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A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
10 things it takes to be a stripper
Does the stripper life appeal to you? If you possess at least 5/10 of these qualities, then you might just have what it takes.
Nurturing sexual well-being and empowering minds
This article explores how sexual experiences influence self-esteem, body image, and relationship satisfaction, and how nurturing our sexual well-being can positively impact our overall mental well-being.
An organic approach to sensual roleplay
I know it's hard to believe, but role-play in the bedroom doesn't have to be excruciatingly cringe. Done right, it can open doors to new sexual understandings between you and your lover(s). Here's the lowdown.
5 Things to know before giving a prostate massage
I finally found a willing participant to indulge my fantasy of milking a prostate. This blog delves into the insights I gained from my foray into prostate massage.
The art of seduction: the mystery of human attraction
The art of seduction is at the core of the sex work profession. This how-to-guide delves into the psychology of seduction, while offering tangible solutions for bolstering your seduction game.
Make sugar dating great again
Sugar dating is known in the press nowadays as 'candy-coated prostitution'. Does that mean sugar dating should be blacklisted? Or can it be a positive form of sex work in its own right?
The O-Method: manifestation through orgasm
Learn how to conjure up your dream life through orgasms with this how-to guide.
Goodbye Slutty Baby: Shedding my Sex Work Persona
In reflecting on myself and the person I want to become, I've realized that my sugar persona aka "Slutty Baby" has stunted my personal development. So I've written a goodbye letter, as a means of letting go and evolving.
Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For
To most, having a sex work past is a red flag. But what if instead of focusing on the parts of ourselves that society tries to make us feel lesser for, we flip the script and actively seek out partners who check OUR boxes?
Reframing the way we think about periods
It's time to rethink the archaic and deeply self-loathing sentiment we as a society hold towards menstruation. This three-step guide shows you how.
Stripping Away the People Pleasing Mask
Being able to kiss ass and turn on the charm no matter what served me well in my sugar days, but at what cost to my emotional growth?
Moving Past the Victim Narrative: A Guide to True Empowerment
A 4-step guide for how to move past the victim mindset. Plot twist: the world is not out to get you!
A Sugar Baby’s Guide to Staying Safe
It's all fun and games -- until you get blackmailed or assaulted that is. This how-to guide isn't to preach about the dangers of sex work, it's to empower you to use your best judgment and trust your intuition.
An Escort’s Guide to the Festive Season
Tops tips on surviving the festive season (during a financial crisis) as an escort.
Setting boundaries as a sensual masseuse
I spoke to Tilly, a Manchester based sensual masseuse about the importance of setting boundaries in the massage profession.
How To Seduce A Sugar Baby
Hey daddies, want to up your sugar game? Here’s the scoop from an ex-sugar baby on how to seduce your date from the first meet.
A Digital Hoe-Mad’s Guide to the Overnight Bag
Your guide to packing the best, most orgasm-invoking overnight bag ever.
Avoiding Time Wasting When Sugar Dating
Some pointers on how to optimise your time when starting out in the world of sugar dating.
The Sisterhood of Sex Work
My sex work journey was once full of isolation and self-loathing. But now that I've befriended other women with a similar past, I feel more connected to the world and grateful for my sugar experiences -- good and bad -- than ever before.
When Your Sugar Daddy Becomes Your Boyfriend
The pros and cons of that one time I entered a real-life relationship with my sugar daddy.
Navigating Sex Work in a Bad Economy
With the world in limbo and the markets down, pragmatism is required to keep morale up and cash flowing in. Think of this as your how-to guide for staying afloat and sane in the dark times to come.
A Guide to Sex on Psychedelics
This blog takes a deep dive into the healing effects of psychedelics and includes a list of my top 5 psychedelics to make love on.
Pros and Cons of Living with a Daddy
This week, I sat down with a sugar baby friend to get the lowdown on her thought process about moving in with a daddy.
5 types of sugar first dates
A slightly sarky take on the common first dates you'll go on as a sugar baby.
Learning to Find Peace With my Sex Work Past
After hearing from an ex-boyfriend about the existence of a sex tape from my sugar baby days, I decided to get candid about what it's been like to navigate that experience.
London’s Sugar Daddy Hotspots
The best spots in London town to find a daddy or to take a daddy.
The Power of the Pursuer
In sex and relationships, I always thought playing hard to get was the way to win. Then I tried being the pursuer and realised how wrong I was...
What Escorts Wish They Could Tell Clients
When escorts are literally paid to be all sweet and sexy, it's difficult for them to voice any angers they feel about the behaviour of their clients. Here's a few (slightly angry) pointers that every escort wishes they could tell their clients.
A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Work in the 21st Century
An easy introduction to the most popular forms of sex work today.
5 Things You’ll Learn From Doing Sex Work
The surprisingly valuable skills you'll develop from doing sex work.
Telling Friends and Family About Your Sex Work
I spoke to three different sex workers about whether or not they told their loved ones about their jobs.
Safe escorting in the UK: The top organisations that can Support You
A breakdown of the most helpful and progressive networks across the UK for sex workers.