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Men's sensuality gets talked about in narrow terms: performance, function, lasting longer. This is where we widen it. From lingam massage and intimacy coaching to the pressure to perform, solo pleasure, and the case for men's emotional liberation alongside the physical, our editorial treats men as whole people rather than a set of mechanics. Honest, judgment-free, and useful whether you're curious, working through something, or just want to feel more present in your own body.

26 articles · Updated Jul 29
Body count: man’s pathetic attempt to quantify women’s shame Editor's pick
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Body count: man’s pathetic attempt to quantify women’s shame

Erotic artist Armando Cabba unpacks the contradictions at the heart of body count culture which is rooted in dehumanisation, male ego, and a double standard that has always been staring us in the face…

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Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert
By Dr. Liz Ray Jul 27 11 min read

Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert

Dr. Liz Ray, a somatic sexologist, explores somatic prostate massage as a pathway for men to reclaim a stigmatised part …

Lingam massage: what it is and how to find a practitioner
By Isobel Clark Jun 8 7 min read

Lingam massage: what it is and how to find a practitioner

Never heard of lingam massage? You're not alone. Here's an honest guide to what this intimate experience involves, how i…

What happens during an erotic massage session?
By Isobel Clark May 31 7 min read

What happens during an erotic massage session?

Curious about what actually happens during an erotic massage session? From arrival to aftercare, this is a clear and hon…

Intimacy coaching for men: Introducing Trevor James
By Isobel Clark Jan 30 7 min read

Intimacy coaching for men: Introducing Trevor James

Discover intimacy coaching for men in Los Angeles with Trevor James, offering cuddle therapy, bodywork and coaching, foc…

One man learned yoni massage: this is what it taught him
By Jules Jan 28 7 min read

One man learned yoni massage: this is what it taught him

What is yoni massage? I interviewed a male friend who learned the practice through formal training. In this conversation…

Erotic massage, sensual touch: our top 16 practitioners worldwide
By Isobel Clark Nov 21 8 min read

Erotic massage, sensual touch: our top 16 practitioners worldwide

Erotic Massage for the soul. These are the global practitioners using sensual, trauma-informed touch & bodywork as a pow…

The best pleasure-focused toys for men (and why they belong in every bedroom)
By April Maria Nov 19 5 min read

The best pleasure-focused toys for men (and why they belong in every bedroom)

When I tell people I work in the realms of sex and relationships, something funny happens in that moment. Everyone sudde…

Meet Intimacy Alchemist & Retreat Leader: Shaft Uddin
By Isobel Clark Jul 29 6 min read

Meet Intimacy Alchemist & Retreat Leader: Shaft Uddin

Meet Shaft Uddin. Through private sessions and retreats, he guides individuals and lovers into altered states of truth, …

Real Men Go To Rope Ceremonies (And These 6 Other Erotic Experiences)
By Isobel Clark Jun 15 6 min read

Real Men Go To Rope Ceremonies (And These 6 Other Erotic Experiences)

For Men’s Health Week, we explore 7 erotic experiences that go beyond the bedroom and offer alternative ways for men to …

Men, Sex, and the Pressure to Perform
By April Maria Jun 11 4 min read

Men, Sex, and the Pressure to Perform

We rarely talk about the pressure men face to perform in the bedroom, to stay hard, last long, and always know exactly w…

Men Need Emotional Liberation, Women Need Sexual Liberation
By Isobel Clark May 14 5 min read

Men Need Emotional Liberation, Women Need Sexual Liberation

Do you know how many dominatrices say their work feels like therapy? Sex work is not just about sex. It’s about the very…

Touching truths: 6 anonymous masturbation diaries
By Isobel Clark May 7 9 min read

Touching truths: 6 anonymous masturbation diaries

Happy International Masturbation Month! We need to speak louder about solo-pleasure to debunk common myths and feelings …

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