Trusted practitioners in New York
Intimacy & sensual therapists in NYC
16Practitioners available
Emma Colangelo
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Hi, I’m Emma! I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I’m endlessly curi
Sex therapist BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Pleasure writer
Rick Mass
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Innate energy. Mindful touch. A deeper connection.
Sex therapist Massage Therapist Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Model
nycmasseur
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I'm Steve-nycmasseur-and I offer full body, healing, relaxing, nurturing massage and/or more sensual
Sex therapist Massage Therapist Dancer Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
Ruby Rose
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I am ancient and timeless. A mistress of the erotic arts. An architect of experiences that take you
Sex therapist BDSM Dancer Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
nausilove
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
195cm of Scandinavian Curiosity ✦ Dominatrix, Advisor, Traveller & Adventurer
Sex therapist BDSM Dancer Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
ReflectorForHire
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in
Sex therapist BDSM Massage Therapist Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
CandiceLeigh
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Candice Leigh (she/her) is a sex and intimacy coach combining artful neo-tantra practices, breathwor
Sex therapist BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Pleasure writer
Shelby Terrell, LMSW
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator
Sex therapist BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Educator
Venus
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sensual erotic therapy through presence, touch and deep permission
Sex therapist Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Muse Educator
sexwithalexa
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Alexa Andre is a 26-year-old sexologist and content creator who is passionate about helping people l
Sex therapist Erotic creator
nikitafernandes
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I
Sex therapist Educator
Unbound Collective
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts
Sex therapist BDSM Massage Therapist Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
Sex therapist Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Healer
MxValentina
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Precision, Power, and the Softest Cruelty You’ll Ever Crave
Sex therapist BDSM Pleasure writer Erotic creator
nesscooper
In person
New York NY US
Within my sex coaching and therapy practice I offer support to individuals, couples and polyamorous
Sex therapist
Trusted practitioners in New York
Intimacy therapists in New York
New York's intimacy therapists include licensed clinicians alongside practitioners who work more somatically. Conscious kink and self-exploration are the most common themes, followed by boundaries and relationship work. Some therapists focus on healing after difficult experiences, others use hypnosis.
Kink-aware and queer-affirming therapy is easy to find here, and many therapists support open and non-monogamous relationships. Check each profile for credentials, since practitioners in this category come from different backgrounds.
What people book
A first session is a chance to talk through what brings you and what you want to change. Couples book joint sessions, and online sessions make it easier to keep going week to week.
For anything urgent or tied to your health, see a doctor first. You can message therapists for free once you join.
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Do be honest about your goals and concerns
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Do choose a therapist whose expertise aligns with your needs
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Do allow time for trust to build
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Do stay open to reflection and self-awareness
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Do communicate if something feels unclear or uncomfortable
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Don’t expect instant change
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Don’t minimise your own experiences
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Don’t continue with a therapist if you feel unsafe or judged
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Don’t assume therapy is only for crisis
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Don’t rush the process
Frequently asked questions.
Can a sex therapist in NYC support kink or non-monogamy?
Yes. Many sex therapists in NYC specialise in kink-aware and ethically non-monogamous relationship support. You can review therapist profiles on Sensuali to find someone aligned with your lifestyle.
What is the difference between a sex therapist and a sex coach?
A sex therapist is a licensed mental health professional who helps people work through psychological and relational challenges connected to sex and intimacy. A sex coach focuses more on education, confidence, and forward-looking personal growth.
Is sex therapy only for couples?
No. Sex therapy can be for individuals or couples. Many people attend alone to better understand their own desires, identity, or emotional patterns. Even if you are in a relationship, you can attend sex therapy alone to work through things individually.
