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Educate yourself on the hows and whys of getting what you want inside and outside the bedroom.
![I booked a sensual photoshoot, here’s how it went](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Tara-29-1024x683.jpg)
I booked a sensual photoshoot, here’s how it went
![Tara Margulies](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2024-07-17-at-18.30.52-300x300.png)
Posted by Tara Margulies
Wednesday 17 July 2024
Tara Margulies aka movewithtara tells us all about her recent sensual photoshoot that she booked on Sensuali with photographer Layla Kosima.
![A 5 step guide to client booking etiquette](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-3693985-683x1024.jpg)
A 5 step guide to client booking etiquette
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 28 May 2024
Whether you're a seasoned client or a first-timer, knowing booking etiquette is crucial in securing a positive sensual experience. Here's our 5 step guide.
![How to embrace vulnerable intimacy as a gay man](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-5940238-1024x683.jpg)
How to embrace vulnerable intimacy as a gay man
![Drew](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2023-11-28-at-12.47.40-pm-300x300.png)
Posted by Drew
Wednesday 15 May 2024
Bisexual pleasure educator Drew, aka Wise and Manly explains how to embrace vulnerability and defy the internalised shame surrounding soft and sensual intimacy in the male gay community.
![Erotic photography modelling: a love letter to yourself](https://cdn.sensuali.com/me-1024x731.jpg)
Erotic photography modelling: a love letter to yourself
![Bethany Burgoyne](https://cdn.sensuali.com/FILM_Bethany-000067420009-scaled-e1714341368884-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Bethany Burgoyne
Wednesday 1 May 2024
From a sexy selfie to a professional photoshoot, capturing your sensuality on camera can be a confidence boosting experience. Expert erotic photographer and model, Sassy is here to tell you how.
![A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2024-04-18-at-17.04.41-1024x769.png)
A 3 minute guide to starting your kink journey
![Drew](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2023-11-28-at-12.47.40-pm-300x300.png)
Posted by Drew
Thursday 18 April 2024
It's hard to explore your deepest desires if you're still having an internal struggle with accepting them yourself. Here's our quick-start guide to beginning your kink journey.
![How to introduce erotic art into your relationships](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3778898-1024x683.jpg)
How to introduce erotic art into your relationships
![Armando Cabba](https://cdn.sensuali.com/A1-1-2-e1711731788630-300x300.png)
Posted by Armando Cabba
Monday 8 April 2024
Artist Armando Cabba explains the many ways to use erotic art as an exploration of desire and excitement in your relationship.
![A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-studio-3778713-1024x683.jpg)
A sex coach’s guide to navigating new sexual experiences
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Posted by Ruth Ramsay
Wednesday 27 March 2024
Intending to try out a new sexual experience? Whether it's a threesome or a sex party, prepping yourself is essential. Qualified sex coach Ruth Ramsay gives her essential advice on how to ensure you get what you want, and have fun doing it.
![5 things you should know before trying pegging](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-studio-6943421-1024x683.jpg)
5 things you should know before trying pegging
![Drew](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2023-11-28-at-12.47.40-pm-300x300.png)
Posted by Drew
Monday 12 February 2024
Want to try pegging? Here’s what you need to know to ensure your peach play session is sensational.
![The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-angela-roma-7479902-1024x683.jpg)
The girls’ guide to seeking somatic sex coaching
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 January 2024
A Sensuali comprehensive guide to somatic sex coaching for women seeking sexual empowerment.
![Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners](https://cdn.sensuali.com/TiedAngel-821x1024.jpeg)
Voices from Sensuali Shibari Practitioners
![Sakura](https://cdn.sensuali.com/IMG_1232-e1704802733583-300x300.jpeg)
Posted by Sakura
Tuesday 9 January 2024
Embarking on a captivating exploration into the realm of Shibari, content creator & online adult worker, Sakura recently had the privilege of engaging in insightful conversations with three seasoned practitioners. They generously shared their experiences, perspectives, and wisdom which provides some valuable advice tailored for those eager to embark on their own Shibari odyssey
![How to findom 101: setting financial foundations](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-esmeralda-segura-4264942-scaled-e1703078943339-1024x1021.jpg)
How to findom 101: setting financial foundations
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 20 December 2023
Want someone to surrender their savings to you? Welcome to the world of findom. These are the common aspects of a findom relationship that you might want to get to know.
![How to introduce a Dildo into sex with your partner](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-studio-6763668-683x1024.jpg)
How to introduce a Dildo into sex with your partner
![Drew](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Screenshot-2023-11-28-at-12.47.40-pm-300x300.png)
Posted by Drew
Tuesday 5 December 2023
Bringing sex toys into the bedroom outside of solo play doesn’t have to be taboo. Here’s how to approach the subject with your partner and make dildos fun for everyone.
![A guide to buying a strap on in 2023](https://cdn.sensuali.com/yyhhh-1-e1697022114102.jpg)
A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 11 October 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
![10 things it takes to be a stripper](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-dih-andrea-5843498-683x1024.jpg)
10 things it takes to be a stripper
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 September 2023
Does the stripper life appeal to you? If you possess at least 5/10 of these qualities, then you might just have what it takes.
