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nesscooper

New York NY US

Therapist

About me

My experiences are for Female, Couple, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
I offer experiences
In person
30s , Female , Demisexual
Postgrad

Within my sex coaching and therapy practice I offer support to individuals, couples and polyamorous groups. I have over 15 years experience supporting people with intimacy and sex related matters, and have previously run support groups for polyamorous people in Norwich UK.

I am trained in psychotherapy, and have higher diplomas and post-grad qualifications in human sexuality, couples work, contemporary relationships, and LGBTQIA+. I have attended several years of kink-specific training and how to support clients navigate kink through psychotherapy methods. I am open to support those with what some therapist may consider extreme or matter that don't show-up on your general google search.

I offer online talk therapy sessions.

What I can support you with:
- navigating kink in your relationships
- mismatched libido
- sexual pain related matters
- trouble communicating intimacy
- Pelvic floor issues
- disability and mental health
- autism
- working through feelings of stuckness
- trauma
- depression
- more.

My booking system is done via email.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Counselling Psychosexual Therapy Couples coaching Therapy Couples Counselling Kink Aware Pelvic Floor Sex therapy Talk Therapy

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