How to Stay Safe When Booking Services on Sensuali

Sensuali is designed to be the safest, and most open way to explore a variety of sensual services across creativity, kink, wellness, and education. While we carefully curate our platform to prioritise the safety of providers and members, it’s just as important to take care of yourself when booking. Here’s how to do that.

Know your booking

Sensuali is focused on clearly defined, intentional offerings. We encourage listings to describe exactly what services are on offer. Take time to read the details and make sure that you know exactly what you’re booking before going ahead. If the profile is sparse, please reach out and ask questions before you book– trustworthy providers will welcome respectful curiosity.

Go for transparent, professional providers

All providers on Sensuali are verified by us, but an extra safety step is to go for providers who have a well filled out profile.  Look for plenty of media- photos, videos or audio notes, and details on their background, their approach and in some cases their training or qualifications.

Check out their links

If a provider profile doesn’t have much information, they might just not have had a chance to fill it out properly yet. In this case, you should see if they have provided their links. This is one of the best ways to make sure somebody is who they say they are. Have a look at their website, social media, or any testimonials and reviews. A strong online presence can help confirm that the person is genuine and aligned with what you’re looking for.

Have a conversation beforehand

If the provider offers an introductory call, take it- it’s a great way to get a feel for their energy, ask any questions, and share your intentions. If not, make sure there’s at least an opportunity to talk before the session starts. This could be through messaging or a short pre-session chat. It’s important to understand what’s being offered, express any boundaries or expectations, and make sure you’re both on the same page.

Respect the provider’s screening process

If a provider asks you to go through a screening process, it’s for a reason. Screening helps ensure safety and comfort on both sides, but it’s also a sign that the provider is serious about what they do. Whether it’s filling out a short form, confirming your identity, or agreeing to a code of conduct, taking the time to follow their process shows that you respect their boundaries- and sets the tone for a better experience overall.

Consider the setting

If your services are in-person, it’s important to know where it will be taking place. Whether it’s is in a studio, a public venue, or at somebody’s home, the environment should feel safe and comfortable for both parties. Don’t hesitate to ask what the space is like and how the session will be structured.

Trust your instincts and report any concerns

If something feels off- whether it’s vague answers, inconsistent communication, or a last-minute change, pause. You’re under no obligation to go through with a booking if you’re not comfortable. Safety includes feeling empowered to say no at any point.

If you experience anything concerning, or if a provider’s behaviour doesn’t align with the platform’s standards, please report it to us– this stays completely anonymous. You can find the report button in your private message chats and on the provider’s profile. We take all reports seriously and are committed to ensuring a safe and respectful environment for everyone.

Respect goes both ways

A safe experience is a respectful one, for you and for the person offering the service. Arrive on time, honour agreed boundaries, and approach the experience with openness and consideration. Mutual respect is the foundation for wholesome sensual exploration.

Behaviour to watch out for:

• Vague or inconsistent communication before your session

• Lack of a professional profile, verified credentials, or failing that- links to a website or social media

• A refusal to discuss expectations or answer respectful questions

• Pressure to book quickly or without proper information

• Lack of transparency about the session details, location, or safety protocols

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Iso

Author

Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.