![Nurturing sexual well-being and empowering minds](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-meo-724994-1-1024x736.jpg)
Nurturing sexual well-being and empowering minds
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 27 June 2023
This article explores how sexual experiences influence self-esteem, body image, and relationship satisfaction, and how nurturing our sexual well-being can positively impact our overall mental well-being.
![An organic approach to sensual roleplay](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-sevil-yeva-15114437-683x1024.jpg)
An organic approach to sensual roleplay
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Sunday 11 June 2023
I know it's hard to believe, but role-play in the bedroom doesn't have to be excruciatingly cringe. Done right, it can open doors to new sexual understandings between you and your lover(s). Here's the lowdown.
![5 Things to know before giving a prostate massage](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-tima-miroshnichenko-6187290-1024x683.jpg)
5 Things to know before giving a prostate massage
Posted by Jules
Saturday 3 June 2023
I finally found a willing participant to indulge my fantasy of milking a prostate. This blog delves into the insights I gained from my foray into prostate massage.
![The art of seduction: the mystery of human attraction](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cottonbro-studio-7299484-scaled-e1685727343183-683x1024.jpg)
The art of seduction: the mystery of human attraction
Posted by Jules
Saturday 27 May 2023
The art of seduction is at the core of sugar dating. This how-to-guide delves into the psychology of seduction, while offering tangible solutions for bolstering your seduction game.
![Make sugar dating great again](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Couple-kiss-576x1024.jpeg)
Make sugar dating great again
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Sunday 21 May 2023
Sugar dating is known in the press nowadays as 'candy-coated prostitution'. Does that mean sugar dating should be blacklisted? Or can it be a positive form of sex work in its own right?
![The O-Method: manifestation through orgasm](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-iqbal-farooz-15568972-e1685727439635-829x1024.jpg)
The O-Method: manifestation through orgasm
Posted by Jules
Friday 19 May 2023
Learn how to conjure up your dream life through orgasms with this how-to guide.
![Goodbye Slutty Baby: Shedding my Sex Work Persona](https://cdn.sensuali.com/IMG_9460-1024x768.jpg)
Goodbye Slutty Baby: Shedding my Sex Work Persona
Posted by Jules
Sunday 26 March 2023
In reflecting on myself and the person I want to become, I've realized that my sugar persona aka "Slutty Baby" has stunted my personal development. So I've written a goodbye letter, as a means of letting go and evolving.
![Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Sensuali-blog-Dating-a-sex-worker.jpg)
Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For
Posted by Jules
Thursday 2 March 2023
To most, having a sex work past is a red flag. But what if instead of focusing on the parts of ourselves that society tries to make us feel lesser for, we flip the script and actively seek out partners who check OUR boxes?
![Reframing the way we think about periods](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-cliff-booth-6590856-1-1-1024x683.jpg)
Reframing the way we think about periods
Posted by Jules
Thursday 9 February 2023
It's time to rethink the archaic and deeply self-loathing sentiment we as a society hold towards menstruation. This three-step guide shows you how.
![Stripping Away the People Pleasing Mask](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-hitesh-choudhary-1144283-1024x683.jpg)
Stripping Away the People Pleasing Mask
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 7 February 2023
Being able to kiss ass and turn on the charm no matter what served me well in my sugar days, but at what cost to my emotional growth?
![Moving Past the Victim Narrative: A Guide to True Empowerment](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-darya-sannikova-6748153.jpg)
Moving Past the Victim Narrative: A Guide to True Empowerment
Posted by Jules
Thursday 19 January 2023
A 4-step guide for how to move past the victim mindset. Plot twist: the world is not out to get you!
![A Sugar Baby’s Guide to Staying Safe](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-pixabay-164425-1024x683.jpg)
A Sugar Baby’s Guide to Staying Safe
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 20 December 2022
It's all fun and games -- until you get blackmailed or assaulted that is. This how-to guide isn't to preach about the dangers of sex work, it's to empower you to use your best judgment and trust your intuition.
![An Escort’s Guide to the Festive Season](https://cdn.sensuali.com/yessss.jpg)
An Escort’s Guide to the Festive Season
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Thursday 15 December 2022
Tops tips on surviving the festive season (during a financial crisis) as an escort.
![Setting boundaries as a sensual masseuse](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-angela-roma-7479915-683x1024.jpg)
Setting boundaries as a sensual masseuse
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 23 November 2022
I spoke to Tilly, a Manchester based sensual masseuse about the importance of setting boundaries in the massage profession.
![How To Seduce A Sugar Baby](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-katerina-holmes-5911186-1.jpg)
How To Seduce A Sugar Baby
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Friday 11 November 2022
Hey daddies, want to up your sugar game? Here’s the scoop from an ex-sugar baby on how to seduce your date from the first meet.
