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In person & Online
Paris FR
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Mariya
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Paris FR
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Valentine Bordet
In person & Online
Paris FR
I'm Valentine (she/they), a award-winning somatic sexologist, intimacy coordinator, pleasure workshop facilitator, feminist activist, performer and artist. Through my work, I invite people to question and transcend the concepts of hetero-mono-normativity in intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. I offer 1:1 and couple sessions that blend somatic education and gentle conversation. These sessions allow you to understand how the past has formed your current relationships and pleasure, and together we define the path to get you to where you want to be. My approach is client-led, creative, holistic, trauma-informed, inclusive (of all humans, work, sexual preferencesâŠ) and gender/sexuality affirming. I am passionate about supporting sexual liberation through a no-taboo, shame-free and pleasure-centred education. My work is anchored in intersectional feminism, sex-positivity, queer theories, nervous system work, embodied consent and creating safer spaces. Sexuality and eroticism is a core part of what makes us human yet there are still so many outdated and damaging narratives preventing us from living our best (sex) life. We all deserve to feel confident and curious to explore our bodies and erotic power. Are you ready to claim pleasure as your birthright and learn what makes you feel alive? It would be my pleasure to work with you. I am the founder of Collective Of Pleasure, a creative grassroots collective on a mission to empower people to unapologetically explore their pleasure. Through our workshops, events and creative productions we aim to question and transcend the norms and dogmas in intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. We believe in creating a safer, braver, and more powerful space to connect to our unique needs and desires, to open conversations and smash societal taboo. We are pleasure activists and believe that pleasure is a birthright and an everyday essential that everyone should have access to. Together, we want to build an inclusive community where diverse identities and stories are not only welcomed but celebrated. We strive to create a new blueprint for intimacy in which we redefine pleasure, transcend shame and step into our full pleasure potential.
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The City of Love.
Turning 'we need to talk.' into 'we want to talk!'
Paris is rightly celebrated as the city of romance. From its charming cafĂ©s offering intimate tables to a language steeped in sensuality, the city exudes a chic yet passionate allure. Itâs an undeniably beautiful setting to explore your desires.
Must-do experience: Immersive erotic theatre.
Book it on Sensuali: Parisian Shibari Salon with Marie Sauvage.
Did you know that? Paris is the city where the worldâs first erotic film was made. In 1896, a French filmmaker named Georges MĂ©liĂšs created a groundbreaking short film called Le Coucher de la Mariee (The Brideâs Bed), often considered one of the first explorations of sensuality in cinema.
A bitesize spicy guide to Paris đ„
Perfume-making workshops: A perfect Parisian sensory journey is crafting your own signature scent at one of the city's historic perfume ateliers such as Maison Molinard. Choose from base notes of musk, rose, or vanilla to bottle your essence of allure.
Burlesque cabaret: Keep it classic and pay a trip to the world famous Moulin Rouge. Otherwise check out Madame Arthur or Théùtre ChoChotte, where performers take classic French cabaret to daring new heights. These shows celebrate the art of sensuality with exquisite performances and champagne-filled evenings.
Erotic art: From Gustave Courbet's âLâOrigine du Mondeâ at the MusĂ©e dâOrsay to avant-garde erotic exhibits at private galleries, Paris's historic erotic art scene is one you can't miss. Take it a step further and commission a working Parisian artist such as Armando Cabba or Gonza Banegas to create a personalised erotic portrait for you.
Erotic bookshops: The famed Shakespeare & Company may be a literary landmark, but La Musardine, is known by Parisians and the city's only erotic bookstore. With legendary Parisian erotic writers like AnaĂŻs Nin, Marquis de Sade, and George Bataille, it would be rude not to pay this shop a visit.
Shibari Salon: Marie Sauvage is the Shibari IT girl across the world, and she just so happens to be based in Paris. You can book a private session but don't miss out on the most unique event: Marie's Shibari Salon. These evenings feature Shibari, live music and dancing, where white lace is worn and champagne is served alongside little pastries. In this historic intimate space, guests are welcome to stay after the show to connect and play with rope. You won't find a more sensual, or more Parisian evening across the city.Â
Listen to Sensuali's Shibari podcast episode featuring Marie Sauvage.
Immersive erotic theatre: Sweet Paradise is a bar made up of two rooms. One, being 'dedicated to erotic shows and another, intended for having a drink and discovering objects of erotic curiosity'. This is a unique experience that takes Paris's history of erotic performance one step further.
Moonlit Seine picnics: Few experiences are as romantic as a late-night picnic along the Seine. Pack some wine, cheese, and a baguette, and find a quiet spot where the cityâs shimmering lights reflect on the waterâa setting for sensual conversations and stolen kisses.
Play parties: Paris is home to a discreet but vibrant play party scene. Explore elegant soirées like Les Chandelles, where you will play in classic Parisian style. The intimate space is decked in red velvet and low lighting, gourmet chocolates are available on silver plates, and an elegant dress code is required. More modern/young parties include Rorshar and Mess.
Paris is the perfect place for sensual exploration because it seamlessly blends art, romance, and a deeply ingrained appreciation for pleasure. Hereâs why:
A legacy of liberation: Paris has long been a haven for artists, writers, and free thinkers who challenged societal norms and celebrated sensuality. Its history is steeped in movements that embraced the body, desire, and the human experience without shame.
Atmospheric charm: The city itself feels like a seduction. From dimly lit cafés and cobblestone streets to hidden gardens and candlelit wine bars, every corner of Paris seems designed to ignite intimacy and connection.
Aesthetic beauty: Paris is visually stunning, with iconic architecture, romantic bridges, and the timeless allure of the Seine. The cityâs beauty mirrors the themes of sensual exploration: attention to detail, appreciation of form, and celebration of the moment.
The French philosophy on pleasure: The French approach to lifeâjoie de vivreâprioritises pleasure, indulgence, and the senses. This is reflected in their food, art, fashion, and intimate relationships, creating an environment that encourages self-expression and connection.
A hub for art and eroticism: Paris has inspired countless works of sensual and erotic art, from the paintings of Gustave Courbet to the writings of AnaĂŻs Nin. This artistic legacy makes it a city where exploring desire feels not only natural but celebrated.
Cultural openness: The city is home to a wide range of experiences that cater to all expressions of sensualityâfrom sophisticated burlesque shows and intimate poetry readings to avant-garde art exhibits and immersive theatre.
The language of love: French is often called the language of love, and its lyrical quality adds an extra layer of romance and sensuality to the Parisian experience.
Erotic art is one of the most popular experiences on Sensuali in Paris. You can commission an artist in the city to create a personalised piece of art for you. Whether it's a spicy portrait of yourself and your partner or something a little more abstract, this is a wonderful way to indulge in the sensual spirit of Paris, bringing home a memorable souvenir.
Art & Creativity:
- Burlesque and cabaret shows.
- Visiting erotic bookstores.
Kink & BDSM:
- Shibari Salon evenings.
- 1-1 BDSM sessions.
Companionship & Intimacy
- Swingers clubs and play parties.
- Single or couples Tantric massage.
Wellness & Education
- Perfume making workshops.
