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Some questions are hard to ask out loud, so this is where we answer them plainly. Advice from coaches, educators and people who have been there, on desire, communication, confidence, pleasure, kink, dating and everything that makes up a sensual life. No lectures and no assumptions about what you should already know. Whether you are working something out, trying something new, or just curious, start here and take what feels useful.
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Intimacy coaching for couples: what it is and what to expect
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Prostate massage: everything to know, by an expert
Dr. Liz Ray, a somatic sexologist, explores somatic prostate massage as a pathway for men to reclaim a stigmatised part …
Can you enjoy sex after menopause? Yes, here’s how
Menopause doesn’t mean saying goodbye to a fulfilling sex life. While your body may change, pleasure doesn’t disappear—i…
Sex therapy retreats for couples: what to expect and how to choose
Sex therapy retreats for couples, explained by clinical somatic sexologist Julian Marcus: formats compared, what to expe…
Increase female libido naturally: 12 strategies from a sexological bodyworker
Struggling with low libido? Sexological bodyworker, Melissa D. shares 12 evidence-based strategies to increase female de…
Kink for beginners: a couple’s guide to exploring together safely
Julian Marcus, somatic sexologist with 26 years of practice, shares how couples can begin exploring kink — from finding …
Vaginismus treatment: what are your options?
Vaginismus affects far more people than ever talked about it, and yet, for something so common, it remains widely misund…
The art of impact play: Why and how to spank
The first strike lands. The skin wakes up. Heat rises before the sound has finished arriving. The breath catches in the …
Painful sex in women: causes, terminology and paths forward
Painful sex affects millions of women, but it doesn't have to be your normal. Discover the causes, key terms, and real p…
The benefits of erotic massage: why touch matters more than you think
Erotic massage can transform your sex life and your connection to pleasure in ways you might never have imagined. From b…
Types of female orgasm: Clitoral vs cervical orgasm and what’s the difference?
In the world of sexual wellness, clitoral and G-spot orgasms are often debated, compared, and misunderstood. But the rea…
Can’t orgasm? For women: Getting past your orgasm blocks, here is what helps
An exploration of why orgasm can sometimes feel out of reach, and what actually helps. From mental load and body image t…
Desire discrepancy in relationships: why it happens and what to do
Desire discrepancy, when one partner wants sex more than the other, is one of the most common challenges in long-term re…
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