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Sheilaeshupe
Santa Rosa CA US
Deep embodiment through pleasure, pussy and sisterhood
1 service, 1 event, 1 product
About me
- My experiences are for Female
- I offer experiences
- In person & Online/Virtual
- 40s , Female , Straight, Bisexual, Bicurious
- White/Caucasian
- I speak English
- Postgrad
I'm a writer, a world traveler, and an ex-English professor who jumped ship from academia to become a certified pleasure coach—because frankly, I wanted more aliveness, more magic, and way more fun. I trained at the School of Womanly Arts, where I learned how deeply a woman’s pleasure is tied to her power, her body, and the stories she tells herself.
Now, I help women rewrite those stories. I’m really fucking good at guiding people into the truth of their lives—with humor, heart, and a fierce belief in their brilliance. I create juicy, intimate spaces where sisterhood thrives, vulnerability is sacred, and joy isn’t optional—it’s the point.
I’m also the friend who’s always got a new book rec, a wild idea, or a plane ticket in hand. I’m an exceptional organizer with the soul of a gypsy, the skills of a cruise director, and the roots of an earth mama. Nature grounds me, restores me, and deeply informs the way I lead.
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Experiences I offer
Pleasure and Desire Exploration Session
From $50 Online/virtual
Special Sauce: A six week online desire journey in sisterhood- learn to serve yourself FIRST
From $333 Online/virtual
22 Oct 2025 | 02:00
15 minute Guided Pussy Stroking Audio Session
From $25
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