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calliyote •

I am a coyote, a trans woman, a dominatrix, and a kinkster with more than a decade of experience on both sides of the slash. I love helping people discover more about themselves through kink. I am of the belief that kink is the ideal arena in which to explore things like identity, power, desire, and more. After all, kink is where I first discovered myself, and where I continue to learn more about myself every day. My transition and my other identity explorations (I am Holland's only therian dominatrix) have given me an intimate understanding of how what happens within a scene can translate to the world outside the dungeon. For me, it was a series of lightbulb moments: "Oh, I think this [pet play, gender play, etc] is speaking to something much deeper in me. I think I need to understand what that 'something' is." Play can be affirming in so many ways, and I am committed to all my play being an affirmation of who you are, who you want to be, and who you're becoming. I believe strongly in RACK—Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. I recognize that some of the things that I enjoy, both as a sub and as a dom, like heavy impact and breathplay, are risky. The important thing is recognizing your own personal risk tolerance and how it fits into the play or lifestyle that you want. My risk profile has shifted over the years, and I have learned how to understand and talk about risk in a way that is non-judgemental and safe. Part of my risk management is knowledge. I never go into play thinking that I will learn a technique as I go. It is very important to me that I know what I am doing before I get into the room, in order to keep both (or all) of us safe. For that reason, my experience in impact, breathplay, hypnosis, predicament bondage, and other arenas is an invaluable asset. I really love what I do, and I would love to share my passions with you....

desirepathways •

My Journey to This Space I’ve been obsessed with the language of consent and the depth of human pleasure since I was in my teens. Back then, it was a spark of curiosity; today, it’s my life’s work. I got here because I saw too many people (including myself at times) living in a body they didn’t fully inhabit. I spent years studying the "why" behind our behaviour through a degree in Psychology, but I quickly realised that talking about intimacy isn't the same as feeling it. That’s why I trained at the Institute of Somatic Sexology. I wanted to understand how our nervous systems hold onto shame and how they can be retuned for joy. What I Believe (and What I’ve Learned) If there is one thing I want to shout from the rooftops, it’s this: You do not have to perform. We’ve been sold a lie that sex is something we do for someone else—that we have to look a certain way or hit certain "markers" to be successful. I’m here to help you dismantle that. Intimacy isn't a stage play; it’s a homecoming. It’s about being present in your skin, not watching yourself from the corner of the room. How I Work My style is a mix of gentle and firm. I will always meet you with a soft heart and a non-judgmental ear, but I will also be firm in protecting your growth and challenging the old stories that no longer serve you. I practice what I teach. For me, sensuality is found in the slow rhythm of a dance or the quiet ritual of a warm oil massage. These are the moments where I reconnect with my own "yes," and I bring that same grounded energy into every experience I create for you. A Note on Your Safety Your trust is something I hold with a lot of reverence. Because my work is somatic (body-based) and trauma-informed, your safety isn't just a policy—it’s the entire foundation. We go at your pace. Your boundaries are the North Star of our time together. Whether you are navigating a new curiosity or healing an old wound, you are safe to show up exactly as you are. I’m just a human who believes that your pleasure is your birthright. I’m here to help you find your way back to it....

MissHella •

lindakaarina

My mission is to liberate and cultivate pleasure through holistic bodywork and somatic embodiment. My passion is to guide people to feel safer and more connected in their bodies, and therefore to their sensual & sexual selves. I am a trauma-informed Sexological Intimacy Coach (SCI), Somatic Tantric Bodyworker, Experience Creator, Workshop & Retreat Facilitator, dancer, and a muse. My sessions are client-led; focusing on individual needs, that promote growth, cultivate agency, and empowerment. My sessions incorporate elements of diverse somatic mindfulness practices, combining various schools of bodywork and energy work. I create profound healing spaces where individuals can feel more connected, regulated, and alive. Come as you are - all of you is welcome!...

SensualSessions

Alicia is a Certified Somatic Sexologist who helps women with low sexual desire, orgasm difficulties and low sexual confidence reconnect to their body and pleasure, deepen their relationships and have the best sex of their lives. Alicia’s interest in sex developed from her own inability to orgasm at 24, as she started trying to figure out the reasons behind her anorgasmia, she realised there was a much bigger problem. She’d been having sex out of validation and performance, and only focusing on her lover's pleasure, she was carrying years of sexual shame that had prevented her from ever self-pleasuring, and she was so wrapped up in the hustle culture of our productivity goal-oriented society that she didn’t know how to be still long enough to experience pleasure. Through her personal journey, she realised how much of an impact our crappy sex education, societal shame and gender scripts were having on women’s pleasure and how many women were suffering because of it. This was the catalyst for her committing herself to further study in sexology and coaching. Now she blends sex science with somatic practices to give you the sex education you never had while utilising the wisdom of the body. To have good sex and want more of it, is about understanding how to relax your body enough to enjoy it and learn how to have sex that’s worth wanting. Through coaching, she works with women to stop living like a tiger is chasing them and finally slow down, to reconnect with their body and start to feel pleasure, to figure out their emotional needs and relationship rituals that best support their sex lives and to explore what kind of sex they enjoy having so they crave more of it. Learn how to have the sex life you've always wanted....

LucyStrawberryNYC

sexuntold

I’m Rachael. I help people reconnect with their desire, their body, and their confidence — without performance, shame, or pretending. I’m a sex & relationship therapist and intimacy coach. My work sits where sex, stress, identity, and the nervous system collide. My experiences and sessions with me are less about techniques or quick fixes and more about understanding how you function sexually, and learning to inhabit it with more ease. I work with: • sexual confidence and performance pressure • masculine sexual wellbeing beyond “doing it right” • somatic and sensory reconnection • erotic mindset and desire patterns • women reclaiming pleasure and sensual identity • couples that need to get back to having great sex again I work with men, women, and couples of all genders, who feel disconnected and want to understand what’s really going on underneath. I don’t give you permission, I help you remember you never needed it. On se dé-couvre ?...

