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Men's sensuality gets talked about in narrow terms: performance, function, lasting longer. This is where we widen it. From lingam massage and intimacy coaching to the pressure to perform, solo pleasure, and the case for men's emotional liberation alongside the physical, our editorial treats men as whole people rather than a set of mechanics. Honest, judgment-free, and useful whether you're curious, working through something, or just want to feel more present in your own body.
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How to try perineum massage for the first time, safely
A beginner's guide to perineum massage for men, covering potential benefits for pleasure and pelvic health, safety considerations and step-by-step techniques.
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Experiences for HimA seemingly innocent trip to a sex toy convention sparked an existential crisis within me. The convergence of sex culture, tech, and capitalism has stripped away the humanity of sex and it's time to start fighting back.— From The Commodification of Sex Through Tech: An OpEd
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31 articlesUpdated Nov 12
Helping men overcome sexual anxiety: meet Alex Gear
Meet men's sex and intimacy coach Alex Gear, who helps men overcome performance anxiety, sexual shame and fear to build …
How to last longer in bed without the pressure
A somatic sexologist explains why early ejaculation is so common, why anxiety keeps it going, and how breath, body aware…
Semen retention: what the claims get right and what they miss
Semen retention and NoFap: which claims hold up? Explore the science behind testosterone, potential health benefits and …
Being a submissive man beyond the bedroom
A submissive man reflects on dating, masculinity and the pressure to lead, and what submission can mean beyond the bedro…
How to be a better lover: a grown-up guide for men
What actually makes someone a good lover? These grown-up sex tips for men explore communication, anticipation, touch, cu…
The stop-start and squeeze methods, explained
If orgasm or ejaculation happens sooner than you’d like, learning to understand your arousal can help. Explore two commo…
Body count: man’s pathetic attempt to quantify women’s shame
Erotic artist Armando Cabba unpacks the contradictions at the heart of body count culture which is rooted in dehumanisat…
Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert
Dr. Liz Ray, a somatic sexologist, explores somatic prostate massage as a pathway for men to reclaim a stigmatised part …
Lingam massage: what it is and how to find a practitioner
Never heard of lingam massage? You're not alone. Here's an honest guide to what this intimate experience involves, how i…
What happens during an erotic massage session?
Curious about what actually happens during an erotic massage session? From arrival to aftercare, this is a clear and hon…
Intimacy coaching for men: Introducing Trevor James
Discover intimacy coaching for men in Los Angeles with Trevor James, offering cuddle therapy, bodywork and coaching, foc…
One man learned yoni massage: this is what it taught him
What is yoni massage? I interviewed a male friend who learned the practice through formal training. In this conversation…
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