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About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person

Age & gender

30s · Female

I speak

English

Hello, darling. I'm Julia Flowerbomb, professional dominant, kinky companion, and curator of erotic experiences based in New York City. With a background in dance and the performing arts, I combine my extensive knowledge of the human body and the art of scene craft to devise transformative sensual experiences for my clients. A a practicing sadomasochist in both my personal and professional life, one could say I have an obsession with the taboo and the pursuit of eroticism, described by noted psychotherapist Esther Perel as "an elixir of vibrancy, curiosity, and spontaneity that makes us feel alive". I'm passionate about providing a non-judgmental, supportive space where my clients feel empowered to explore their curiosities, find their edges, and chart their inner erotic landscapes. Together we'll decide what kinks you'd like to explore and collaborate on a scene together from there. Perversions, fears, freaky desires-- all are welcome at my party.

Sessions will always begin with a negotiation: a discussion of one’s interests, limits, and the safeword. If the idea of talking about sex, desire, or your body with a total stranger feels paralyzing, don't panic. I'm extremely practiced at getting you out of your head and out of your comfort zone. Consent is at the forefront of what I do. My consent practices are heavily informed by Dr. Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent.

I identify as queer and welcome clients of all gender expressions, sexualities, and experience levels.

My qualifications

4 years of experience

Kink practitioner and erotic companion specializing in sensual domination, bondage, role play, and transcendent impact. I'm passionate about helping people reconnect with their bodies and discover their desires, whether they're experimenting with kink for the first time, or looking to live out a long-held fantasy. Most of my education has come from working with other NYC pro dommes and kinky escorts and from the collective knowledge passed down through the leatherdyke community, but I have also sought out very intentional instruction in a number of different areas, which I've listed below.

Education and training

・Like A Pro: Wheel of Consent Workshop for Touch Professionals - Seattle 2024
・Rope: William Porter, Sydona Rogue, Kissmedeadlydoll, Trixie LaPointe
・Impact: William Porter, Lady Harper Chase
・Mummification: Mistress Chiaki
・Electroplay: Lucy Sweetkill
・Equipment & Toy Cleaning: Shayla Lange, Odette Engle
・Countless hours spent in collaboration and community with other BDSM pros, learning the old fashioned way-- through watching, listening, doing

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Where you can find me

Exact address is shared privately once a session is confirmed.

FAQ

Where do sessions take place?
I am located in New York City and take incall and outcall appointments in Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens. Incall appointments take place in upscale hotels and private dungeons for an additional fee. I will not do outcalls to private residences for new clients. I frequently tour the east coast. I recommend subscribing to my newsletter to receive the most up to date info on my whereabouts.
When are you available?
I offer sessions Monday-Sunday between the hours of 10 am and midnight.
Deposit & Cancellation Policy
See my website for details.
Do you people of [X] gender, race, physical ability, etc?
I welcome clients of all genders, races, sexualities, body types, experience levels, disability statuses. Please let me know if you have access needs and I’ll do my best to accommodate.
How do I book you?
Submit the booking form on my website to request a session.
What are your kinky interests?
You can find the most up to date list on my website on the page titled "Kink".

Services & Tags

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