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MistressNatalie
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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demuredomina
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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4 services
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Shelby Terrell, LMSW
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator
1 service
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Venus
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sensual erotic therapy through presence, touch and deep permission
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CandiceLeigh
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Candice Leigh (she/her) is a sex and intimacy coach combining artful neo-tantra practices, breathwor
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Online body focussed intimacy coaching
From €95 Online/virtual
Offering online coaching calls for topics on Intimacy, sexuality and (poly)relationships
By Opgewonden Standje
Delft, NL
Neurodivergent-Focused Sex & Intimacy Coaching
From $100 Online/virtual
Sex and relationships can feel complicated when the world wasn’t built for the way your brain works ...
By Emily Zawadzki
Kitchener, (ON) CA
Sexuality and Intimacy Coaching
From $200 Online/virtual
These private sessions are designed for women, LGBTQ+ individuals, and couples who want to reconnect...
By Tula Vida
Barcelona, ES
Intimacy Toolkit Coaching
From £150 Online/virtual
Navigating the world of adult toys, lubricants, and pleasure aids can feel overwhelming. With so man...
By April Maria
Online sex coaching session with Alice Lovegood
From £150 Online/virtual
This is a personalised, shame-free space to explore your sexuality, pleasure, and confidence with ex...
By Alice Lovegood
Berlin, DE
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Dr. Resa
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I’m Dr. Resa, an embodiment and confidence educator who blends lived experience, academic insight, and playful curiosity
1 service
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Goddess Viktoria Sway
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sex and sexuality have fascinated me for as long as I can remember. I am Goddess Viktoria Sway: NYC
1 service
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ReflectorForHire
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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Fritz Bosworth
In person
New York NY US
Hello! I’m Fritz, a professional rope bondage artist and instructor, trained and certified by Hajime
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RisewSteph
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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getrealwithdakota
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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juicyfruitoran
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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daddypersephone
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Obedience is earned. Tribute is expected. Submit and be shaped, or seek expert advice about kink, polyamory/ENM, etc.
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mistressivylenox
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.
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Intimacy coaching in NYC: a path to deeper pleasure
There is a huge range of intimacy coaching experiences to choose from in NYC. The city boasts a variety of sex coaches and intimacy practitioners, who can, through diverse approaches, support you - in one session or a number of sessions - to a healthier and happier intimate life.
Whether you're exploring the idea of sex coaching as an individual, or as a couple, on Sensuali, you can browse through practitioners we have verified ourselves, who operate in New York, and message any of them to understand more about their practice before committing to a session.
NYC is an open minded, forward-thinking city, and the range of experiences findable on Sensuali here, reflect that. You can also find pleasure & wellness related experiences within our kink & fetish category in New York.
How to book
Check out the practitioners on this page, and feel free to explore further afield if you're open to online intimacy coaching. When you click on a practitioner profile, you can message them to find out more information, or to request to book one of their services. From that point, the practitioner will handle payment with you independently. Many practitioners offer a free or low cost consultation call before you commit to a full session.
There doesn't have to be anything wrong, or a particular problem to book an intimacy coaching session. A coach is there to support you in achieving a deeper intimate life, no matter where you currently are.
Do get clear on scope, boundaries and cost upfront. Before your first session, you should know exactly what the work involves, whether there is any touch component and how consent is handled, how long sessions last, and what you'll pay. Reputable coaches put this in a written agreement.
Do come with a goal, even a rough one. Coaching is practical and goal-oriented, so knowing what you want to shift, whether that's confidence, communication or reconnecting with a partner, helps your coach structure the work. You can refine it together, but arriving with a direction makes every session count.
Don't confuse coaching with therapy. Coaches work on practical goals and skills, not mental health treatment. If you're dealing with unprocessed trauma, depression or anxiety, a licensed sex therapist or counsellor is the better starting point, and many coaches will refer you on.
Don't push through discomfort to please your coach. You set the pace. A good practitioner checks in on consent throughout and never pressures you past your boundaries. If something feels off, name it, and if it keeps feeling off, leave. The right coach will always respect a no.
Frequently asked questions.
How long does an intimacy coaching session usually last?
Most intimacy coaching sessions run for 60 minutes, though many practitioners offer 75 or 90 minute formats, particularly for couples or somatic work where things need room to unfold. Some coaches also run half-day intensives or multi-session packages, since single sessions rarely create lasting change, so many practitioners structure their work as multi-session packages spanning several weeks or months. Your first session is often slightly longer, as it covers intake, goals and boundaries.
How much does intimacy coaching cost in NYC?
Prices vary with experience and specialism. Entry-level intimacy coaches typically charge $100 to $150 per session, while coaches with solid credentials and a clear specialty often charge $200 to $400. In New York specifically, expect the upper end of that range: practices where coaches are also licensed sex therapists charge around $300 to $350 per session, and established NYC coaches can command $500 or more. Coaching is not covered by insurance, so ask about packages or sliding-scale rates if budget matters.
Are there intimacy coaching options in NYC for a range of people?
Yes. NYC has one of the broadest intimacy coaching scenes anywhere, with practitioners working with singles, couples, LGBTQ+ clients, non-monogamous relationships and people exploring kink. Common specialisms include relationship coaching, personal intimacy work focused on your relationship with yourself, sexual intimacy coaching, and post-trauma support, and many coaches work with people re-entering dating after a major life change, those from conservative backgrounds, and people navigating transitions like parenthood, menopause or divorce. Most also offer online sessions, so you're not limited to who's in your borough.
