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Men's sensuality gets talked about in narrow terms: performance, function, lasting longer. This is where we widen it. From lingam massage and intimacy coaching to the pressure to perform, solo pleasure, and the case for men's emotional liberation alongside the physical, our editorial treats men as whole people rather than a set of mechanics. Honest, judgment-free, and useful whether you're curious, working through something, or just want to feel more present in your own body.
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Being a submissive man beyond the bedroom
A submissive man reflects on dating, masculinity and the pressure to lead, and what submission can mean beyond the bedro…
How to be a better lover: a grown-up guide for men
What actually makes someone a good lover? These grown-up sex tips for men explore communication, anticipation, touch, cu…
The stop-start and squeeze methods, explained.
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Body count: man’s pathetic attempt to quantify women’s shame
Erotic artist Armando Cabba unpacks the contradictions at the heart of body count culture which is rooted in dehumanisat…
Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert
Dr. Liz Ray, a somatic sexologist, explores somatic prostate massage as a pathway for men to reclaim a stigmatised part …
Lingam massage: what it is and how to find a practitioner
Never heard of lingam massage? You're not alone. Here's an honest guide to what this intimate experience involves, how i…
What happens during an erotic massage session?
Curious about what actually happens during an erotic massage session? From arrival to aftercare, this is a clear and hon…
Intimacy coaching for men: Introducing Trevor James
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One man learned yoni massage: this is what it taught him
What is yoni massage? I interviewed a male friend who learned the practice through formal training. In this conversation…
The best pleasure-focused toys for men (and why they belong in every bedroom)
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