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SilverXXX

New York NY US

Relax. I'm in control now...

BDSM Fetishist Dom
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About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
20s , Female , Bisexual, Pansexual
White/Caucasian
I speak English

You'll be mesmerized by my effortless ability to bring you to total submission, seeing a side of yourself you'll never unsee. I want to get you to that place— no thoughts, no hesitation, only obedience. A submissive mind is a quiet one. Leave your stress behind. From now on, your biggest concern is pleasing me.

It's in this willful, eager, submissive state, that I will train and mold you to be my perfect slut — which is probably the most honorary title you'll receive in life. So be thankful.

I know when to be a sassy brat, when to be a soft spoken and manipulative seductress, when to be a ruthless sadist, and when to be a strict yet affirming daddy.

Deeply intuitive and mysteriously adaptable, I know what you need. You don’t have to spell it out for me. Often, I get to know you better than you know yourself... And just imagine what I'll do with that information...

My Specialities:
-Sissification / Feminization
-Tease / Denial
-Chasity
-CBT / Ball Busting
-Sensual Domination
-Body and Foot Worship (Give me a foot or full body massage and prove to me just how worthy you are)
-Humiliation (SDH) and Verbal Degrading
-Cucking
-Bondage and Restraints
Other games I like to play...
Pet Play
Pegging
Breath Play
Religious Humiliation
Kink Shaming
Spanking
Financial Domination
Deep Throat Training
Slapping
Role Play (Toxic ex-girlfriend, teacher, cheating wife, daddy, etc)
Public Leashing
Mummification
(WAM) Wet and Messy
Pain

And much more... I'm very open minded and let's just say, there's little I wouldn't do to keep you in your place.

I'm a professional-trained and experienced dominatrix with full access to a heavily equipped BDSM dungeon. No out calls for first time clients. FMTY available with references and vetting process. Lots of capacity for online dynamics. No full service - ever.

I'll fuck your life up... or maybe, I'll make it so much better. Either way, you'll never want to turn back 💋

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Bondage CBT Chastity Domination Feet Worshipping FemDom Findom Humiliation Impact play Latex Role Play Spanking Tie and Tease Breath play Cuckold Feminization Foot worship Mummification Pet play Sensual Domination Strap On

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