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Trusted practitioners in New York
Pleasure educators & guides in NYC
Pleasure and kink educators in New York City teaching desire and conscious kink through private lessons and online courses. Explore practitioners, message freely and book an experience at your own pace.
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Jehiah
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sacred Sexuality Practitioner – Daka – Breathwork Practitioner – Musician Do you notice that it’s d
Educator Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Tantra Healer
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Emma Colangelo
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Hi, I’m Emma! I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I’m endlessly curi
Educator BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Sex therapist
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Goddess Viktoria Sway
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sex and sexuality have fascinated me for as long as I can remember. I am Goddess Viktoria Sway: NYC
Educator BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Tantra
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CandiceLeigh
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Candice Leigh (she/her) is a sex and intimacy coach combining artful neo-tantra practices, breathwor
Educator BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Sex therapist
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Dr. Resa
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I’m Dr. Resa, an embodiment and confidence educator who blends lived experience, academic insight, and playful curiosity
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Shelby Terrell, LMSW
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator
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Venus
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sensual erotic therapy through presence, touch and deep permission
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Mistress Predicament
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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Vanillacooldance
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Custom cartoons, playful guides, and workshops for sex, love, and shameless self-expression.
Educator Kink illustrator
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Educator BDSM Shibari Sex therapist
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ReflectorForHire
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in
nikitafernandes
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I
Educator Sex therapist
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Unbound Collective
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
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Dirty Lola
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
What do you get when you mix softcore porn with an encyclopedia of sex? Why, Dirty Lola, of course!
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Trusted practitioners in New York
Pleasure educators in New York
New York's educators make pleasure something you can learn. Pleasure education leads, with conscious kink and understanding desire close behind. You will also find educators who focus on polyamory and open relationships, and others who give practical advice on toys and technique.
Backgrounds vary widely. Some educators are licensed therapists or sexologists, while others teach kink and rope hands-on and bring years in the scene to every lesson.
What people book
A one-to-one lesson lets you go at your own pace and ask anything. Online courses suit busy schedules, and group workshops across the city are a relaxed way to learn alongside others.
Join free and message educators in New York before you book.
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Choose someone whose approach resonates with you.
Some educators are rooted in therapy and coaching, while others specialise in pleasure education, conscious kink, embodiment or relationship work. Find someone whose philosophy aligns with what you're hoping to explore.
Think about your goals beforehand.
Whether you want to improve intimacy in a relationship, understand your desires, explore kink or simply become more sexually informed, having a direction will help you choose the right educator.
Take advantage of introductory conversations.
Many practitioners are happy to answer questions before booking, helping you understand how they teach and whether you're a good fit for one another.
Remember that learning looks different for everyone.
For some people that means talking, for others it means workshops, guided exercises or more immersive educational experiences.
Don't
Don't assume sex education is purely academic.
Many modern educators teach through conversation, practical exercises, embodiment practices and real-world experiences, rather than lectures alone.
Don't choose an educator based only on their title.
Read their profile, background and specialist areas to understand what they actually teach and how they teach it.
Don't feel pressured to know exactly what you want.
It's perfectly normal to begin with curiosity. A good educator can help you identify what you'd like to explore.
Don't overlook compatibility.
You'll often get the most from working with someone whose communication style, values and approach make you feel comfortable asking questions and learning openly.
Frequently asked questions.
What does a sex educator in NYC do?
Sex educators help people better understand intimacy, relationships, pleasure and sexuality. Depending on their background, they may offer one-to-one coaching, workshops, online courses, relationship guidance, kink education or body-based learning experiences.
Do sex educators only teach through workshops?
Not at all. Alongside group workshops, many educators offer private one-to-one sessions, couples coaching, online consultations, immersive learning experiences and ongoing mentorship.
What does a more immersive sex education experience look like?
Some educators teach through conversation and workshops, while others take a more hands-on approach. Depending on the practitioner, learning may be combined with body-based practices, conscious kink, guided touch for couples or other experiential exercises, allowing you to learn through doing rather than just discussing.
