MxLila

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I am a coyote, a trans woman, a dominatrix, and a kinkster with more than a decade of experience on both sides of the slash. I love helping people discover more about themselves through kink. I am of the belief that kink is the ideal arena in which to explore things like identity, power, desire, and more. After all, kink is where I first discovered myself, and where I continue to learn more about myself every day. My transition and my other identity explorations (I am Holland's only therian dominatrix) have given me an intimate understanding of how what happens within a scene can translate to the world outside the dungeon. For me, it was a series of lightbulb moments: "Oh, I think this [pet play, gender play, etc] is speaking to something much deeper in me. I think I need to understand what that 'something' is." Play can be affirming in so many ways, and I am committed to all my play being an affirmation of who you are, who you want to be, and who you're becoming. I believe strongly in RACK—Risk-Aware Consensual Kink. I recognize that some of the things that I enjoy, both as a sub and as a dom, like heavy impact and breathplay, are risky. The important thing is recognizing your own personal risk tolerance and how it fits into the play or lifestyle that you want. My risk profile has shifted over the years, and I have learned how to understand and talk about risk in a way that is non-judgemental and safe. Part of my risk management is knowledge. I never go into play thinking that I will learn a technique as I go. It is very important to me that I know what I am doing before I get into the room, in order to keep both (or all) of us safe. For that reason, my experience in impact, breathplay, hypnosis, predicament bondage, and other arenas is an invaluable asset. I really love what I do, and I would love to share my passions with you....

TrixieLaPointe

Rope artist and disciplinarian based in NYC

Ana Vaz

Hi, I'm Ana Vaz! For me, Pleasure & Power are a full-time endeavor 💜 I am a Certified Conscious Kink Educator • Certified Trainer • Therapist in training 🌱1:1 I do 1:1 consulting services & Workshops on Kink, BDSM and Power dynamics. If you're new to the scene, an introvert or simply confused about what's out there, my services are for you! I have been facilitating and refining educational experiences since 2019, with a focus on the needs of people who don’t relate to mainstream approaches to relationships and sexuality....

MentorChris

Hypnotic Dominance · Sensual Guidance · Conscious Power Exchange I work with presence, voice and attention, not to overwhelm, but to guide. My sessions are about depth rather than spectacle. About entering altered states where control feels natural, surrender feels chosen, and desire unfolds slowly and consciously. I lead primarily through words, rhythm and framing. Hypnosis, subtle dominance and sensory awareness are at the center of my work. Physical elements may be included when they serve the experience, never as an end in themselves. This is not about extremes or constant intensity. It is about attunement: noticing breath, posture, hesitation, response and shaping the dynamic from there. My dominance is calm, intentional and responsive. I guide, I hold space, I invite you deeper. Those who follow are supported. Those who hesitate are oriented, never rushed. Hypnosis plays a central role in my sessions. We work with imagination, inner imagery and suggestion to create experiences that feel richer and more immersive than everyday reality. Touch may be used to anchor and deepen trance, always consciously and with purpose. I particularly enjoy working with people who want to let go with awareness, who are curious about surrender, altered states and erotic depth in a protected, respectful setting. Trust, communication and mutual mindfulness are essential to me. Desire grows from safety and clarity, not pressure. • You don’t need a detailed script, but you do need a direction. • If you know what draws you here, I can guide you. • If you expect something to “just happen” without engagement, we are not a good match. Important notes: • I do not accept phone calls. • Please write to me first with your name, what interests you, and your level of experience (including if you are new). • I respond personally and honestly. If it feels aligned for both of us, the result will be more than just a session....

sexuntold

I’m Rachael. I help people reconnect with their desire, their body, and their confidence — without performance, shame, or pretending. I’m a sex & relationship therapist and intimacy coach. My work sits where sex, stress, identity, and the nervous system collide. My experiences and sessions with me are less about techniques or quick fixes and more about understanding how you function sexually, and learning to inhabit it with more ease. I work with: • sexual confidence and performance pressure • masculine sexual wellbeing beyond “doing it right” • somatic and sensory reconnection • erotic mindset and desire patterns • women reclaiming pleasure and sensual identity • couples that need to get back to having great sex again I work with men, women, and couples of all genders, who feel disconnected and want to understand what’s really going on underneath. I don’t give you permission, I help you remember you never needed it. On se dé-couvre ?...

Priestess Mayra

MissO.

Miss O. — people often ask what the “O” stands for, frequently assuming it is a reference to the novel *Histoire d’O*. The association is understandable, yet untrue. My name was born in a far more intimate moment: my first submissive, a newcomer gently stepping into his darker desires, let out a soft, involuntary “Oh” when he felt the intensity of what he truly longed for. That sound stayed with me. It captured curiosity, surrender, surprise, and pleasure all at once — and so Miss O. came into being. I am a 45-year-old Dominatrix and artist from Germany, driven by a love of wine and food, art and travel, long conversations, and the exploration of body and mind alike. My practice is rooted in drawing out that “Oh” — the honest reaction that surfaces when someone allows themselves to be seen, challenged, and transformed. I would not describe myself as a classic Dominatrix. I am fascinated by juxtaposition: sensual yet sadistic, intimate yet commanding — a velvet executioner, perhaps, a gentle devourer. BDSM is not merely a performance for me but a lived experience whenever possible, and since last year I have also embraced it professionally. My work exists within a broader political context. The archetype of the Dominatrix emerges from historical power imbalances that render female dominance both taboo and fetishized. In this sense, I see Dominatrices as figures who reclaim and embody forms of power society has long attempted to suppress. As a Black Dominatrix, this dynamic becomes even more layered, and consciously engaging with these tensions forms part of my artistic and professional expression. At the core, I am drawn to surrender — to the moment someone opens, reveals their hidden fears, fantasies, and vulnerabilities, and trusts me to hold them there. Yet playfulness is just as essential: desire should breathe, laugh, and remain light enough to be enjoyed. Seriousness and silliness can coexist beautifully in erotic space. I carry many kinks, but above all I am a reaction fetishist. I am captivated by authentic responses — pain, laughter, trembling, longing, relief. It is the emotional and physical truth of the moment that fascinates me most. A selection of what I enjoy: Beginners welcome Anal play (light) Breath control Caning Restraints/foil wrapping CBT & ball busting Humiliation Fetish erotica/vinyl, leather, wetlook Feminization Flagellation Imprisonment Chastity Tickling Food games Looning Mummification Nipple play Objectification Orgasm control / forced orgasms Petplay / Pet training and education Prostate massage Role play Shoe and foot eroticism Nylon eroticism Chastity/Key mistress Sensory deprivation Slave training / whore training Electricity play Impact play in all its various Strap on Tease and denial Trampling Wax games Shaving...

