Advice
Some questions are hard to ask out loud, so this is where we answer them plainly. Advice from coaches, educators and people who have been there, on desire, communication, confidence, pleasure, kink, dating and everything that makes up a sensual life. No lectures and no assumptions about what you should already know. Whether you are working something out, trying something new, or just curious, start here and take what feels useful.
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Sexual performance anxiety: why it happens and how to work with it
When sex starts to feel like a test, it can be difficult to stay connected to pleasure. Sexual performance anxiety is sh…
How to be a better lover: a grown-up guide for men
What actually makes someone a good lover? These grown-up sex tips for men explore communication, anticipation, touch, cu…
The stop-start and squeeze methods, explained.
If orgasm or ejaculation happens sooner than you’d like, learning to understand your arousal can help. Explore two commo…
How important is sex in a relationship?
How important is sex in a relationship? Explore sexual intimacy, desire differences and what really makes a healthy, con…
How to book a dominatrix in Berlin: sessions, prices, and etiquette
A guide to booking a dominatrix in Berlin, broken down by Lady Vyra, one of the city's most experienced and sought-after…
Painful sex after menopause: why it happens and what really helps
Intimacy coach and Menopause expert Meeta explains why painful sex after menopause is so common, what physical and emoti…
Roommate syndrome: why couples stop feeling like lovers (and how to fix it)
Somatic Intimacy Coach Cora Souza explores why long-term couples drift into "roommate syndrome" and lose their erotic sp…
Menopause and desire: what’s really happening to your sex life
Menopause can change your desire, your body and the way you experience sex — but that doesn’t mean pleasure is off the t…
What makes a good erotic massage experience? Environment, setting and details to look for
When people imagine a great erotic massage, they often picture candlelit rooms, soft music and luxurious surroundings. W…
Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert
Dr. Liz Ray, a somatic sexologist, explores somatic prostate massage as a pathway for men to reclaim a stigmatised part …
Can you enjoy sex after menopause? Yes, here’s how
Menopause doesn’t mean saying goodbye to a fulfilling sex life. While your body may change, pleasure doesn’t disappear—i…
Sex therapy retreats for couples: what to expect and how to choose
Sex therapy retreats for couples, explained by clinical somatic sexologist Julian Marcus: formats compared, what to expe…
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