What’s your age, gender, and sexual preference?

I’m 28, straight, and male.

What are your thoughts on vibrators?

Gotta have them. Mission critical. Because for some people it’s really hard to achieve orgasm without external help. 

How frequently do you use them during sex? 

Maybe like 25% of the time. 

Do you find you or your partner typically initiates the use of a vibrator or you do? 

Usually me. 

What’s your preferred vibrator of choice?

I don’t hav a particular answer. I’ve had a number of Amazon vibrators over the years. I just go off reviews.

 Any other sex toys you use that are worth mentioning? 

Tying stuff for bondage. 

What’s your favorite way to make a woman cum or to have a person make you?

Head both ways. 

Do you think vibrators reduce intimacy? 

I think it depends how you use it, why you use it, how much you lean on it. But ultimately no. 

Do you think our vibrator culture is out of control?

I think the moral of the story is that it’s good for women because they will have more orgasms if they use them and that’s good stuff. If it was as easy for women to cum as it is for men, I could see it the problem because it would make sex this kind of nothing process that.  

Any funny stories you have to share about vibrators? 

Near the beginning of my vibrator career when I was like 20 or 21, there was a woman I used a vibrator on and there was a pretty major geyser situation. I didn’t understand how much fluid could come out of a vagina. It had happened to her before so she wasn’t shocked but it was definitely a little awkward because of the shear amount.

It literally drenched the bed through the sheet, comforter, and into the mattress. I had to strip down the bed and it took over a day to dry out. She was on the bed and I was standing up and when it came out it went all the way up to my eye level. It honestly freaked me out a little. It was surprising and I’m a bit of a germaphobe so I wasn’t super into it. She felt bad she had gotten it all over my bed but it was really no big deal. 

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