Goddess Sasha

As a PlayCoach and event planner, Sasha founded Come Play Heal to create matriarchal spaces, transformational ritual, and connected community to unlock non-sexual intimacy, fearless manifestation, and embodied freedom. Through play, she helps you stop performing your life and start living it— deeply connected and unapologetically alive. Through her Self Discovery Dive method, people are able to reconcile past traumas and reintegrate their lost parts. In Thetahealing, she gently clears old beliefs that no longer serve your highest good. Deprogram your mind of societal norms that hold you back from the relationship of your dreams in Purple Circle, her sex ed and relationship curriculum / group discussions. Take off your airs and clothing every Tuesday during Nudesday to connect with like-minded, body positive community. One-on-one coaching, sensual sessions, and kink exploration are available. sashazeilig.com...

Scarlet

Hi there curious explorer, I am Scarlet Siren, and my belief is that everyone deserves to feel connected to their bodies, safer to express their desire, and to have a greater capacity for pleasure. I am British born and raised and have been working with the body and sexuality for more than 4 years, a topic that continually fascinates me. Other hats I wear are dancer, artist, nature lover, massage therapist, musician, witch, pleasure activist... and curious human. I am passionate about movement, health, pleasure and feeling connected to life and aliveness, in many flavours. People say my energy is calming, welcoming, intense, feminine, and many report to feel very safe with me. I identify with the 'priestex' archetype, as she is the one of devotion, pleasure, and Divine feminine essence. "Scarlet has come across to me as an extremely trustworthy, tender, intelligent, and overall extraordinarily impressive woman. The communication prior to the otherworldly tantra massage that I was fortunate to receive from her can only be described as exceptional." - Testimonial from A Please take a look at my offerings, and check my website and socials for more personal content from me. If you want to see me, approach with intention, detail of your desire, and an honour of my ways of working. I need notice always, and prefer to have stream lined communication so that we both get what we want more easefully. I look forward to hear from you......

GoddessType

Greetings, Those who know me professionally simply call me Goddess (she/her). I have 7 years experience as a professional Dominatrix, and 10+ years as a professional cuddler. I always had one foot in the "BDSM" pool, but my work as a cuddler drove me to dive deeper, at the behest of some of the individuals I served. I believe in fostering a safe and nurturing environment for you to explore and uncover parts of yourself you never knew existed....

Roxu

Feel rope as conversation, not constraint. I’m Roxu (he/him), a Berlin‑based Shibari rigger and educator. Rope found me in 2016 and quickly became my fluent, wordless language for connection—rooted in the measured clarity of Aibunawa and the slow, relentless pulse of Semenawa. In a quiet Prenzlauer Berg studio you’ll find me surrounded by ropes, soft light, and a cosy space to explore. Sessions begin with tea, a talk about your boundaries and desires and end with aftercare and time to land before you come back to the city. What I Offer Private Rope Sessions — Floor ties, partials, or full suspensions paced to your body and desires. Co‑topping sesions with my partner Ena — Layered exploration for those who enjoy multiple energies guiding the scene. Shibari Tuition — Hands‑on lessons that turn rope into fluent movement, from beginner fundamentals to more advanced practitioners. All genders, orientations, and bodies are welcome; intoxication and non‑consent are not. I’m Berlin‑based and available to travel for workshops or events. Curious? Message me with what you’re hoping to explore, and let’s see where the rope can take us....

Eliane

I’m Eliane, a transpersonal and somatic therapist specialized in conscious intimacy and relational transformation. I work with individuals and couples, supporting them to reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and desires, and to transform intimacy into a space of presence, pleasure, and authenticity. My approach integrates Transpersonal Psychology and Gestalt Therapy, NLP, somatic practices, conscious sexuality, and the teachings of ISTA (International School of Temple Arts). While gently rewiring habitual patterns and defense mechanisms to uncover unconscious dynamics, the focus moves to the body — developing your capacity to feel, regulate emotions, experience pleasure, and show up authentically. Clients learn to set clear boundaries, express needs and desires, and cultivate relational clarity. In Ibiza, I host weekly workshops on conscious intimacy, guiding over 600 participants in a living laboratory for conscious relating, emotional presence, and safe, respectful connection. I am the founder of Aphrodisia Members Club, an exclusive space where curious humans explore transpersonal love and conscious pleasure. Intimacy is not something to perform — it is something to remember, embody, and live....