City Guides
Every city holds its own sensual world, and knowing where to begin makes all the difference. These are our on-the-ground guides to exploring it: erotic massage, kink events, sex-positive parties, cabaret, shibari and the practitioners worth knowing, across Berlin, New York, LA, Paris and beyond. Written for the curious and the seasoned alike, with an honest eye on how to explore safely and where to start. Pick your city, and find your way in at your own pace.
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What it’s like to explore Berlin’s sensual scene for the first time
New to Berlin's sensual scene? From conscious touch workshops and tantric spaces to play parties and the city's famous sex-positive clubs, here's what to know before you start. A practical guide to ex…
Read the full storySaara Rei is a Berlin-based Kinbaku practitioner, kink educator, and performance artist who teaches rope through presence, vulnerability, and transformation.— From Meet Berlin performance artist & kink educator: Saara Rei
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Meet Goddess Spectacle, the dominatrix cocooning their submissives in cork
Meet Goddess Spectacle, a Paris-based dominatrix and artist exploring cork bondage, creative play, devotion and transfor…
Bristol’s tantra massage scene: a local guide
If you're looking to explore tantra massage in Bristol, this is a guide to navigating the scene, featuring a selection o…
Sensual massage in Brighton: a guide to local practitioners
Explore sensual massage in Brighton and Hove, from erotic and naturist massage to Nuru and bodywork. Compare local pract…
Best intimacy workshops in London: classes & experiences to try
Looking for intimacy workshops in London? Explore classes in connection, conscious touch, tantra and rope, with advice o…
Manchester sex parties and sex clubs: the ultimate guide
Manchester's best sex parties, swingers clubs and BDSM events, from queer raves to femdom kink nights. Here's what to ex…
Sexological bodywork in New York: meet Barry Carl
Meet Barry Carl, a New York-based sexological bodyworker exploring the healing power of pleasure, erotic potential and s…
Meet Emma Colangelo, the somatic sexologist exploring sex, power and self-trust
Meet somatic sexologist Emma Colangelo, who works across desire, intimacy, embodiment and power to help people build dee…
Sensual massage London: a guide to practitioners across the city
Our guide to sensual massage practitioners across London, from full-body massage and intimate bodywork to body-to-body e…
London dominatrix guide: a round-up of dommes across the city
Looking for a professional dominatrix in London? Explore dommes with different styles and specialisms, plus advice on fi…
Sexological bodywork in Cape Town: meet Simona Ferrari
Meet Cape Town sexological bodyworker Simona Ferrari, offering embodied sexuality coaching and bodywork focused on confi…
Lisbon tantra facilitator and femininity coach: Meet Bhogananda
Meet Bhogananda, a Lisbon-based tantra facilitator, coach and educator helping individuals and couples explore intimacy,…
Tantra massage in London: a beginner’s guide
Looking for tantra massage in London? This guide covers practitioners across Central, North, East, South and West London…
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