Atena

Shaped by 15 years spent living in different countries around the world — an experience that profoundly transformed my perspective and refined my sensitivity — and nourished by a decade of study and certification in yoga, I have deepened my path through five years of training in sex education. I am an Ecstatic Dance DJ, a guardian and sharer of the wisdom of Yoga, a Nuru massage therapist, a dancer and erotic performer devoted to the art of liberation. I weave playful and sacred experiences — from private sessions to immersive group workshops and captivating performances — creating spaces where healing, pleasure, and awareness can flourish. https://www.instagram.com/atenayoga/...

Julian Marcus

I’m a somatic sexologist, certified sexological bodyworker, and trauma-informed coach devoted to helping men, women, and couples awaken a more alive, confident, and deeply satisfying relationship with their sexuality. My work bridges body, heart, and mind. Rather than focusing on performance or technique alone, I guide you into embodied awareness—where lasting change actually happens. Whether you’re navigating erectile challenges, premature ejaculation, low desire, intimacy blocks, shame, or simply longing for more depth and aliveness, I offer a grounded, compassionate space where transformation unfolds through the wisdom of your body. With a background in somatic education, therapeutic bodywork, and years of supporting men in reshaping their relationship to pleasure and porn use, I specialise in helping you move from tension, pressure, and self-doubt into confidence, presence, and authentic pleasure. For couples, I create pathways back to connection, polarity, safety, and erotic vitality. My approach is experiential, practical, and deeply human. Together we slow down, listen, and retrain your nervous system for greater sensation, choice, and satisfaction. The result is not just better sex—but a fuller sense of aliveness in your body and your life. If you’re ready to move beyond limitation and into embodied confidence and pleasure, I would be honoured to work with you....

Tula Vida

Tula Vida is a Somatic Sexologist and professional Domina, blending psychology, clinical sexology, and somatic bodywork to guide individuals and couples in exploring pleasure, intimacy, and erotic embodiment. Through her clinically informed sexuality and intimacy coaching, as well as erotic coaching, Tula creates a trauma-informed, consent-centered space where clients cultivate confidence, curiosity, self-knowledge, and embodied erotic presence. Tula holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology, a degree in Massage Therapy, and is currently completing a Master’s in Clinical Psychology. With over 20 years of experience as a dancer and movement educator, her practice is deeply informed by the intelligence of the moving body. She integrates disciplines from psychology, bodywork, movement, and erotic arts to offer a holistic, embodied approach that bridges mind, body, and desire. Rooted in her lived experience within a multiracial and diasporic background, Tula brings a decolonial and liberatory lens to her work. She views sexual reclamation as an act of resistance—of body, voice, and agency—and approaches eroticism as inherently political, challenging the social hierarchies and cultural narratives that regulate whose bodies are seen as worthy of pleasure and autonomy. Her work invites people to untangle from inherited shame and reclaim pleasure, power, and embodiment as forms of personal and collective liberation....

MentorChris

Hypnotic Dominance · Sensual Guidance · Conscious Power Exchange I work with presence, voice and attention, not to overwhelm, but to guide. My sessions are about depth rather than spectacle. About entering altered states where control feels natural, surrender feels chosen, and desire unfolds slowly and consciously. I lead primarily through words, rhythm and framing. Hypnosis, subtle dominance and sensory awareness are at the center of my work. Physical elements may be included when they serve the experience, never as an end in themselves. This is not about extremes or constant intensity. It is about attunement: noticing breath, posture, hesitation, response and shaping the dynamic from there. My dominance is calm, intentional and responsive. I guide, I hold space, I invite you deeper. Those who follow are supported. Those who hesitate are oriented, never rushed. Hypnosis plays a central role in my sessions. We work with imagination, inner imagery and suggestion to create experiences that feel richer and more immersive than everyday reality. Touch may be used to anchor and deepen trance, always consciously and with purpose. I particularly enjoy working with people who want to let go with awareness, who are curious about surrender, altered states and erotic depth in a protected, respectful setting. Trust, communication and mutual mindfulness are essential to me. Desire grows from safety and clarity, not pressure. • You don’t need a detailed script, but you do need a direction. • If you know what draws you here, I can guide you. • If you expect something to “just happen” without engagement, we are not a good match. Important notes: • I do not accept phone calls. • Please write to me first with your name, what interests you, and your level of experience (including if you are new). • I respond personally and honestly. If it feels aligned for both of us, the result will be more than just a session....

Sephira

I am Sephira — an inspiring muse and burlesque performer devoted to living the human experience to the fullest. I awaken the body’s potential for pleasure as a key to creation and manifestation. I embody the art of seduction, power, and play. With elegance, mystery, and playful intensity, I create spaces where sensuality becomes art and desire is honored. I guide multi-sensory journeys for women, men, and couples, blending the principles of Tantra, conscious breath, sensual play, and embodiment practices. Each session is an invitation to awaken your erotic energy, reconnect with your body, and expand your capacity for pleasure, confidence, and authentic freedom. ✨ Why I do what I do ✨ My path of healing and self-discovery revealed that the body is the gateway to living fully alive — not through the mind, but through the senses, in pleasure, in presence. Sensuality and eroticism became my language for expressing authenticity, joy, and freedom. My mission is to inspire others to feel radiant, safe, and powerful in their own skin — to reclaim sensuality as something sacred, playful, and deeply human. If you feel the call to explore… let’s create magic together....