![A Digital Hoe-Mad’s Guide to the Overnight Bag](https://cdn.sensuali.com/nick-noel-zQd6Ihc9WNA-unsplash-1024x683.jpg)
A Digital Hoe-Mad’s Guide to the Overnight Bag
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 8 November 2022
Your guide to packing the best, most orgasm-invoking overnight bag ever.
![Avoiding Time Wasting When Sugar Dating](https://cdn.sensuali.com/mathilde-langevin-Q5xjxSfs1Lk-unsplash-731x1024.jpg)
Avoiding Time Wasting When Sugar Dating
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Friday 28 October 2022
Some pointers on how to optimise your time when starting out in the world of sugar dating.
![The Sisterhood of Sex Work](https://cdn.sensuali.com/becca-tapert-u5e1kqW6E3M-unsplash-1-1-1024x683.jpg)
The Sisterhood of Sex Work
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 11 October 2022
My sex work journey was once full of isolation and self-loathing. But now that I've befriended other women with a similar past, I feel more connected to the world and grateful for my sugar experiences -- good and bad -- than ever before.
![When Your Sugar Daddy Becomes Your Boyfriend](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-edward-eyer-4395196-810x1024.jpg)
When Your Sugar Daddy Becomes Your Boyfriend
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Friday 7 October 2022
The pros and cons of that one time I entered a real-life relationship with my sugar daddy.
![Navigating Sex Work in a Bad Economy](https://cdn.sensuali.com/jamie-street-VP4WmibxvcY-unsplash-1024x768.jpg)
Navigating Sex Work in a Bad Economy
Posted by Jules
Thursday 29 September 2022
With the world in limbo and the markets down, pragmatism is required to keep morale up and cash flowing in. Think of this as your how-to guide for staying afloat and sane in the dark times to come.
![A Guide to Sex on Psychedelics](https://cdn.sensuali.com/mathew-schwartz-RWrbY8j9GPo-unsplash1-1024x701.jpg)
A Guide to Sex on Psychedelics
Posted by Jules
Friday 9 September 2022
This blog takes a deep dive into the healing effects of psychedelics and includes a list of my top 5 psychedelics to make love on.
![Pros and Cons of Living with a Daddy](https://cdn.sensuali.com/patrick-perkins-3wylDrjxH-E-unsplash1-1024x762.jpg)
Pros and Cons of Living with a Daddy
Posted by Jules
Monday 5 September 2022
This week, I sat down with a sugar baby friend to get the lowdown on her thought process about moving in with a daddy.
![5 types of sugar first dates](https://cdn.sensuali.com/pexels-ron-lach-10602391-720x1024.jpg)
5 types of sugar first dates
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 23 August 2022
A slightly sarky take on the common first dates you'll go on as a sugar baby.
![Learning to Find Peace With my Sex Work Past](https://cdn.sensuali.com/max-vs-PjCh5goo-unsplash-1-scaled1-1024x684.jpg)
Learning to Find Peace With my Sex Work Past
Posted by Jules
Saturday 20 August 2022
After hearing from an ex-boyfriend about the existence of a sex tape from my sugar baby days, I decided to get candid about what it's been like to navigate that experience.
![London’s Sugar Daddy Hotspots](https://cdn.sensuali.com/alexander-london-3l1sjp562qQ-unsplash1-1024x683.jpg)
London’s Sugar Daddy Hotspots
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Friday 15 July 2022
The best spots in London town to find a daddy or to take a daddy.
![The Power of the Pursuer](https://cdn.sensuali.com/okkkk1.jpg)
The Power of the Pursuer
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Monday 27 June 2022
In sex and relationships, I always thought playing hard to get was the way to win. Then I tried being the pursuer and realised how wrong I was...
![What Escorts Wish They Could Tell Clients](https://cdn.sensuali.com/okye1.jpeg)
What Escorts Wish They Could Tell Clients
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 8 June 2022
When escorts are literally paid to be all sweet and sexy, it's difficult for them to voice any angers they feel about the behaviour of their clients. Here's a few (slightly angry) pointers that every escort wishes they could tell their clients.
![A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Work in the 21st Century](https://cdn.sensuali.com/yu1-1024x575.jpeg)
A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Work in the 21st Century
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 30 March 2022
An easy introduction to the most popular forms of sex work today.
![5 Things You’ll Learn From Doing Sex Work](https://cdn.sensuali.com/sw1.jpeg)
5 Things You’ll Learn From Doing Sex Work
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 8 March 2022
The surprisingly valuable skills you'll develop from doing sex work.
![Telling Friends and Family About Your Sex Work](https://cdn.sensuali.com/sexxx1.jpeg)
Telling Friends and Family About Your Sex Work
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Monday 31 January 2022
I spoke to three different sex workers about whether or not they told their loved ones about their jobs.
![Safe escorting in the UK: The top organisations that can Support You](https://cdn.sensuali.com/image1.jpg)
Safe escorting in the UK: The top organisations that can Support You
![Iso](https://cdn.sensuali.com/Iso-blog-300x300.jpg)
Posted by Iso
Friday 14 January 2022
A breakdown of the most helpful and progressive networks across the UK for sex workers.