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ReflectorForHire

New York NY US

Muse Photographer Artist BDSM Kinkster Coach Educator Massage Therapist Therapist Erotic creator

About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Gender fluid , Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English, Russian, Other
Postgrad

Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection.

Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

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