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My services are for

Men, Couple, Women

I offer experiences

Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Female

I speak

English, French

I’m Rachael. I help people reconnect with their desire, their body, and their confidence — without performance, shame, or pretending.

I’m a sex & relationship therapist and intimacy coach. My work sits where sex, stress, identity, and the nervous system collide. My experiences and sessions with me are less about techniques or quick fixes and more about understanding how you function sexually, and learning to inhabit it with more ease.

I work with:
• sexual confidence and performance pressure
• masculine sexual wellbeing beyond “doing it right”
• somatic and sensory reconnection
• erotic mindset and desire patterns
• women reclaiming pleasure and sensual identity
• couples that need to get back to having great sex again

I work with men, women, and couples of all genders, who feel disconnected and want to understand what’s really going on underneath.

I don’t give you permission, I help you remember you never needed it.

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FAQ

How can sex & intimacy coaching help me?
Think of it as a guided journey back to yourself—your desires, your confidence, your pleasure. Whether you're navigating self-discovery, deepening a connection with a partner, or untangling old beliefs around intimacy, coaching gives you the tools to communicate, explore, and own your sensuality without shame.
How do I talk to my partner about my sexual needs without feeling awkward?
Most of us were never taught how to talk about sex—just how to tiptoe around it. But intimacy thrives in communication. Coaching helps you build the confidence to express your desires, set boundaries, and open up conversations that feel natural, not nerve-wracking. Because your pleasure deserves a voice.
How do I overcome sexual shame or insecurity?
Shame isn’t yours to carry. Whether it comes from past experiences, cultural conditioning, or self-doubt, it’s time to unlearn what’s been keeping you small. Coaching helps you rewrite the stories in your head, reconnect with your body, and move toward confidence, ease, and genuine pleasure—on your terms.
How can I rebuild intimacy in my relationship?
Desire doesn’t die—it just gets buried under routine, stress, and unspoken needs. Coaching helps you and your partner reignite the spark by understanding each other’s desires, breaking patterns that no longer serve you, and bringing back excitement in ways that feel real and sustainable. Passion isn’t just for the honeymoon phase.
How can I feel more confident in my body and sexuality?
Confidence isn’t about looking a certain way—it’s about feeling at home in yourself. Through body awareness, self-exploration, and mindset shifts, we move from performance to presence, from pressure to pleasure. Because when you stop performing and start feeling, everything changes.

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