City Guides
Every city holds its own sensual world, and knowing where to begin makes all the difference. These are our on-the-ground guides to exploring it: erotic massage, kink events, sex-positive parties, cabaret, shibari and the practitioners worth knowing, across Berlin, New York, LA, Paris and beyond. Written for the curious and the seasoned alike, with an honest eye on how to explore safely and where to start. Pick your city, and find your way in at your own pace.
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What it’s like to explore Berlin’s sensual scene for the first time
New to Berlin's sensual scene? From conscious touch workshops and tantric spaces to play parties and the city's famous sex-positive clubs, here's what to know before you start. A practical guide to ex…
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Berlin, DE
Containment-Only Ritual (Berlin)
Amsterdam, NL
Somatic & Sexological Intimacy Coaching.
Sex Therapy Session
Bologna, IT
Couple’s Tantra Immersion
Berlin, DE
1:1 intimacy coaching session
Berlin, DE
Sacred Shamanic Bodywork Session
Berlin, DE
Therapy for Kinksters & Lovers
Berlin, DE
Systemic Sexual Therapy & Couples Coaching (Trauma-Sensitive)
Berlin, DE
private Yoga Session
Berlin, DE
Kinky Hypnosis Session
Berlin, DE
Relationship and sexual therapy incl. ENM
Berlin, DE
In light of Pride Month, here are our 10 favourite queer spots in London ranging from raunchy spaces to reading spaces.— From 10 essential queer spaces in London
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How to find tantric massage in Austin
Looking for erotic massage in Austin, TX? Dominatrix, Tantric Practitioner and Pleasure Socialite Mayra Leen shares her …
Tantra Massage in Berlin: Where to Find It
Berlin has long been known as one of Europe’s most open-minded cities when it comes to sexuality, body awareness a…
A comprehensive guide to erotic massage in LA
Looking for erotic massage in Los Angeles? We've rounded up our top picks across the city, plus everything you need to k…
Erotic massage in NYC: where to begin
Curious about erotic massage in NYC? We've put together everything you need – from how to navigate the scene safely, to …
Berlin Easter weekend: Three nights that might just change something in you
Three nights. One city. A weekend that builds from elegance to openness to something far harder to define. Olivier share…
8 unique and intimate date ideas in NYC
Sometimes a walk and a chat just will not cut it. When you are craving an intimate shift in energy, these are our favour…
The ultimate guide to NYC’s sex parties
The good, the great, and the greatest of the sex parties that NYC has to offer.
The ultimate guide to cabaret shows in Paris
Cabaret in Paris is having a revival, and it's more decadent than ever. Found in underground basements and queer bars, h…
How to spend a sensual weekend in L.A.
Your dream L.A. itinerary, curated by three of the city's most captivating sensual insiders.
6 remarkable Berlin-based shibari artists
Looking for trusted Shibari artists in Berlin? These 6 practitioners offer rope sessions rooted in trust and connection.
The ultimate guide to kink events in Paris
From burlesque raves to orgy garden parties, this is the ultimate guide to the best sensual and kinky events in Paris.
5 sex-worker friendly erotic photographers in NYC
Fetish shoot? Soft boudoir? Y2K porn fantasy? Whatever you're dreaming of, these 5 sex-worker-friendly (all female) NYC …
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Luxembourg · Florence · Tallinn
Oklahoma City
PriestessSol
Pupukea · Hilo · Paia
DivineLoveDomina
Austin · Denver · Portland
tmargulies
Ibiza
Hilo
GodisNiyaLove
New York
thesexpertdomme
San José
Lisbon
SapphireLeela
Cologne · Santiago de Compostela · Pardes Hanna-Karkur
Lalita
Austin
MelissaD
Austin
connectedintimacie
Stockholm · Barcelona · Tel Aviv-Yafo
YellaCremer
Hamburg
SexCoachLauren
Dracut · Billerica · Reading
Nathalie
San Antonio · Austin
PleasureCreatress
Mexico City
Berlin
impactchangeinfo
Miami
Austin
MajorTomParties
Austin · Houston · Alexandria
Austin
Istanbul · Antalya · Ankara
Leonalynne
Austin
demuredomina
Boston · Philadelphia · New York
SMKurszentrum
Berlin
donnavalentina
Amsterdam
DivineLoveDomina
Austin · Denver · Portland
goddessfernwild
Victoria
Pola
Berlin
MegTalksSex
Glasgow
Moksha
Warsaw · Vienna · Berlin
Aether
Berlin · Genève · Zürich
MissAntartica
Amsterdam · Paris · Berlin
goddessfernwild
Victoria
dominafaye
Randburg
unboundritual
Los Angeles · San Francisco · New York
somaticconnection
Berlin
Catia
Lisboa · Costa de Caparica
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Tulum
CarolineCarrington
Hayward · Oakland · San Francisco
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AndreLazarus
Barcelona
Auroraslight
Sedona · Phoenix
SanyaAlaya
Berlin
binataverna
Zürich
GoddessPersephone
Uvita · San Jose · San Juan
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Berlin
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Stockholm
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Los Angeles
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