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A-BrandiKink

El Paso TX US

Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.

Author BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Photographer

1 service

About me

My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Male, Female, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Gender fluid , Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
Hispanic/Latino
I speak English, Spanish
Undergrad

Hi! I'm Brandi. Founder of Developing a Brandi Kink: Dismantling Our Internalized Slut Shame.
I'm a Sex Coach based in El Paso, TX. I specialize in connection of Kink and Fetish, different dynamics in relationships- Open, Poly, CNM, ENM, etc.
My dream is to develop your comfort in yourself. We are confident Sluts.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Bondage Domination Humiliation Impact play Role Play Spanking Taboo Boudoir photography Erotic photography Nude photography Sensual photography Communication issues Conscious kink Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Sacred Sexuality Sex coaching Wheel Of Consent Dating advice Polyamory Coaching Conscious Sexuality Educational 1 on 1 Pleasure education Polyamory Relationships Sex education Sex toy advice Understanding Desire Cuckold Domination Exhibitionism Hotwife JOI Kink events Orgasm control Pet play Role Play Sex Toys Tickling Wax Play Erotic literature Erotic stories Fantasy writing Sexy Email Chats Book club host Erotic poetry ASMR Body Worship Consent workshop Couples content Cuddling Custom content Dinner Dinner dates Disabled clients Discretion Edging Emotional Connection Foot worship French kissing Hair Pulling Heels boots Worship Kink workshops Live stream Long Term Mentor Model Open relationship Pleasure Domination Private Workshops Short Term Solo content Swinging Travel Weekends Collaboration Content meets Custom Audio Degradation Intimacy workshop Pleasure Mapping Sexuality workshops

FAQs

First and foremost a deposit on a consultation has to be scheduled and paid. The consultation is a thirty minute phone call that will determine if I have the ability to help you, if we can work well with one another, and how to map out the sessions to come. All payments are sent via CashApp.

I do! I work with singles, couples, polycules, and CNM/ENM relationships.

I have a long history of sex work. Both legal and illegal. However, I am older now and know myself much better now. I've been a ProDomme, a unicorn, an educator, a event coordinator, and even a Intimacy Coordinator on the set of movies. I am working towards my Master's in Clinical Social Work. I am in programs with an amazing team helping me in my Sex Coaching work. For now I am focused on Sex Coaching while I finish school, but in the end the goal is to become a Sex Therapist for sex offenders in the prison system.

Experiences I offer

Dismantling Internalized Slut Shame service

Dismantling Internalized Slut Shame

From $25 Online/virtual & In-person

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