / lunch2:30–6:30 pm: Massage session6:30–8:00 pm: Dinner8:00–9:00 pm: Programme, followed by sauna and wind-downSaturday8:00–9:00 am: Morning activation / breathwork9:30–10:30 am: Breakfast11:00 am–1:00 pm: Subgroups1:00–2:30 pm: Break / walk / lunch2:30–6:30 pm: Massage session6:30–8:00 pm: DinnerEvening: Surprise yourself & saunaSunday · Integration & Departure9:00–10:30 am: Psychedelic Breath — with a clear vision as a couple. Integrating and taking what you've learned10:30 am–12:00 pm: Brunch12:00–2:00 pm: Integration round & closing2:00 pm: DepartureCancellation: Cancellation Policy To cancel, notify me Cancellation terms are as follows:Until 8 weeks before the retreat (before August 6, 2026): 70% refund of the amount paid.Between 8 and 4 weeks before (August 6 — September 3, 2026): 50 % refundLess than 4 weeks before (after September 3, 2026): no refund, but the spot may be transferred to another couple. There is no refund for arriving late or leaving early.For questions reach out, we can schedule a phone call. For booking the retreat go here: https://buy.stripe.com/fZu14ne9x63g8yceRU8IU03The accommodation is bookable via Finkenwerderhof: https://www.finkenwerderhof.org/events/skin-soul/
Systemic Sexual Therapy & Couples Coaching (Trauma-Sensitive)
In my sessions, individuals and couples find a safe and non-judgmental space to talk openly about sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. Topics often surrounded by shame or taboo can be expressed and understood here with care and clarity.
My work combines a systemic and trauma-sensitive approach with a focus on communication, body awareness, and relational dynamics. I bring a feminist and holistic perspective to sexuality, always considering both the personal and the social dimensions of desire and connection.
Experience from Tantra and BDSM informs my understanding of boundaries, trust, power, and pleasure. The goal is to foster safety, understanding, and authentic connection — with oneself and with others.
Common topics include:
– Desire differences and sexual fulfillment
– Communication and trust issues in relationships
– Shame, fear, or pain related to sexuality
– Non-monogamy, jealousy, affairs, and boundaries
– Kinks, fetishes, sexual identity
– The impact of trauma or consent violations
Deep Tantric Bodywork - all gender
A mindful full-body tantric massage that includes the pelvic area and genitals within a safe, suppoprtive framework.
As a certified sex therapist, I place strong emphasis on communication, consent, and emotional grounding, so you can relax deeply and explore your sensuality with awareness and trust. A sacred space for deep relaxation, sensual awakening, and embodied presence.
Through mindful touch, breath, and connection, you are invited to explore your body as a source of joy, awareness, and sensuality.
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Tantric Couple Ritual / Coaching of Touch / Tantra for 3
- 3 hr $420
Free cancellation applies — arrange directly with the practitioner. A free Sensuali account is needed to message & book.
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