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I’m Dr. Resa, an intimacy and embodiment educator with a background that blends lived experience, academic study, and years of guiding people toward deeper confidence in themselves. My journey has been anything but traditional. I began my professional life in environments where the body, performance, and presence were central, experiences that taught me firsthand about boundaries, power, and the complex ways people relate to desire and connection.
Over time, that curiosity became a path of study and exploration. I pursued advanced education focused on human sexuality, communication, and embodiment. My work today centers on helping people understand their relationship with their bodies, their confidence, and their personal boundaries. I believe intimacy begins with self-awareness, honesty, and a sense of safety within oneself.
Safety, consent, and respect are the foundation of everything I do. I encourage open communication, emotional awareness, and personal responsibility in any interaction. Everyone deserves spaces where they feel respected, heard, and comfortable expressing themselves without pressure or judgment.
My approach is grounded in curiosity, compassion, and the belief that confidence and connection grow when people feel safe enough to be themselves.

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What is a sexologist?
A sexologist specializes in human sexuality and sexual behavior. A certified sexologist has completed 500 hours of formal training in human sexuality. A sexologist with a Master's or Doctorate degree has completed more than 3000 hours of formal training. A sexologist views human sexuality from a multi-disciplinary, systemic, and multi-faceted perspective. As a sexologist, I study sex ….. I study people’s sexual behaviors, feelings, and interactions. It is my job to help people learn about their sexuality, become more comfortable with it and feel good about expressing themselves sexually. Sexology is the scientific study of sex. It is an interdisciplinary field encompassing psychology, sociology, medicine, anthropology, biology, and more. As a sexologist, I have received extensive education and training in the field of human sexuality. I am continually accessing the latest research in human sexuality to build my knowledge and understanding in an effort to provide you with the most accurate and up-to-date information.
What is sex and relationship coaching?
My coaching practice combines my passionate interest in authentic relationships and sex, along with a decade of experience as a dancer and teacher. I also have extensive academic training and a Doctorate in Human Sexuality from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. My coaching practice can offer you solid education, a compassionate spirit, and the ability to help you transform your life. I support clients in finding and maintaining successful relationships by helping them learn to know and love themselves first. I help people develop communication skills, overcome intimacy challenges, improve their confidence, and learn to enjoy their authentic sexual selves. As a confident and sexual woman, my passion and desire is to help people of all ages, genders, and backgrounds to overcome their fears and taboos. I help people discover their own sexuality and find the power that comes from self-awareness. As you learn about yourself, you can identify and remove your barriers to intimacy. This will enable you to experience more authentic love for yourself and others. I am dedicated to helping my diverse client base, from singles and couples to organizations and academic institutions. I am devoted to keeping it real with a straightforward yet compassionate style. Let me help you learn more about your sexuality and overcome any obstacles standing in your way, preventing greater happiness.
How will I know if you are the right coach for me?
I am confident that you will know right away whether I can help you. I believe that the better you feel about yourself, the better relationships you’ll have with your partners, friends, and family. We may focus on sexuality, but the skills you will learn apply far beyond the bedroom. My goal is that you will become more confident and in tune with yourself sexually. That feeling of confidence will improve your life in many ways. My sex positive approach will help you dig deep to find personal growth and self-acceptance. Let me help you find the true, happy, healthy, amazing self you have always wanted to be!
Can you give me advice or answers through email?
Yes, I have many clients who work with me primarily through email. They can ask me questions and get valuable advice. My time is valuable, so I charge a basic fee to provide you with the best possible and least expensive option. After I receive the payment, I will send you a sexual history questionnaire. This will help me get to know you and understand your needs so I can create an action plan for this new and exciting chapter in your life.

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