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sexuntold

Toulouse FR

I help people find their naked self. Let's get undressed.

Coach Educator Erotic creator Therapist Author

6 services

About me

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My experiences are for Male, Couple, Female
I offer experiences Online/Virtual
30s , Female , Straight
White/Caucasian
I speak English, French
Undergrad

I’m Rachael. I help people reconnect with their desire, their body, and their confidence — without performance, shame, or pretending.

I’m a sex & relationship therapist and intimacy coach. My work sits where sex, stress, identity, and the nervous system collide. My experiences and sessions with me are less about techniques or quick fixes and more about understanding how you function sexually, and learning to inhabit it with more ease.

I work with:
• sexual confidence and performance pressure
• masculine sexual wellbeing beyond “doing it right”
• somatic and sensory reconnection
• erotic mindset and desire patterns
• women reclaiming pleasure and sensual identity
• couples that need to get back to having great sex again

I work with men, women, and couples of all genders, who feel disconnected and want to understand what’s really going on underneath.

I don’t give you permission, I help you remember you never needed it.

On se dé-couvre ?

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to
message me .

Experiences I offer

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Couples Therapy & Conscious Relating service

Couples Therapy & Conscious Relating

From €120 Online & In-person

Every couple gets stuck at some point.Maybe you love each other, but desire feels uneven?Maybe commu...
Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching ⎸ Online & In-person service

Sex Therapy & Intimacy Coaching ⎸ Online & In-person

From €70 Online & In-person

Not everything that feels off in your intimate life needs a label.Maybe you feel disconnected from d...
Mindful Masturbation & Non-Performative Arousal (Men) service

Mindful Masturbation & Non-Performative Arousal (Men)

From $80 Online

Most men learn arousal through speed, tension, porn and outcome.Over time, this can create pressure,...
Performance Anxiety & Sexual Confidence (Men) service

Performance Anxiety & Sexual Confidence (Men)

From €70 Online & In-person

Performance anxiety isn’t failure, tt’s what happens when pressure, expectation, and self-monitoring...
Erotic Identity & Desire Mapping service

Erotic Identity & Desire Mapping

From €70 Online

Discovering who you are erotically is about understanding how desire lives in you — emotionally, rel...
Pressure to Presence Method™️ — Sexual Confidence Without Performance service

Pressure to Presence Method™️ — Sexual Confidence Without Performance

From €800 Online

Better connections and deeper intimacy — without quick fixes, or performance hacks.The new approach ...

My tags

Boundaries Counselling Self confidence Self exploration Trauma healing Psychosexual Therapy Communication issues Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Sex coaching Sexuality coaching Wheel Of Consent Dating advice Polyamory Coaching Conscious Sexuality Educational 1 on 1 Pleasure education Polyamory Relationships Sex education Understanding Desire Erotic literature Short story erotica Coaching Consent workshop Custom content Fantasy Exploration Kink coaching Open relationship Private Workshops Therapy Collaboration Intimacy workshop Pleasure Mapping Sex therapy Sexuality workshops

FAQs

Think of it as a guided journey back to yourself—your desires, your confidence, your pleasure. Whether you're navigating self-discovery, deepening a connection with a partner, or untangling old beliefs around intimacy, coaching gives you the tools to communicate, explore, and own your sensuality without shame.

Most of us were never taught how to talk about sex—just how to tiptoe around it. But intimacy thrives in communication. Coaching helps you build the confidence to express your desires, set boundaries, and open up conversations that feel natural, not nerve-wracking. Because your pleasure deserves a voice.

Shame isn’t yours to carry. Whether it comes from past experiences, cultural conditioning, or self-doubt, it’s time to unlearn what’s been keeping you small. Coaching helps you rewrite the stories in your head, reconnect with your body, and move toward confidence, ease, and genuine pleasure—on your terms.

Desire doesn’t die—it just gets buried under routine, stress, and unspoken needs. Coaching helps you and your partner reignite the spark by understanding each other’s desires, breaking patterns that no longer serve you, and bringing back excitement in ways that feel real and sustainable. Passion isn’t just for the honeymoon phase.

Confidence isn’t about looking a certain way—it’s about feeling at home in yourself. Through body awareness, self-exploration, and mindset shifts, we move from performance to presence, from pressure to pleasure. Because when you stop performing and start feeling, everything changes.

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