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Roja
Berlin DE
Nurturing yet strict dominatrix, I create a safe space for you to explore your unique subspace and deepest desires
1 service, 1 event
About me
- My experiences are for Everyone
- I offer experiences
- In person & Online/Virtual
- 30s , Trans , Lesbian, Queer
- I speak English, German, Other
- Postgrad
“Life is maybe all about lighting a cigarette in the lethargic period in between two lovemakings”
This is a short excerpt from a long poem by Iranian famous poetess and director Forough Farrokhzad.
A woman who I deeply admire.
Your favorite nurturing yet strict Dominatrix
Welcome to my world, where pleasure intertwines with trust and exploration knows no bounds. I am Roja, a trans-femme dominatrix dedicated to creating a nurturing and empowering space rooted in embodied intersectional queer feminism for beautiful souls like you.
With experience as a care worker assisting individuals with disabilities, including those who use wheelchairs, I possess a deep understanding of care and attentiveness to my clients' unique needs. This background enriches my approach to BDSM, allowing me to create safe, respectful, and inclusive experiences for everyone, regardless of ability.
I embody a unique blend of nurturing and intensity. My style is both motherly and poetic, offering a comforting presence that invites you to explore your deepest desires. I specialize in impact play, shibari, bondage, and D/s dynamics, navigating the spectrum from soft, sensual domination to intense degradation and sadistic pleasure. This versatility allows us to delve into a variety of experiences tailored to your fantasies.
As we embark on this journey together, you’ll find that my care is as fierce as my sadism. I am here to guide you into subspace, where you can safely release the stresses of everyday life while embracing the thrill of surrender. Whether you're new to BDSM or a seasoned explorer, I invite you to discover the depths of your desires in a space where you can truly be yourself.
Together, we will craft an experience built on mutual respect and understanding, enabling you to connect deeply with your fantasies. Let’s explore the exquisite balance of nurturing and intensity that awaits us. Reach out, and let’s begin this exciting adventure together.
All genders and bodies (regardless of abilities) are welcome.
Special discounts for FLINTA people
And even more special discount for FLINTA people of color.
* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs
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Saghi - Shibari: Live Music and Poetry
From €20 In-person
Shibari Sessions Specifically Tailored to Your Desires
From €250 In-person
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