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FemmeTog

Oklahoma City OK US

Erotic artist & fantasy fashion stylist

Artist Coach Educator Erotic creator Fetishist Kinkster Photographer Therapist Videographer

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My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Male, Female, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
40s , Female , Queer
I speak English
Postgrad

I am a multi-passionate spicy creative & offer an array of unique services to my clients, all grounded in confident sexuality and radical self-love ❤️

I am a photographer, videographer and fantasy fashion / fetish stylist focused on creating erotic art that celebrates the diversity of the human body and human sexuality. I collect designer lingerie and design and create my own latex outfits. Imagine hosting a boudoir photoshoot room at your next group play party - or booking something special just to celebrate yourself or that special person in your life.

I am:
✨ Body positive
🏳️‍🌈 Queer friendly
🍍Lifestyle adjacent
🪢 Fetish/kink informed
🌶️ Pro-sw'er

Reach out today and let's discuss how I can bring your fantasy to life!

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

Experiences I offer

Erotic party styling, photography & videography services service

Erotic party styling, photography & videography services

From $250 In-person

Are you hosting a spicy party (swinger, bachelorette, group play party or otherwise)? Let me arrive ...
Fantasy & fetish fashion styling services service

Fantasy & fetish fashion styling services

From $100 In-person

Do you have a boudoir, modeling or SW session coming up and need help picking out the perfect outfit...
Bespoke fantasy & fetish boudoir photography & video services service

Bespoke fantasy & fetish boudoir photography & video services

From $300 In-person

Bespoke fantasy & fetish photography & video servicesI offer fantasy and fetish fashion boudoir phot...

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